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Class / Workshop21+💻 Online

Pentacles of Power: A Six-Week Sex Magick Intensive for Kinky People

Hosted by Wicked Grounds

Sep 8–Oct 13, 2026💻 Online

Practical sex magick for solo and partnered practitioners --- This six-week virtual course launching in September 2026 will include self-directed work and collaborative live sessions via Zoom. Over the course of six weeks you will learn by doing: Working with the energetic body Sigil magick Raising energy with sex and S/m The basics of pentacle magick Miriam Green's twinned pentacles of power exchange and more We will have weekly meetings -- generally on Tuesday evenings -- and homework throughout the workshop. All weekly meetings will be recorded for those who cannot attend live. Expect a total of three hours coursework per week, plus daily practice in sitting meditation and journaling. Go deeply into creating your own magickal frameworks I have been teaching magick since 2004 and teaching BDSM since 2014. The work we'll engage in together goes well beyond what I can teach in a typical 90-minute intro class. We'll work with the tools and techniques I use most often, including personal D/s pentacles I developed in 2006 and have never taught to students outside of this workshop. Our six-week course will go live September 8 - October 13, 2026, and will include pre-recorded video lessons, written lessons, and six live sessions of about 93 minutes each (pre-recorded if you cannot attend live). Who is Miriam BatAsherah Green? Miriam BatAsherah Green is a full-time BDSM educator and coach who has been teaching magick since 2004 and kink since 2014. Miriam is an initiated witch in the Reclaiming tradition and a proud member of Ordo Templi Orientis. Miriam's kabbalah and tarot classes have long demystified occult practice, and they look forward to bringing this approach to practical sex magick.

Class / WorkshopVerified host21+💻 Online

ONLINE: Arcane D/s: Energetic Feeding and Conscious Inequality

Hosted by Wicked Grounds

Tue, Sep 15, 20266:00 PM – 8:00 PM💻 Online

Power is power, and inequality is not inequity - so let’s walk into this conversation with curiosity, courage, and our eyes wide open. --- When we talk about power exchange in BDSM, the actual exchange of power is often assumed rather than examined yet it’s a profound force worth exploring. Whether you identify as kinky or not, consciously shaping the dynamics between people can open doors to life force, intimacy, and the energetic dance that lives between individuals or groups. In this class, we’ll look at both intentional and unconscious power exchange patterns, why someone might step into them for a night or for a lifetime, and how these tools can support your magical work, energetic feeding, or broader life path. We’ll also bring awareness to astral connections, accidental bonds, and the ways these dynamics can veer into harm if left unchecked. Power is power, and inequality is not inequity - so let’s walk into this conversation with curiosity, courage, and our eyes wide open. PRESENTER: Lee Harrington is an internationally known spiritual and erotic authenticity educator, gender explorer, eclectic artist and award-winning author and editor on erotic and sacred experience. He’s been traveling the globe teaching and talking about sexuality, psychology, faith and desire, and believes you deserve passion and connection in your life. His books include “Playing Well With Others: Your Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Negotiating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities” (with Mollena Williams), “Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond,” “Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé,” and “Traversing Gender: Understanding Transgender Realities,” amongst many others. Lee has been a passion instigator, academic, adult film performer, world class sexual adventurer, outspoken philosopher, polytheist priest/ess, kink/bondage expert, and has been blogging about sex and spirit since 1998. Read more about Lee at PassionAndSoul.com. TICKETING: $30 suggested. We offer several price points, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/efe54c7dca Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month's discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds! If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the "Volunteer List" to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis. ACCESS: This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will be recorded for distribution to advance ticket holders. Zoom now provides closed captioning, which will be available for this event.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

Class / Workshop21+💻 Online

ONLINE: Ballbusting & Testicle Play!

Hosted by Wicked Grounds

Wed, Sep 16, 20266:00 PM – 8:00 PM💻 Online

Have you ever wanted to smack your partners balls around like a speed bag? Learn how to do so safely in this class! --- BOP IT! SMACK IT! PULL IT! Have you ever wanted to smack your partners balls around like a speed bag? What about biting, stomping, or crushing your most precious person's precious parts? Then this class is for you, pervert. 🖤 Ballbusting is the art form of smacking around someone's testicles like they owe you lunch money... or tribute. 😅 We'll kick some thoughts & balls around about: Using different methods for kicks, slaps, & punches Implementing clamps, toys, weights & more! Anatomy, safety, & aftercare AND more!!! PRESENTER: @The_Lady_V (she/her) is a spiritually & socioculturally driven sex-positive educator, community organizer, lifestyle switch & pro dominatrix based out of Los Angeles, CA & Portland, OR. Lady V has taught for conferences & sex positive venues across the US & internationally. She serves as an Advocacy Board Member for Sex Positive World & proudly helps facilitate their education as the Remote Education Coordinator. Lady V has also served the community by facilitating public health events, play parties, educational intensives, & so much more. Prior to jumping into pursuing sex education as a full time passion, Lady V served as a Behavioral Services Program Manager for one of the few agencies in the world specializing in navigating sexuality & gender for people navigating intellectual/developmental disabilities. Her work around modular, individualistic care & advocacy has sense shifted to the larger world of sex positivity and kink. You can view more of her work at her website at TheLadyV.net, Fetlife at @‌The_Lady_V, or Instagram at @Switchinatrix or @TheLadyV. TICKETING: https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/fddf784d6e $30 suggested. We offer several ticketing tiers, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month's discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds! If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the "Volunteer List" to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis. ACCESS: This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you will need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will be recorded and available for viewing 7 days after it is sent out. Zoom now provides closed captioning which will be available for this event.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

Class / Workshop18+✦ Beginner-friendly💻 Online

ONLINE: Latex 101

Hosted by Wicked Grounds

Thu, Sep 17, 20266:00 PM – 8:00 PM💻 Online

An introduction to the care and keeping of latex fabric! --- Latex is more than just a material. It’s a cultural artifact with its own history, chemistry, and rituals of care. In this class we will explore the essentials of latex care so your garments can say supple and shiny! We’ll cover everything from the basics of shining and daily care to the essentials of repairing small tears before they become big heartbreaks. We’ll learn about chlorination and when it’s useful and necessary and by the end of the class you will be able to care for your gear with confidence. Towards the end of class we will discuss some fun scene ideas to do with your gear. Come ready to learn, ask questions, and leave empowered! PRESENTER: Dolly Diatima is an Iranian American professional dominatrix, writer, fetish model, and lifestyle kinkster. As a neurodivergent and multi ethnic pro domme, they offer a unique perspective into kink and sexuality which they work to bring into their sessions as a domme as well as into her writings and classes. Dolly’s educational background in philosophy and prior experience in the professional realm of acting and performance art also deeply inform her work as an educator. Philosophy gives her the tools to examine the ideas, assumptions, and power structures underlying sexuality and human behavior, while performance has taught her to think about embodiment, communication, identity, and the ways we construct and inhabit different selves. She is also an emerging writer with an upcoming publication exploring kink and cultural identity. In Dolly’s free time, she enjoys writing essays about desire for her Substack, watching extreme horror films, reading classic literature and collecting vintage fashion. She resides in the San Francisco Bay Area with their big beautiful tuxedo cat, Ligeia. You can learn more about Dolly and read her writing on her website: DollyDiatima.com TICKETING: https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/2441fd1eac $30 suggested; $20 and $40 alternative price points. We offer multiple price points, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $20. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month's discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds! If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the "Volunteer List" to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis. ACCESS: This will be a live, recorded online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will be recorded and distributed to those who registered, available for up to 7 days after send out. Zoom now provides closed captioning, which will be available for this event.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

Social21+

Yes Sir! | A Mens BDSM Impact Play Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Sep 19–20, 20268:00 PM – 1:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Yes Sir! A Men's Only BDSM Impact Play Party Yes Sir! is a men-only BDSM impact party built for men who want a dark, erotic space for impact, tension, and kinky exploration. Impact play is the theme of the night, with room for other BDSM play as it unfolds. Expect a room where flogging, spanking, paddles, canes, whips, rough body play, sensual impact, heavier impact, bondage, restraint, and CBT can all have a place. Sex is not the focus of the party, but may happen within scenes. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, aftercare, and connecting outside of active play. What to Expect 8 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play. 9 PM | Rules + Room Opening Once the room opens, men are free to negotiate, play, and move through the space at their own pace. 1 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • Ambient lighting and expressive house music that drive the energy • Furniture designed for real use, not just atmosphere (Benches, suspension points, spanking benches, massage tables, wall space, kneeling benches, stocks, and more) • A dark, erotic environment where impact, tension, and desire build side by side • Space for scenes to unfold with intensity, creativity, and control What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, lube etc A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Dress Code Dress for the energy of the party. Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome. Nudity is allowed throughout the space. If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately. Meet Your Facilitators Yes Sir! is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care support a wide range of impact and BDSM exploration. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $30 Members, $40 General Admission, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2) 🎟 Reserve Your Space Today, Click Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend YES SIR!. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [<a href="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://kinkcollective.net/membership-1&sa=D&source=calendar&us

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

Class / Workshop18+💻 Online

ONLINE: Receiving Service Well: Is This Meaningful to You?

Hosted by Wicked Grounds

Sat, Sep 19, 202611:00 AM – 1:00 PM💻 Online

This class is for anyone who wants to better understand what service actually means to them. --- Most conversations about service focus on what a submissive is willing or eager to offer, which is lovely. However, far less attention is given to the Dominant staring at a lovingly presented act of service and thinking, with genuine affection, “I appreciate this very much, and I have absolutely no idea what to do with it.” This class is for anyone who wants to better understand what service actually means to them. We will discuss different forms of service, how to identify what you genuinely enjoy receiving, how to communicate preferences and standards clearly, and how service-oriented submissives can better understand what makes an act feel meaningful to the person receiving it. Sometimes that means completing a task in the quickest or most practical way. Sometimes it means doing it in a very odd and particular way because that is what the Dominant enjoys, values, or has asked for. It may be easy to say that service well done is service wanted, but what does that actually mean in practice? What happens when efficiency and preference point in different directions? The goal is for you to leave with practical tools for building service dynamics with less hopeful guesswork and far fewer beautifully polished things nobody really asked for. PRESENTER: Aidan Sunassee (he/him) is a certified sexologist, educator, researcher, and active member of the kink community. His facilitation style is trauma-aware, grounded in inclusive practices, and informed by both personal experience and academic research. He is dedicated to bridging the gap between academic knowledge and lived experience, creating spaces where community voices are centered, respected, and empowered. Aidan is affiliated with the APA Division 44 Taskforce on Kink and BDSM, serves on the board and research team of TASHRA, and teaches with the Center for Positive Sexuality. His independent research explores how pleasure and power exchange intersect with healing in kink spaces and dynamics. Beyond his research, he has developed and led community education programs on kink, consent, trauma awareness, and ethical non-monogamy. At the core of his approach is a belief that academic knowledge and lived truth must meet and challenge each other. TICKETING: $30 suggested. We offer several price points, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/87c121c137 Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month's discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds! If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the "Volunteer List" to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis. ACCESS: This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will be recorded and is available for later viewing within seven days of the class. Zoom now provides closed captioning which will be available for this event.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

Class / Workshop21+💻 Online

ONLINE: Ownership Dynamics

Hosted by Wicked Grounds

Sat, Sep 19, 20266:45 PM – 8:45 PM💻 Online

Ownership can look different depending on the relationship you are in and can also be a tricky situation to navigate, so we will cover it from lots of different perspectives... --- This class is about ownership as a concept in relationships and as a power-dynamic. Ownership can look different depending on the relationship you are in and can also be a tricky situation to navigate, so we will cover it from lots of different perspectives: How do you view ownership? How does ownership manifest in different power dynamics? Ownership as objectification Ownership as a component of a dynamic and ownership as the basis. How do you want ownership to look in your dynamic? Figuring out the aspects of ownership that work for you. Intersections with ownership: CNC, ESM, TPE etc. The mechanics of consent in ownership dynamics Power and play in ownership dynamics Commonly faced issues in ownership dynamics Negotiating for ownership Psychological and neurological impacts of ownership. Care and toxicity in ownership dynamics. And much more! PRESENTER: Ancilla L is a kink educator, erotic author and podcaster based in India. She identifies as a polyamorous, pansexual masochist. She is the founder of Ancillary Kink Support, a woman, queer, and bottom-led educational platform for fetish and BDSM. Her classes focus on depth, individualised approaches to desire, research and are primarily experience-based. Ancilla L is also the creator of The Sextbook Initiative, as part of that she writes stand-alone textbooks on individual fetishes that serve as detailed, adaptable frameworks. The three titles currently available are The Power-Exchange Sextbook, The Masochism Sextbook and The CNC Sextbook. TICKETING: $30 suggested. We offer several price points, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/d2809f7918 Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month's discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds! If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the "Volunteer List" to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis. ACCESS: This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will be recorded for distribution to advance ticket holders. Zoom now provides closed captioning, which will be available for this event.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

Class / Workshop21+💻 Online

ONLINE: Is it Hypervigilance or Anticipatory Service

Hosted by Wicked Grounds

Sun, Sep 20, 20262:00 PM – 4:00 PM💻 Online

This interactive discussion explores how hypervigilance develops and differs from grounded & intentional service. --- This interactive discussion looks at the line between anticipatory service and trauma-driven hypervigilance. Have you ever packed for time with your D-type and tried to fit everything and the kitchen sink into one bag “just in case”? We will look at what happens in the body & mind to create feelings where we want to cover every service need scenario that may present itself. This interactive discussion explores how hypervigilance develops and differs from grounded & intentional service. We’ll talk about motivation, internal cues, and the difference between choice and compulsion.The goal isn’t to stop being attentive. It’s to become present on purpose and rooting service in consent, clarity, and self-trust. PRESENTER: Oak is a community educator, artist, and collared & Owned sub with decades of work & event production in the Leather community. As the creator behind Oaken designs, his artwork explores themes of devotion, reverence, and depravity through multiple mediums including resin work. Oak loves to facilitate conversations about ethical submission, embodied consent, and trauma-informed power. TICKETING: $30 suggested. We offer multiple price points, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/20f111cc8f If cost is a barrier at any point on the sliding scale, please use the Volunteer List at the bottom of the listing to request a scholarship seat. ACCESS: This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you will need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will be recorded for distribution and available 7 days after sent out! However, we recommend attending live to get the most out of your experience. Zoom provides closed captioning which will be available for this event.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

Class / Workshop18+✦ Beginner-friendly💻 Online

ONLINE: Power Points: Power vs. Authority in D/s Relationships

Hosted by Wicked Grounds

Sun, Sep 20, 202611:00 AM – 1:00 PM💻 Online

Whether you lead, submit, or are simply curious about power exchange, join us to explore how balancing these forces creates safer, more fulfilling relationships. --- Power. Authority. Dominance. Control. We often throw these words around as if they mean the same thing, but in power exchange dynamics, confusing them can be the difference between an empowering relationship and a coercive one. Unpacking how power and authority actually operate gives you the tools to recognize responsible leadership, establish clearer roles, and build deeper trust with your partner. Sir Panda breaks down the legitimate sources of power, formal versus informal authority, and the essential roles of reason and empathy in healthy, enlightened dynamics. Whether you lead, submit, or are simply curious about power exchange, join us to explore how balancing these forces creates safer, more fulfilling relationships. PRESENTER: Sir-Panda (he/him) is a polyamorous Dominant living in the Kansas City metro area. He has been a kink educator since he began teaching consent and BDSM basics at Seattle’s Center for Sex Positive Culture in 2011. He has taught for Fetish Con, Leather Reign, the Kink Center, Pragmatic Kink, Wicked Grounds, and the Venusian Society. He especially focuses on the mental and relationship aspects of kink and polyamory, drawing on over 30 years of experience and a passion for research. Sir Panda is a Certified Professional Life Coach, an Accredited Relationship Coach, a Mental Health First Aider, a consent advocate, and a member of the Social Psychology Network. Find him on FetLife as Sir-Panda or Instagram and Substack as RealSirPanda. To learn more or to book a coaching session, please visit www.dsoutreach.com. TICKETING: $30 suggested. We offer multiple price points, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/b44bc42511 If cost is a barrier at any point on the sliding scale, please use the Volunteer List at the bottom of the listing to request a scholarship seat. ACCESS: This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you will need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will be recorded for distribution and available 7 days after sent out! However, we recommend attending live to get the most out of your experience. Zoom provides closed captioning which will be available for this event.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

Class / Workshop18+💻 Online

ONLINE: When No Means Yes: Exploring Consensual Non-Consent

Hosted by Wicked Grounds

Mon, Sep 21, 20266:00 PM – 8:00 PM💻 Online

Whether you’re curious about incorporating CNC into your dynamic or looking to deepen your understanding, this workshop offers insights and guidance to approach this edge play with confidence and care. --- Consensual Non-Consent (CNC) is an exhilarating and often misunderstood facet of sex and kink. This interactive workshop delves into the psychological dynamics, ethical considerations, and practical tools that make CNC play consensual and fulfilling for everyone involved. Together, we’ll discuss how to negotiate boundaries, build trust, and maintain safety while embracing the power of surrender and control. Learn how to explore all the diverse styles of CNC play, including physical resistance, role play scenarios like kidnapping and interrogation, orgasm control, medical fetishes, coercion, blackmail, forced intoxication, incest play, cuckholding, bimbofication, fuck toys, service, seduction, and more. Whether you’re curious about incorporating CNC into your dynamic or looking to deepen your understanding, this workshop offers insights and guidance to approach this edge play with confidence and care. Come discover how BDSM can be used as a powerful tool for healing! PRESENTER: Jamie Joy (they/them) is a queer trans Jewish certified sex educator and hungry slut for freaky fantasies. Their life and work is committed to spreading joy, consent, and pleasure through community orgynizing. They have been educating on a wide range of topics related to sex and sexuality for the past 10+ years with experience in K-12 schools, health clinics, college campuses, adult sex shops, national conferences, BDSM dungeons, non-profits, community organizations, and more. Jamie Joy loves to stay up late, throw an unforgettable party, and teach people about the wonders of fisting and fire play. They are always excited to connect and collaborate - find them on Instagram @thebadjewboy or their website www.jamiejoy.com Jamie Joy (they/them) is a queer trans Jewish certified sex educator and hungry slut for freaky fantasies. Their life and work is committed to spreading joy, consent, and pleasure through community orgynizing. Jamie Joy loves to stay up late, throw an unforgettable party, and teach people about the wonders of fisting and fire play. They are always excited to connect and collaborate - find them on Instagram @thebadjewboy or their website www.jamiejoy.com TICKETING: https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/0723e71917 $30 suggested; sliding scale available. We offer multiple price points, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $20. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month's discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds! If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the "Volunteer List" to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis. ACCESS: This will be a live, recorded online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will be recorded and distributed to those who registered, available for 7 days after it is sent out. Zoom now provides closed captioning, which will be available for this event.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

Class / Workshop21+✦ Beginner-friendly

Shamanic Kink Immersion

Hosted by retreat center in Upstate NY

Sep 22–28, 20264:00 PM – 1:00 PM🇺🇸 New York, NY· address on RSVP🔖 1 saved

Welcome to the Shamanic Kink Immersion: Harvers & Hunt! Join us for a transformative experience filled with shamanic rituals, kink exploration, and deep connections. This event will take place at the beautiful Easton Mountain Retreat Center on September 22nd - 28th, 2026. Dive into the mysteries of midsummer as we delve into the intersection of spirituality and kink. Get ready to expand your consciousness, explore your desires, and connect with like-minded individuals in a safe and supportive environment. Don't miss out on this unique opportunity to explore the depths of your being in a magical setting. The training welcomes those who have gained solid experience in at least one of the following fields and a strong curiosity about the other ones: Sacred sexuality/conscious intimacy/(neo-)tantra BDSM or conscious kink Transformational spaces & ritual healing work (group and/or 1-1) Maybe you’ve found your way into the realms of BDSM, Psychodrama Role Play, Tantric Kink, Therapeutic BDSM, or hovered around the edges of it. Maybe you’ve found it exciting, enticing, felt drawn, and then didn’t find the right time and place to step in… Maybe you’ve gone deep and desire to expand and explore even deeper. If you’ve felt some of the exhilaration and power available to you in this realm, and you’d like to truly get to the core of how to use BDSM in a transformative and sacred way, join Terra and Francesca for a profound immersion into the essence of ritual & conscious kink. The Shamanic Kink immersion lives at the intersection of ancient shamanic principles, somatic healing practices, sexology, and modern BDSM. During this 7-day in-person group journey, we will dive deep into how to use the tools, toys, and techniques of BDSM for healing, ritual, and transformation. THE IMMERSION DRAWS ITS TEACHINGS FROM: ~ Shamanism ~ Tantra ~ Psychology ~ Neurobiology ~ Sexology ~ Taoism ~ Somatics ~ Recovery from Trauma ~ Contemporary Kink/BDSM YOU WILL LEARN HOW TO SAFELY AND POWERFULLY ENGAGE IN: Feeling, Receiving & Guiding Energy Basic principles of Tantra Sacred Cacao ceremonies to deepen explorations of some of our work’s core principles How to find out what your Dominant and/or submissive archetypes are seeking and how they want to be expressed How to become an exquisite receiver (sub) or transmitter (Dom) for erotic energy How to engage courageously in sexual healing & empowerment Co-creating Kinky Scenes that are Therapeutic, Expansive, and Transformative How to work with Archetypes, Spirituality, Ritual, and the Psychology of Ceremony How to engage in Role Play therapeutically Understanding and working with some of the most common issues that benefit from receiving Therapeutic Kink Using and fine-tuning communication skills and emotionally intelligent boundary setting Sexual healing of past traumas (emotional, physical, sexual, & spiritual) The importance and use of After Care to integrate our healing process YOU WILL BE TRAINED IN: Breathing Techniques The basics of ritual, ceremony, and space-holding Sensation Play as a Body Blessing Dropping in to full surrender during ritual scene play The Basic Principles of Tantric Kink How to work with gears & flavors of Energy The power of Presence Understanding the Wounds of the male, female, and other gendered psyches When & how to support a Trauma Release & when to Stop It How to be a powerful and confident submissive who’s capable of surrendering deeply without needing to be codependent How to be a masterful, fine-tuned, and capable Dominant, without needing to be domineering WE WILL ALSO BE COVERING HOW Tantra, Psychology, Somatics, and Sexology can be combined with a knowledge of Kink/BDSM to: Bridge differences when only one partner in a couple identifies as kinky Deepen intimacy and heart opening in any Scene/Session Expand the healing energy in every Scene/Session Enhance the energetic connection in Kink/BDSM THE SHAMANIC KINK IMMERSION IS FOR YOU IF YOU ARE: A healer, bodyworker, dakini, tantric practitioner A Pro Dom/me, Healing Dom/me, Tantric Dom/me Looking to take your capacity to support and contain others in a kink-positive setting to another level Into roleplay, power exchange, or sensation play, and curious about exploring these deeply, in an empowering and expansive way Called to contribute to the healing or wholeness of another human being through the tools, toys, and techniques of Conscious Kink & Transformational BDSM A hands-on sexual professional seeking to expand into Therapeutic Kink Partnered with or dating someone who would benefit from this A Dominant who seeks to make a positive difference for your sub A submissive desiring to find more depth, grace, and ease in your surrender A top who desires to bring healing to your bottom A bottom wanting to find mastery and satisfaction in your submission For more information and the REGISTRATION FORM, visit our website https://www.shamanickink.com/shamanic-kink-immersion-new-york#Regis

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STING NYC | A M/M Spanking Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Sat, Sep 26, 20261:00 PM – 6:00 PM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to STING NYC! A Spanking Party for Men STING NYC is a relaxed, men-only spanking party built for men who want space to give, receive, trade, watch, learn, and explore spanking in all its forms. Whether you are brand new or deeply experienced, STING NYC offers a playful, open environment where men can connect through impact, discipline, technique, erotic tension, and shared desire. From the sharp snap of a belt to the satisfying smack of a hand, this is a room for men who know that a good spanking can be playful, connective, intense, and deeply satisfying. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, aftercare, and connection outside of active play. What to Expect 1 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 1:45–2 PM | Arrival + Connection Meet others, go over the house rules, and set the tone before play begins. 2 PM | Play Room Opens For negotiated spanking, impact, watching, learning, connection, and exploration at your own pace. 6 PM | Party Ends The Vibe • A men-only space centered around spanking and impact • A relaxed, social, and erotic afternoon atmosphere • 12+ spanking stations and an open layout • Stations including a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking bench, kneeling benches, massage tables, and room for creative positioning • A separate social area for aftercare, downtime, snacks, and conversation What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator This event is led by Dan, a long-standing member of the spanking community and a trusted facilitator within The Kink Collective. Dan brings his passion for spanking and his easygoing style to create a space that feels safe, playful, and welcoming to all men in attendance. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend STING NYC. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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LeatHER Weekend: BULGE Tacos & Tequila 2026

Hosted by International House of BULGE

Sep 26–27, 202612:00 PM – 8:00 PM🇺🇸 Atlanta Eagle, Atlanta, GA

LeatHER 2026 Presented by the International House of BULGE September 26 & 27, 2026 | Atlanta Eagle LeatHER is a two day celebration centering Leatherwomen through education, conversation, community, entertainment, and connection. Join us at the Atlanta Eagle for a weekend featuring **keynote speaker Goddess MW, performers, vendors, special guests, food, and community.** 🎟️ Tickets are available for both Saturday and Sunday. Choose the day that speaks to you or join us for the full LeatHER weekend. Ticket information is available through this Facebook event. Ticket descriptions: Saturday LeatHER Admission Donation Includes Saturday admission, unconference style education track, keynote with Goddess MW, and community buffet. Sunday Tacos & Tequila Admission Donation Includes Sunday admission, vendors, special guests, and the 6:30–7:30 PM show. Select your ticket option for Entry Only, Food Included, or Food + Drink Special. Full LeatHER Weekend Admission Donation Includes admission to both Saturday and Sunday, Saturday food, all education and entertainment, plus your selected Sunday food or food + drink option. All event proceeds benefit SisterLove, Inc. EVENT SCHEDULE SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 26 | 12 PM TO 5 PM 📚 Education Track: Unconference Style Saturday’s education puts the conversation in your hands. Instead of a traditional lineup of scheduled classes and presenters, **we build the education schedule together.** Attendees can suggest a topic, question, skill share, or conversation they want to explore. From there, discussions are organized throughout the space, and you are free to participate in the conversations that interest you and move between them as you please. Conversations will center the experiences of Leatherwomen and may include: • Leather & Motherhood • Leatherwomen & Professional Sex Workers • Intersectionality in Our Communities • Black Women & Leadership • Cultivating Spaces for Us • Identity, Relationships & Leather Dynamics Bring your experiences, questions, skills, and curiosity. You help shape the conversation. 🎤 Keynote Speaker: Goddess MW 🍽️ Community Buffet Gather, connect, and share a meal with us during Saturday’s programming. The buffet will be available by donation. SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 27 | 3 PM TO 8 PM 🌮🍹 Tacos & Tequila Sunday Show Sunday is our celebration! Join us for an afternoon of food, tequila, performances, vendors, special guests, and community. Come eat, connect, shop our vendors, tip your performers, and enjoy the show. 💜 LEATHER WITH A PURPOSE All proceeds from LeatHER Weekend will benefit SisterLove, Inc. SisterLove is an Atlanta based organization dedicated to advancing the health, rights, and well being of women, particularly Black women and other communities impacted by HIV and reproductive health disparities. Their work includes advocacy, education, prevention, and community support. In addition to purchasing tickets and participating throughout the weekend, attendees can **donate directly to SisterLove using the QR code available on our page.** 📍 Atlanta Eagle 🚗 Free parking is available in the parking lot beside the building. Come for Saturday, Sunday, or spend the entire weekend with us. LeatHER is about making space for Leatherwomen to be seen, heard, celebrated, and in conversation with one another while giving back to the community around us.

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KrINKles - Call The Babysitter | Movie and Cuddle Social

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Sep 27–28, 20267:00 PM – 12:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Call The Babysitter! A light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering... Call the Babysitter is a light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering for those who want a cozy space to relax, connect, and explore. This is a room where diapers, comfort, playful energy, and community come together in a welcoming environment built on kindness, consent, and care. Whether you arrive to cuddle, socialize, watch a movie, enjoy the comfort of sporting "little gear", or share playful connection with others, this is a space designed to help people settle in, feel at ease, and enjoy themselves at their own pace. What to Expect 7 PM | Doors Open The room opens organically. People often start socializing and connecting soon after arrival. 7:45 PM Brief Opening + Rules Check-In Once the room has settled, we pause briefly to go over intentions and house rules. 8 PM Movies Begin Cuddle, socialize, enjoy little gear, and connect in a soft, relaxing environment. 12 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • A cozy, diaper-centered atmosphere for community, comfort, and light exploration • Space to relax, socialize, cuddle, and connect • A changing table set up for diaper wearers What to Bring Diapers, pillow, change of clothes and any comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Facilitator This container is guided by Dan, a seasoned member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, welcoming spaces for erotic and playful exploration. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection while helping people feel comfortable and free to explore at their own pace. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Intstructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) ⬇️ 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend Call the Babysitter Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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BOUND NYC: A Rope Bondage Party for Queer Men

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Oct 2–3, 20267:00 PM – 1:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Bound NYC... A rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just a practice space. BOUND NYC is a rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just practice space. This is a room where bondage through rope is at the center, full scenes are encouraged, and play can extend into impact, sensation, bondage, and other forms of consensual exploration. Whether you come with a partner or attend solo, BOUND offers a warm, social, erotic, and play-minded environment for men who want to tie, connect, negotiate, and engage. This is not a class-based event. Light peer guidance and basic instruction may happen naturallyin the room, but the focus is on self-led play and scenes. Pick-up play is welcome, with attendees expected to negotiate for themselves. The Kink Collective’s MITPISA negotiation forms will be available to support clearer pre-scene communication and pickup play negotiation. What to Expect 7:00 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, connect, warm-up... Tie casually, if you'd like. 8:00 PM | Rules & Consent Agreements We gather briefly to review the rules, agreements and flow of the night. 8:15 PM | Rope and Scenes Open Once the room opens, attendees are free to tie, negotiate, play, and explore at their own pace. The Vibe • A warm, social, rope-forward atmosphere • Energetic beats and lighting set to support the room • Space for floor rope, with mats available • 2 suspension points and 1 suspension rig • Furnished with a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, tieable benches, and floor beds What to Bring Rope & Safety shears, implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No drugs. Meet Your Faciliatators BOUND is held by The Kink Collective facilitators and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care come first, and where exploration is supported rather than pushed. Location and Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $30 Member’s Ticket | $40 Solo Ticket | $60 Partner's (2 Tickets) 🎟 Get Your Advance Tickets, Here. OR pay at the door via Cash, Venmo, PayPal, Zelle, or CashApp Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend BOUND. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets, access to additional discounted in-person events, and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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ONLINE: So Fresh & So Clean: Bootblacking & Leather Care 101

Hosted by Wicked Grounds

Fri, Oct 9, 20266:00 PM – 8:00 PM💻 Online

Buff up your leather care knowledge & make your skills shine! --- Who doesn't love the look of a well-polished boot that catches the light and catches your eye? Leather pieces have the ability to outlast many of their original owners... with care. In this class, we'll teach you the basics of making your leathers look nice and last, as well as cleaning and caring for your leathers. Bootblacking can be a service to the community or dynamic, a form of worship, an art form, a practice of technique, a side hustle, a spiritual practice, or all of the above! Learn how to easily clean and care for your favorite boots, whip, or vest! We'll also show you how to discern between oil tan and polished leather and how to treat them appropriately. After the class portion, there will be a brief workshop where you will work on your leather with guidance from the instructor. It is BYOL (Bring Your Own Leather). Synthetic leathers are welcome! PRESENTER: Lady V (she/her) is a spiritually & socioculturally driven sex-positive educator, community organizer, Bootblack & Professional Dominatrix. She formerly served as a resident bootblack for the Portland Eagle, as well as 50 Shades of STFU & Jiffy Kink play parties. Lady V has also Bootblacked at various conferences, flea markets, cigar parties, & play parties across the US. Lady V became a believer in leather the first time she saw The Arnold’s ass in leather pants watching Terminator 2. Since then she has become an enthusiastic leather fetishist & has touched enough leather to make a dairy farmer blush. Lady V, who is also a hucow, is quite literally "leather". Lady V has taught for conferences & sex positive venues across the US. She serves as an Advocacy Board Member for Sex Positive World & proudly helps facilitate their education as the Remote Education Coordinator. Lady V has also served the community by facilitating public health events. She is an out, proud, & fierce-as-fire transwoman with a passion for empowering others. While hailing from Detroit, Michigan, she has settled in Salem, Oregon, where she lives with her Mistress in a 24/7 TPE dynamic. She serves as the majordomo for her leather family, the Atomic Army. TICKETING: https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/08f65ec883 We offer multiple price points, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. $30 is the suggested ticketing price. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month's discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds! If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the "Volunteer List" to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis. ACCESS: This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will be recorded and is available for later viewing. Zoom now provides closed captioning which will be available for this event.

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Kinky Speed Friending with PsychoKitty

Hosted by Wicked Grounds

Fri, Oct 9, 20267:00 PM – 8:00 PM🇺🇸 Trellis, San Francisco, CA

We can't promise love, but we can help you with a fun night full of meeting people, a lot of people, fast. Our purpose is to encourage you to meet new people. - Find people with similar kinks as yours. - Find people with whom to explore new kinks. - Find new friends. - Find new people to play with. People will be separated by appetite, either top or bottom. (Switches can pick a side or wait to see what side is needed more.) And then you will get two minutes with each person and a chance to connect afterward. The evening is about meeting people who complement your kinky appetite, not about identity or gender. The people you meet will be worth meeting, even if they aren't your appetite. Once the event has started, we can not add new people, so please be on time. PRESENTER: Ryan “Psychokitty” has been helping people connect with similar events for over a decade, from the old Shibaricon in Chicago to Dark Odyssey: Surrender, or hosting events at the SF Citadel, Catalyst, and of course Wicked Grounds. ACCESS: In SF, this event will be held at Trellis. Please note that doors will close quickly so we recommend arriving 15 minutes before the event starts for check-in. We cannot admit anyone after about 7:10 (once the event has begun), so please plan accordingly! Late arrivals cannot be refunded. Please do not attend in person if you have any respiratory symptoms whatsoever. Anyone displaying signs of respiratory symptoms may be asked to leave, regardless of vaccination status.

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KrINKles - Nappy Nibbles Social | An Free Indoor Picnic for ABDLs, Diaper Wearers, and Littles.

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Sat, Oct 10, 20264:30 PM – 7:30 PM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Nappy Nibbles! A free, cozy indoor picnic for ABDL's, Diaper Wearers, and Littles Nappy Nibbles is a soft, relaxed, low-pressure ABDL social created for diaper wearers, littles and those who want a cozy space to simply be. This is an indoor picnic-style gathering where comfort, community, and playful connection come first. Whether you want to cuddle up, chat, color, snack, relax, or just spend time around people who get it, Nappy Nibbles offers a warm and easygoing space to settle in without pressure or performance. What to Expect 4:30 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 4:30 PM–7:30 PM | Indoor Picnic Social Relax, cuddle, color, chat, snack, and enjoy a soft, low-pressure ABDL space at your own pace. 7:30 PM | Social Ends But the fun doesnt have to! Stay for our ABDL BDSM party, Diaper Debauchery. Starting at 8PM. 🎟️ Click Here, to Reserve Your Ticket. The Vibe • Cozy indoor picnic atmosphere • Space for cuddling, chatting, coloring, and quiet play • Low-pressure socializing and gentle connection • Couches, pillows, and mattresses for lounging • Soft lighting and a soft, easygoing feel What to Bring BYO food, drinks, snacks, games, comfort items, etc. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator Nappy Nibbles is guided by Dan, a long-time member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, grounded, and judgment-free spaces for men’s erotic and intimate play. Dan brings: warmth gentleness emotional presence excellent consent practice clarity around boundaries and a calm, steady leadership style His facilitation helps everyone feel seen, supported, and able to explore in their own time and way. Location & Entry Instructions Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets This event is free! | Donations welcome. Will You Stay for the Play Party? 🎉 After Nappy Nibbles, we flow into Diaper Debauchery, our ABDL BDSM play party starting at 8 PM. Come for the cozy social — stay for the deeper exploration if it feels right. 🎟️ Reserve Your Entrance to Diaper Debauchery, Click Here. Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to at

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ONLINE: Dating as Shadow Work: Turning Emotional Triggers into Pathways of Growth

Hosted by Wicked Grounds

Sat, Oct 10, 20266:00 PM – 8:00 PM💻 Online

Through guided reflection, dialogue, and practical tools, we’ll look at the emotions we most want to avoid — abandonment, disappointment, shame, embarrassment, insecurity, grandiosity — and learn how to work with them skillfully. --- Dating has a way of bringing uncomfortable feelings to the surface—fast. Few other arenas of life expose our tender spots like romance does. One moment, we are flying high and find ourselves pedestalizing hot strangers; the next, we’re swimming in insecurity, shame, devastation, or hopelessness. Our shadow self represents the parts of us that we hide from our own sight—patterns and traits we would prefer not to feel, identify with, or be viewed as by others. However, what we resist persists: when repressed, our shadow often controls our lives from the sidelines, keeping authentic love and connection at arm’s length. Integrating the shadow is about reclaiming disowned parts of ourselves in order to gain awareness, wholeness, and personal agency. In this class, we’ll explore dating as a spiritual and psychological practice—a living lab for shadow integration. Through guided reflection, dialogue, and practical tools, we’ll look at the emotions we most want to avoid: embarrassment, humiliation, abandonment, disappointment, shame, insecurity, grandiosity, and more. We will learn how to work with them skillfully. Rather than chasing validation or avoiding pain, we’ll reframe dating as a path of self-inquiry, expansion, and authenticity. With this framework, every experience, even “bad dates,” becomes material for growth, self-reclamation, and emotional liberation. By shifting from a win/lose mindset to one of curiosity and evolution, participants will learn how to date from a place of truth in relationships—not from the shadow’s behind-the-scenes manipulation. You’ll learn how to: Recognize and name shadow emotions and patterns that surface in your dating experiences Transform emotional triggers into insights for integration and healing Reclaim your psycho-emotional space from rejection loops and idealization Approach dating as a sacred practice of awareness, embodiment, and authenticity Date others from a place of wholeness and authenticity, paving the path to better relationships Format: Embodied meditation + interactive talk + guided reflection exercises + group dialogue Who it’s for: This class is for anyone who senses that dating can be more than just a search for “the one” and that it can be a profound mirror and teacher. It’s especially for: Intellectually and spiritually curious humans who love psychological depth and meaning-making Relationship geeks and emotional explorers who want to understand their own patterns more deeply Queer, non-monogamous, kinky, or otherwise non-traditional daters seeking a growth-oriented framework that honors their complexity Free spirits who want to love and connect authentically, without giving away their power Anyone tired of repetitive loops who’s ready to use dating as a site of awakening rather than reenactment No matter your gender, orientation, or relational style, this space invites honesty, courage, and curiosity about what dating stirs within you, and how every emotional trigger can become a doorway to greater freedom. PRESENTER: Marie Thouin, PhD is a Dating & Relationship Coach who supports and guides people of all backgrounds and relational orientations to create intentional and vibrant love lives. She is the author of "What is Compersion? Understanding Positive Empathy in Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships," the first-ever comprehensive scholarly book on compersion. She has been featured in several publications and podcasts, including ELLE, the Savage Lovecast, The Times of London, and HuffPost. Marie has also published seminal research studies, the first encyclopedia entry on compersion, and is the creator of www.WhatIsCompersion.com, a popular website that features her research, blogs, and resources on the topic of compersion. Find out more at MarieThouin.com or on Instagram at @drmariethouin. TICKETING: https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/47b645b29e $30 suggested. We offer multiple price points, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $20. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month's discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds! If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the "Volunteer List" to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis. ACCESS: This will be a live, recorded online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will be recorded and distributed to those who registered. Zoom now provides closed captioning, which will be available for this event.

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Corrossion NYC | A Men's Only BDSM & Sex Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Oct 11–12, 20267:00 PM – 12:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Corrosion NYC! A Men's Only BDSM Sex Party CORROSION NYC is a men-only BDSM and sex party built for men who want space for real play, real connection, and real sexual freedom. Some come for BDSM, some come for sex, and some come for both. The room is designed to let all of that happen naturally, with consent, respect, and clear boundaries at the center. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, and connecting outside of active play. Socializing happens there. BDSM and sexual activity happen in the designated play areas. This is not a social with furniture in the background. The play spaces are meant to be used. Expect a setup designed for both BDSM and sex, with floor beds, benches, a sling, suspension points, spanking benches, a St. Andrew’s Cross, and more. What to Expect 7 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play. 8 PM | Open BDSM + Sex Party Negotiate, play, hook up, connect, and move between social and active spaces at your own pace. 12 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • Soft lighting and immersive music to support the energy, mood, and pacing of the room. • Furnished stations for impact, restraint, and intimate exploration (St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, sex bench, and more) • A dark, masculine, sexually charged environment What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, lube etc A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. CORROSION Dress Code Dress for the energy of the party. Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome. Nudity is allowed throughout the space. If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately. Meet Your Facilitators CORROSION is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink. In this room, that means connection before climax, with consent, respect, and clear boundaries leading the way. Event Details Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $30 Members, $40 Solo, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2) 🎟 Reserve Your Ticket Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend CORROSION. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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Yes Sir! | A Mens BDSM Impact Play Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Oct 17–18, 20268:00 PM – 1:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Yes Sir! A Men's Only BDSM Impact Play Party Yes Sir! is a men-only BDSM impact party built for men who want a dark, erotic space for impact, tension, and kinky exploration. Impact play is the theme of the night, with room for other BDSM play as it unfolds. Expect a room where flogging, spanking, paddles, canes, whips, rough body play, sensual impact, heavier impact, bondage, restraint, and CBT can all have a place. Sex is not the focus of the party, but may happen within scenes. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, aftercare, and connecting outside of active play. What to Expect 8 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play. 9 PM | Rules + Room Opening Once the room opens, men are free to negotiate, play, and move through the space at their own pace. 1 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • Ambient lighting and expressive house music that drive the energy • Furniture designed for real use, not just atmosphere (Benches, suspension points, spanking benches, massage tables, wall space, kneeling benches, stocks, and more) • A dark, erotic environment where impact, tension, and desire build side by side • Space for scenes to unfold with intensity, creativity, and control What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, lube etc A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Dress Code Dress for the energy of the party. Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome. Nudity is allowed throughout the space. If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately. Meet Your Facilitators Yes Sir! is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care support a wide range of impact and BDSM exploration. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $30 Members, $40 General Admission, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2) 🎟 Reserve Your Space Today, Click Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend YES SIR!. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [<a href="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://kinkcollective.net/membership-1&sa=D&source=calendar&us

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STING NYC | A M/M Spanking Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Sat, Oct 24, 20261:00 PM – 6:00 PM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to STING NYC! A Spanking Party for Men STING NYC is a relaxed, men-only spanking party built for men who want space to give, receive, trade, watch, learn, and explore spanking in all its forms. Whether you are brand new or deeply experienced, STING NYC offers a playful, open environment where men can connect through impact, discipline, technique, erotic tension, and shared desire. From the sharp snap of a belt to the satisfying smack of a hand, this is a room for men who know that a good spanking can be playful, connective, intense, and deeply satisfying. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, aftercare, and connection outside of active play. What to Expect 1 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 1:45–2 PM | Arrival + Connection Meet others, go over the house rules, and set the tone before play begins. 2 PM | Play Room Opens For negotiated spanking, impact, watching, learning, connection, and exploration at your own pace. 6 PM | Party Ends The Vibe • A men-only space centered around spanking and impact • A relaxed, social, and erotic afternoon atmosphere • 12+ spanking stations and an open layout • Stations including a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking bench, kneeling benches, massage tables, and room for creative positioning • A separate social area for aftercare, downtime, snacks, and conversation What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator This event is led by Dan, a long-standing member of the spanking community and a trusted facilitator within The Kink Collective. Dan brings his passion for spanking and his easygoing style to create a space that feels safe, playful, and welcoming to all men in attendance. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend STING NYC. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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KrINKles - Call The Babysitter | Movie and Cuddle Social

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Oct 25–26, 20267:00 PM – 12:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Call The Babysitter! A light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering... Call the Babysitter is a light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering for those who want a cozy space to relax, connect, and explore. This is a room where diapers, comfort, playful energy, and community come together in a welcoming environment built on kindness, consent, and care. Whether you arrive to cuddle, socialize, watch a movie, enjoy the comfort of sporting "little gear", or share playful connection with others, this is a space designed to help people settle in, feel at ease, and enjoy themselves at their own pace. What to Expect 7 PM | Doors Open The room opens organically. People often start socializing and connecting soon after arrival. 7:45 PM Brief Opening + Rules Check-In Once the room has settled, we pause briefly to go over intentions and house rules. 8 PM Movies Begin Cuddle, socialize, enjoy little gear, and connect in a soft, relaxing environment. 12 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • A cozy, diaper-centered atmosphere for community, comfort, and light exploration • Space to relax, socialize, cuddle, and connect • A changing table set up for diaper wearers What to Bring Diapers, pillow, change of clothes and any comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Facilitator This container is guided by Dan, a seasoned member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, welcoming spaces for erotic and playful exploration. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection while helping people feel comfortable and free to explore at their own pace. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Intstructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) ⬇️ 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend Call the Babysitter Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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H.O.L-OWEEN PALM SPRINGS LEATHER PRIDE '26 - DEVIL'S NIGHT!!

Hosted by H.O.L Party, Inc! / [House of Leather]

Oct 30–31, 2026🇺🇸 The Sonoran, Palm Springs, CA

H.O.L-OWEEN PALM SPRINGS LEATHER PRIDE '26 - DEVIL'S NIGHT!! w/ Special Guest DJ TDON, plus Matt Consola, MOODY, & Either of Us • Friday, October 30th House of Leather presents a Leather Based Dance Experience that celebrates the iconic culture of queer leather’s past and its evolution into today’s BDSM & Kink communities. H.O.L brings together iconic imagery, decor, and projections, bootblacking, leather & kink vendors, community outreach vendors, and four cutting edge tech and house djs on two dance floors. Three rooms and outdoor spaces to dance, chill, and ‘flirt’. Friday, October 30th 2026 • 9PM - 2AM With DJs: TDON & MATT CONSOLA (Main Room) MOODY & EITHER OF US (Doug Jackson & Gabe Real) (Manhole Room) This Event Sells Out In Advance Quickly! Special Advance Tix Pricing can save you half off the door price.  Advance Tickets Link: Tier 1 - $25. (Sold Out Aug 20) 
Tier 2 - $35 Tier 3 - $45 
Door   - $50 Advance Tix: https://bit.ly/BDSM26 ▪ Special Guest Go Gos: ▪ Visuals & Graphics by MOODY ▪ Bootblack by Sky Russell (Mr. Mister Kink 2026) & Brawn (Red Room) ▪ Leather & Fetish Vendors: Sir Rat Leather, Sweaty Johnson, and Mr. Kink (Red Room) ▪ Outdoor Cigar Area & seating ▪ Dress Code: Leather, Kink, Fetish & Pup Gear ▪ Door Host: Ed Roque ▪ Clothing Check by Al Greyson & team (proceeds to benefit the Marsha P. Johnson LGBTQ+ Youth Drop In Center & The Transgender Health & Wellness Center) ▪ And if you need privacy, take it behind the banners in the Manhole Room ▪ Venue: The Sonoran: 1555 S Palm Canyon Dr, Palm Springs, CA 92264 Join our email list for early ticket options, promo codes, and more: click here to join: https://bit.ly/HOL_MAIL

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Fetish Social Limburg

Hosted by Fetish Social Limburg

Sat, Oct 31, 20261:30 PM – 6:30 PM🇳🇱 Café Rosé, Maastricht

FETISH SOCIAL LIMBURG - MAASTRICHT, THE NETHERLANDS 🇳🇱 MAASTRICHT, ARE YOU READY? 🖤 On Saturday, October 31st, 2026, it’s time for the very first edition of Fetish Social Limburg! Whether you’re into leather, rubber, sportswear, work wear, sneakers, suit & tie, pup, tactical gear or something completely different... you’re welcome to join us! ABOUT THE SOCIAL Fetish Social Limburg brings people with different fetishes and interests together. It’s an afternoon to meet new people, catch up with familiar faces, make new connections and simply enjoy being part of the community. This is a social gathering, not a play party. There is no sex, play or nudity. It’s all about meeting each other in a relaxed and friendly atmosphere. You’re welcome to come in gear, but you don’t have to. Whether you already feel completely at home in the fetish scene or you’re taking your first steps into the community, you’re welcome to join the social. WHO IS IT FOR? 🏳️‍🌈 Fetish Social Limburg brings together men from the gay, bi and queer fetish community, whatever fetish or gear you’re into. Age: 18+ DATE, TIME & LOCATION 📅 Saturday, October 31st, 2026 ⌚ 13:30 – 18:30 📍 Café Rosé Bogaardenstraat 43 6211 SN Maastricht The Netherlands GETTING THERE Café Rosé is centrally located in Maastricht, close to the Markt and Vrijthof. The venue is easily accessible by public transport, with several paid parking facilities nearby. Maastricht is located close to both the Belgian and German borders, making Fetish Social Limburg easy to reach from the Netherlands as well as the surrounding cross-border region. GOOD TO KNOW 🎟 Free entry — no registration required. Drinks are at your own expense. 👕 A changing area is available, so you can change into your gear at the venue. 🍹 You’ll receive 50% off your first drink. 🎃 As our first edition takes place on Halloween, Café Rosé will be dressed for the occasion. FETISH SOCIAL LIMBURG Fetish Social Limburg is about bringing different parts of the fetish community together. Leather, rubber, pup, sportswear, sneakers, work wear, tactical gear, suit & tie and many other fetishes and styles all have a place within our social. Different gear, different interests, one social. WILL YOU BE JOINING US? 🌐 fetishsociallimburg.nl (soon) 📸 Instagram: @fetishsocial.limburg

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BOUND NYC: A Rope Bondage Party for Queer Men

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nov 6–7, 20267:00 PM – 1:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Bound NYC... A rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just a practice space. BOUND NYC is a rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just practice space. This is a room where bondage through rope is at the center, full scenes are encouraged, and play can extend into impact, sensation, bondage, and other forms of consensual exploration. Whether you come with a partner or attend solo, BOUND offers a warm, social, erotic, and play-minded environment for men who want to tie, connect, negotiate, and engage. This is not a class-based event. Light peer guidance and basic instruction may happen naturallyin the room, but the focus is on self-led play and scenes. Pick-up play is welcome, with attendees expected to negotiate for themselves. The Kink Collective’s MITPISA negotiation forms will be available to support clearer pre-scene communication and pickup play negotiation. What to Expect 7:00 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, connect, warm-up... Tie casually, if you'd like. 8:00 PM | Rules & Consent Agreements We gather briefly to review the rules, agreements and flow of the night. 8:15 PM | Rope and Scenes Open Once the room opens, attendees are free to tie, negotiate, play, and explore at their own pace. The Vibe • A warm, social, rope-forward atmosphere • Energetic beats and lighting set to support the room • Space for floor rope, with mats available • 2 suspension points and 1 suspension rig • Furnished with a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, tieable benches, and floor beds What to Bring Rope & Safety shears, implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No drugs. Meet Your Faciliatators BOUND is held by The Kink Collective facilitators and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care come first, and where exploration is supported rather than pushed. Location and Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $30 Member’s Ticket | $40 Solo Ticket | $60 Partner's (2 Tickets) 🎟 Get Your Advance Tickets, Here. OR pay at the door via Cash, Venmo, PayPal, Zelle, or CashApp Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend BOUND. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets, access to additional discounted in-person events, and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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Leather & Lashes Drag Brunch

Hosted by The Dallas Eagle

Sat, Nov 14, 20261:00 PM – 3:00 PM🇺🇸 Dallas, TX

Where Bold Meets Beautiful. Where Leather Meets Lashes. Where Brunch is a Full-On Spectacle. 💥 Where Bold Meets Beautiful. Where Leather Meets Lashes. Where Brunch is a Full-On Spectacle. 💥 Get ready to strut, sip, and serve at Leather & Lashes, the high-energy drag brunch at The Eagle that blends sultry leather-clad looks with sky-high lashes and show-stopping performances. 🌟 Expect: ✔ Electrifying performances that keep you on your feet. ✔ Delicious brunch bites & signature cocktails to keep the vibes flowing. ✔ A crowd that knows how to TURN UP. Brunch isn’t just a meal—it’s a full-throttle experience. So grab your crew, lace up that leather, and lash out with us every Sunday at The Eagle! 🍾 Bottomless mimosas. Badass performances. And a brunch you won’t forget. Know Before you Go Here’s everything you need to know to make the most of your time at our fabulous drag brunch at Dallas Eagle: Doors Open: 1:00 PM Show Start Time: 1:30 PM Location: Dallas Eagle 525 S. Riverfront Blvd. Dallas, TX 75207 Parking: The Dallas Eagle parking lot is right next to the venue. We recommend arriving early to secure a spot. Age Requirement: The Dallas Eagle is a 21+ venue, so don’t forget to bring your ID! Brunch is interactive! Cheer, clap, sing along, and show your love for the performers. Tipping the queens is highly encouraged! Bring cash to show your appreciation for their fabulous performances. Keep it respectful: While the queens love the energy and excitement, remember no touching—admire the talent from a safe distance. We can’t wait to see you at the Dallas Eagle for an unforgettable experience filled with laughs, jaw-dropping performances, and plenty of love! 🎉 UID: ev.26.a606

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KrINKles - Nappy Nibbles Social | An Free Indoor Picnic for ABDLs, Diaper Wearers, and Littles.

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Sat, Nov 14, 20264:30 PM – 7:30 PM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Nappy Nibbles! A free, cozy indoor picnic for ABDL's, Diaper Wearers, and Littles Nappy Nibbles is a soft, relaxed, low-pressure ABDL social created for diaper wearers, littles and those who want a cozy space to simply be. This is an indoor picnic-style gathering where comfort, community, and playful connection come first. Whether you want to cuddle up, chat, color, snack, relax, or just spend time around people who get it, Nappy Nibbles offers a warm and easygoing space to settle in without pressure or performance. What to Expect 4:30 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 4:30 PM–7:30 PM | Indoor Picnic Social Relax, cuddle, color, chat, snack, and enjoy a soft, low-pressure ABDL space at your own pace. 7:30 PM | Social Ends But the fun doesnt have to! Stay for our ABDL BDSM party, Diaper Debauchery. Starting at 8PM. 🎟️ Click Here, to Reserve Your Ticket. The Vibe • Cozy indoor picnic atmosphere • Space for cuddling, chatting, coloring, and quiet play • Low-pressure socializing and gentle connection • Couches, pillows, and mattresses for lounging • Soft lighting and a soft, easygoing feel What to Bring BYO food, drinks, snacks, games, comfort items, etc. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator Nappy Nibbles is guided by Dan, a long-time member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, grounded, and judgment-free spaces for men’s erotic and intimate play. Dan brings: warmth gentleness emotional presence excellent consent practice clarity around boundaries and a calm, steady leadership style His facilitation helps everyone feel seen, supported, and able to explore in their own time and way. Location & Entry Instructions Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets This event is free! | Donations welcome. Will You Stay for the Play Party? 🎉 After Nappy Nibbles, we flow into Diaper Debauchery, our ABDL BDSM play party starting at 8 PM. Come for the cozy social — stay for the deeper exploration if it feels right. 🎟️ Reserve Your Entrance to Diaper Debauchery, Click Here. Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to at

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Yes Sir! | A Mens BDSM Impact Play Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nov 21–22, 20268:00 PM – 1:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Yes Sir! A Men's Only BDSM Impact Play Party Yes Sir! is a men-only BDSM impact party built for men who want a dark, erotic space for impact, tension, and kinky exploration. Impact play is the theme of the night, with room for other BDSM play as it unfolds. Expect a room where flogging, spanking, paddles, canes, whips, rough body play, sensual impact, heavier impact, bondage, restraint, and CBT can all have a place. Sex is not the focus of the party, but may happen within scenes. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, aftercare, and connecting outside of active play. What to Expect 8 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play. 9 PM | Rules + Room Opening Once the room opens, men are free to negotiate, play, and move through the space at their own pace. 1 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • Ambient lighting and expressive house music that drive the energy • Furniture designed for real use, not just atmosphere (Benches, suspension points, spanking benches, massage tables, wall space, kneeling benches, stocks, and more) • A dark, erotic environment where impact, tension, and desire build side by side • Space for scenes to unfold with intensity, creativity, and control What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, lube etc A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Dress Code Dress for the energy of the party. Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome. Nudity is allowed throughout the space. If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately. Meet Your Facilitators Yes Sir! is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care support a wide range of impact and BDSM exploration. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $30 Members, $40 General Admission, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2) 🎟 Reserve Your Space Today, Click Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend YES SIR!. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [<a href="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://kinkcollective.net/membership-1&sa=D&source=calendar&us

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KrINKles - Call The Babysitter | Movie and Cuddle Social

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nov 22–23, 20267:00 PM – 12:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Call The Babysitter! A light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering... Call the Babysitter is a light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering for those who want a cozy space to relax, connect, and explore. This is a room where diapers, comfort, playful energy, and community come together in a welcoming environment built on kindness, consent, and care. Whether you arrive to cuddle, socialize, watch a movie, enjoy the comfort of sporting "little gear", or share playful connection with others, this is a space designed to help people settle in, feel at ease, and enjoy themselves at their own pace. What to Expect 7 PM | Doors Open The room opens organically. People often start socializing and connecting soon after arrival. 7:45 PM Brief Opening + Rules Check-In Once the room has settled, we pause briefly to go over intentions and house rules. 8 PM Movies Begin Cuddle, socialize, enjoy little gear, and connect in a soft, relaxing environment. 12 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • A cozy, diaper-centered atmosphere for community, comfort, and light exploration • Space to relax, socialize, cuddle, and connect • A changing table set up for diaper wearers What to Bring Diapers, pillow, change of clothes and any comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Facilitator This container is guided by Dan, a seasoned member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, welcoming spaces for erotic and playful exploration. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection while helping people feel comfortable and free to explore at their own pace. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Intstructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) ⬇️ 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend Call the Babysitter Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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STING NYC | A M/M Spanking Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Sat, Nov 28, 20261:00 PM – 6:00 PM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to STING NYC! A Spanking Party for Men STING NYC is a relaxed, men-only spanking party built for men who want space to give, receive, trade, watch, learn, and explore spanking in all its forms. Whether you are brand new or deeply experienced, STING NYC offers a playful, open environment where men can connect through impact, discipline, technique, erotic tension, and shared desire. From the sharp snap of a belt to the satisfying smack of a hand, this is a room for men who know that a good spanking can be playful, connective, intense, and deeply satisfying. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, aftercare, and connection outside of active play. What to Expect 1 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 1:45–2 PM | Arrival + Connection Meet others, go over the house rules, and set the tone before play begins. 2 PM | Play Room Opens For negotiated spanking, impact, watching, learning, connection, and exploration at your own pace. 6 PM | Party Ends The Vibe • A men-only space centered around spanking and impact • A relaxed, social, and erotic afternoon atmosphere • 12+ spanking stations and an open layout • Stations including a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking bench, kneeling benches, massage tables, and room for creative positioning • A separate social area for aftercare, downtime, snacks, and conversation What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator This event is led by Dan, a long-standing member of the spanking community and a trusted facilitator within The Kink Collective. Dan brings his passion for spanking and his easygoing style to create a space that feels safe, playful, and welcoming to all men in attendance. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend STING NYC. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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DIAPER HAPPY HOUR presented by NYC ABDL

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Tue, Dec 1, 20267:00 PM – 10:00 PM🇺🇸 Rockbar NYC, New York, NY

Event Deets: 📅 Date: Tuesday, September 5th ⏰ Time: 7:00 PM - 10:00 PM (or whenever the party winds down) 📍 Location: Rockbar, 185 Christopher Street 💰 Suggested Donation: $5.00 (because good times are priceless!) Why You Absolutely Need to Be There: - 💃 Our fantastic bar staff will be serving up fun and drinks all night. Be sure to tip them like the superheroes they are! - 🤩 Drama? Not here, buddy! Our space is a drama-free zone. It's all about good vibes, epic conversations, and maybe even making lifelong friends. - 📸 Capture memories, but hey, ask before you snap! We're all about respecting each other's privacy. - 🧥 Coat check? Nah, you're in charge of your gear, but we trust you to keep it fabulous. - 🤗 Hugs and cuddles (fully clothed, of course) are on the menu – spread the love! - 🍑 Changing station's the only spot for nudies – let's keep the rest of the party PG, folks! - 💩 Keep those messy diapers at home – we're all about a clean and cozy vibe. - 🚫 Tantrum? No way, Jose! Bullying? Absolutely not! Let's keep things as light as a diaper breeze. **Sponsored By:** 🌟 AB Universe 🌈 Lil Comfort 🚼 Tykables 🐻 Onesies Downunder The Grand Finale: Get ready to win some epic raffle prizes – because who doesn't love surprises that make you grin like a toddler in a candy store? So grab your calendars, set a reminder, and get ready to make a splash (hopefully not too literal) at Diaper Happy Hour! This isn't just an event – it's a chance to celebrate your unique interests in an open, warm, and friendly space. Remember, the power of the diaper compels you – and by "power," we mean the power of connection, acceptance, and having a blast! IG: nycabdl

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BOUND NYC: A Rope Bondage Party for Queer Men

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Dec 4–5, 20267:00 PM – 1:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Bound NYC... A rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just a practice space. BOUND NYC is a rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just practice space. This is a room where bondage through rope is at the center, full scenes are encouraged, and play can extend into impact, sensation, bondage, and other forms of consensual exploration. Whether you come with a partner or attend solo, BOUND offers a warm, social, erotic, and play-minded environment for men who want to tie, connect, negotiate, and engage. This is not a class-based event. Light peer guidance and basic instruction may happen naturallyin the room, but the focus is on self-led play and scenes. Pick-up play is welcome, with attendees expected to negotiate for themselves. The Kink Collective’s MITPISA negotiation forms will be available to support clearer pre-scene communication and pickup play negotiation. What to Expect 7:00 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, connect, warm-up... Tie casually, if you'd like. 8:00 PM | Rules & Consent Agreements We gather briefly to review the rules, agreements and flow of the night. 8:15 PM | Rope and Scenes Open Once the room opens, attendees are free to tie, negotiate, play, and explore at their own pace. The Vibe • A warm, social, rope-forward atmosphere • Energetic beats and lighting set to support the room • Space for floor rope, with mats available • 2 suspension points and 1 suspension rig • Furnished with a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, tieable benches, and floor beds What to Bring Rope & Safety shears, implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No drugs. Meet Your Faciliatators BOUND is held by The Kink Collective facilitators and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care come first, and where exploration is supported rather than pushed. Location and Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $30 Member’s Ticket | $40 Solo Ticket | $60 Partner's (2 Tickets) 🎟 Get Your Advance Tickets, Here. OR pay at the door via Cash, Venmo, PayPal, Zelle, or CashApp Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend BOUND. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets, access to additional discounted in-person events, and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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KrINKles - Diaper Debauchery | A diapers and kink play party for diapered expression, connection, and play.

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Dec 12–13, 20268:00 PM – 1:00 AM🇺🇸 New York, NY

Welcome to Diaper Debauchery... This is a party where you can show up exactly as you are—diapered, kinky, and free. About This Event Diaper Debauchery is a kinky queer diaper community night where you can show up exactly as you are — diapered, curious, kinky, and playful. Hosted as part of The Sanctuary Sessions, this is a queer-friendly space where ABDL and kink can coexist without judgment. It is a place for diapered expression, kinky exploration, and real community, with consent at the center of it all. The night may include diaper play, impact, bondage, group play, insertables, voyeurism, cuddling, and aftercare. Some nights are more social, some more playful, and some more erotic, but the purpose stays the same: to give people space to express their kinks with their diapers in a room built on openness, respect, and freedom. While this is not a sex party, consensual erotic play may naturally unfold. Nothing is assumed, no one is owed access, and watching does not equal participation. What to expect  8:00 PM | Doors Open The room begins organically. People often start socializing, exploring, and connecting soon after arrival. 9:00PM Brief check in & Rules Once the room has settled, we pause briefly to go over house rules. Then the party continues naturally and the rest of the night is open for connection, play, exploration, and expression at your own pace. 1AM Party Ends The Vibe  • Separate social, cuddle, and play areas • Soft lighting and immersive music to support the energy, mood, and pacing of the room. • Furnished stations for impact, restraint, and intimate exploration (St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, sex bench, and more) What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. Diapers, outfits, buzzes, and more A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No drugs. Your Facilitator 🤸🏼‍♂️ This container is guided by Dan, a seasoned member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, welcoming spaces for queer erotic play. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection while making room for a wide range of expression. Location + Entry The Sanctuary of East Harlem 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $20 Member's Ticket | $30 Solo | $50 Couples For Advanced tickets, Click HERE. Tickets at the door (cash, Venmo, Cashapp, Zelle and PayPal) Diaper Debauchery is one of the only parties where ABDL and kink coexist freely. Come curious, come playful, come as you are. Leave connected. Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend Diaper Debauchery. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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KrINKles - Nappy Nibbles Social | An Free Indoor Picnic for ABDLs, Diaper Wearers, and Littles.

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Sat, Dec 12, 20264:30 PM – 7:30 PM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Nappy Nibbles! A free, cozy indoor picnic for ABDL's, Diaper Wearers, and Littles Nappy Nibbles is a soft, relaxed, low-pressure ABDL social created for diaper wearers, littles and those who want a cozy space to simply be. This is an indoor picnic-style gathering where comfort, community, and playful connection come first. Whether you want to cuddle up, chat, color, snack, relax, or just spend time around people who get it, Nappy Nibbles offers a warm and easygoing space to settle in without pressure or performance. What to Expect 4:30 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 4:30 PM–7:30 PM | Indoor Picnic Social Relax, cuddle, color, chat, snack, and enjoy a soft, low-pressure ABDL space at your own pace. 7:30 PM | Social Ends But the fun doesnt have to! Stay for our ABDL BDSM party, Diaper Debauchery. Starting at 8PM. 🎟️ Click Here, to Reserve Your Ticket. The Vibe • Cozy indoor picnic atmosphere • Space for cuddling, chatting, coloring, and quiet play • Low-pressure socializing and gentle connection • Couches, pillows, and mattresses for lounging • Soft lighting and a soft, easygoing feel What to Bring BYO food, drinks, snacks, games, comfort items, etc. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator Nappy Nibbles is guided by Dan, a long-time member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, grounded, and judgment-free spaces for men’s erotic and intimate play. Dan brings: warmth gentleness emotional presence excellent consent practice clarity around boundaries and a calm, steady leadership style His facilitation helps everyone feel seen, supported, and able to explore in their own time and way. Location & Entry Instructions Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets This event is free! | Donations welcome. Will You Stay for the Play Party? 🎉 After Nappy Nibbles, we flow into Diaper Debauchery, our ABDL BDSM play party starting at 8 PM. Come for the cozy social — stay for the deeper exploration if it feels right. 🎟️ Reserve Your Entrance to Diaper Debauchery, Click Here. Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to at

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Corrossion NYC | A Men's Only BDSM & Sex Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Dec 13–14, 20267:00 PM – 12:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Corrosion NYC! A Men's Only BDSM Sex Party CORROSION NYC is a men-only BDSM and sex party built for men who want space for real play, real connection, and real sexual freedom. Some come for BDSM, some come for sex, and some come for both. The room is designed to let all of that happen naturally, with consent, respect, and clear boundaries at the center. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, and connecting outside of active play. Socializing happens there. BDSM and sexual activity happen in the designated play areas. This is not a social with furniture in the background. The play spaces are meant to be used. Expect a setup designed for both BDSM and sex, with floor beds, benches, a sling, suspension points, spanking benches, a St. Andrew’s Cross, and more. What to Expect 7 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play. 8 PM | Open BDSM + Sex Party Negotiate, play, hook up, connect, and move between social and active spaces at your own pace. 12 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • Soft lighting and immersive music to support the energy, mood, and pacing of the room. • Furnished stations for impact, restraint, and intimate exploration (St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, sex bench, and more) • A dark, masculine, sexually charged environment What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, lube etc A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. CORROSION Dress Code Dress for the energy of the party. Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome. Nudity is allowed throughout the space. If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately. Meet Your Facilitators CORROSION is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink. In this room, that means connection before climax, with consent, respect, and clear boundaries leading the way. Event Details Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $30 Members, $40 Solo, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2) 🎟 Reserve Your Ticket Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend CORROSION. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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Yes Sir! | A Mens BDSM Impact Play Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Dec 19–20, 20268:00 PM – 1:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Yes Sir! A Men's Only BDSM Impact Play Party Yes Sir! is a men-only BDSM impact party built for men who want a dark, erotic space for impact, tension, and kinky exploration. Impact play is the theme of the night, with room for other BDSM play as it unfolds. Expect a room where flogging, spanking, paddles, canes, whips, rough body play, sensual impact, heavier impact, bondage, restraint, and CBT can all have a place. Sex is not the focus of the party, but may happen within scenes. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, aftercare, and connecting outside of active play. What to Expect 8 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play. 9 PM | Rules + Room Opening Once the room opens, men are free to negotiate, play, and move through the space at their own pace. 1 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • Ambient lighting and expressive house music that drive the energy • Furniture designed for real use, not just atmosphere (Benches, suspension points, spanking benches, massage tables, wall space, kneeling benches, stocks, and more) • A dark, erotic environment where impact, tension, and desire build side by side • Space for scenes to unfold with intensity, creativity, and control What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, lube etc A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Dress Code Dress for the energy of the party. Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome. Nudity is allowed throughout the space. If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately. Meet Your Facilitators Yes Sir! is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care support a wide range of impact and BDSM exploration. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $30 Members, $40 General Admission, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2) 🎟 Reserve Your Space Today, Click Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend YES SIR!. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [<a href="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://kinkcollective.net/membership-1&sa=D&source=calendar&us

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STING NYC | A M/M Spanking Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Sat, Dec 26, 20261:00 PM – 6:00 PM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to STING NYC! A Spanking Party for Men STING NYC is a relaxed, men-only spanking party built for men who want space to give, receive, trade, watch, learn, and explore spanking in all its forms. Whether you are brand new or deeply experienced, STING NYC offers a playful, open environment where men can connect through impact, discipline, technique, erotic tension, and shared desire. From the sharp snap of a belt to the satisfying smack of a hand, this is a room for men who know that a good spanking can be playful, connective, intense, and deeply satisfying. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, aftercare, and connection outside of active play. What to Expect 1 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 1:45–2 PM | Arrival + Connection Meet others, go over the house rules, and set the tone before play begins. 2 PM | Play Room Opens For negotiated spanking, impact, watching, learning, connection, and exploration at your own pace. 6 PM | Party Ends The Vibe • A men-only space centered around spanking and impact • A relaxed, social, and erotic afternoon atmosphere • 12+ spanking stations and an open layout • Stations including a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking bench, kneeling benches, massage tables, and room for creative positioning • A separate social area for aftercare, downtime, snacks, and conversation What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator This event is led by Dan, a long-standing member of the spanking community and a trusted facilitator within The Kink Collective. Dan brings his passion for spanking and his easygoing style to create a space that feels safe, playful, and welcoming to all men in attendance. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend STING NYC. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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KrINKles - Call The Babysitter | Movie and Cuddle Social

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Dec 27–28, 20267:00 PM – 12:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Call The Babysitter! A light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering... Call the Babysitter is a light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering for those who want a cozy space to relax, connect, and explore. This is a room where diapers, comfort, playful energy, and community come together in a welcoming environment built on kindness, consent, and care. Whether you arrive to cuddle, socialize, watch a movie, enjoy the comfort of sporting "little gear", or share playful connection with others, this is a space designed to help people settle in, feel at ease, and enjoy themselves at their own pace. What to Expect 7 PM | Doors Open The room opens organically. People often start socializing and connecting soon after arrival. 7:45 PM Brief Opening + Rules Check-In Once the room has settled, we pause briefly to go over intentions and house rules. 8 PM Movies Begin Cuddle, socialize, enjoy little gear, and connect in a soft, relaxing environment. 12 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • A cozy, diaper-centered atmosphere for community, comfort, and light exploration • Space to relax, socialize, cuddle, and connect • A changing table set up for diaper wearers What to Bring Diapers, pillow, change of clothes and any comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Facilitator This container is guided by Dan, a seasoned member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, welcoming spaces for erotic and playful exploration. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection while helping people feel comfortable and free to explore at their own pace. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Intstructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) ⬇️ 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend Call the Babysitter Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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BOUND NYC: A Rope Bondage Party for Queer Men

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Jan 1–2, 20277:00 PM – 1:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Bound NYC... A rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just a practice space. BOUND NYC is a rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just practice space. This is a room where bondage through rope is at the center, full scenes are encouraged, and play can extend into impact, sensation, bondage, and other forms of consensual exploration. Whether you come with a partner or attend solo, BOUND offers a warm, social, erotic, and play-minded environment for men who want to tie, connect, negotiate, and engage. This is not a class-based event. Light peer guidance and basic instruction may happen naturallyin the room, but the focus is on self-led play and scenes. Pick-up play is welcome, with attendees expected to negotiate for themselves. The Kink Collective’s MITPISA negotiation forms will be available to support clearer pre-scene communication and pickup play negotiation. What to Expect 7:00 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, connect, warm-up... Tie casually, if you'd like. 8:00 PM | Rules & Consent Agreements We gather briefly to review the rules, agreements and flow of the night. 8:15 PM | Rope and Scenes Open Once the room opens, attendees are free to tie, negotiate, play, and explore at their own pace. The Vibe • A warm, social, rope-forward atmosphere • Energetic beats and lighting set to support the room • Space for floor rope, with mats available • 2 suspension points and 1 suspension rig • Furnished with a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, tieable benches, and floor beds What to Bring Rope & Safety shears, implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No drugs. Meet Your Faciliatators BOUND is held by The Kink Collective facilitators and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care come first, and where exploration is supported rather than pushed. Location and Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $30 Member’s Ticket | $40 Solo Ticket | $60 Partner's (2 Tickets) 🎟 Get Your Advance Tickets, Here. OR pay at the door via Cash, Venmo, PayPal, Zelle, or CashApp Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend BOUND. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets, access to additional discounted in-person events, and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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DIAPER HAPPY HOUR presented by NYC ABDL

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Tue, Jan 5, 20277:00 PM – 10:00 PM🇺🇸 Rockbar NYC, New York, NY

Event Deets: 📅 Date: Tuesday, September 5th ⏰ Time: 7:00 PM - 10:00 PM (or whenever the party winds down) 📍 Location: Rockbar, 185 Christopher Street 💰 Suggested Donation: $5.00 (because good times are priceless!) Why You Absolutely Need to Be There: - 💃 Our fantastic bar staff will be serving up fun and drinks all night. Be sure to tip them like the superheroes they are! - 🤩 Drama? Not here, buddy! Our space is a drama-free zone. It's all about good vibes, epic conversations, and maybe even making lifelong friends. - 📸 Capture memories, but hey, ask before you snap! We're all about respecting each other's privacy. - 🧥 Coat check? Nah, you're in charge of your gear, but we trust you to keep it fabulous. - 🤗 Hugs and cuddles (fully clothed, of course) are on the menu – spread the love! - 🍑 Changing station's the only spot for nudies – let's keep the rest of the party PG, folks! - 💩 Keep those messy diapers at home – we're all about a clean and cozy vibe. - 🚫 Tantrum? No way, Jose! Bullying? Absolutely not! Let's keep things as light as a diaper breeze. **Sponsored By:** 🌟 AB Universe 🌈 Lil Comfort 🚼 Tykables 🐻 Onesies Downunder The Grand Finale: Get ready to win some epic raffle prizes – because who doesn't love surprises that make you grin like a toddler in a candy store? So grab your calendars, set a reminder, and get ready to make a splash (hopefully not too literal) at Diaper Happy Hour! This isn't just an event – it's a chance to celebrate your unique interests in an open, warm, and friendly space. Remember, the power of the diaper compels you – and by "power," we mean the power of connection, acceptance, and having a blast! IG: nycabdl

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KrINKles - Nappy Nibbles Social | An Free Indoor Picnic for ABDLs, Diaper Wearers, and Littles.

Hosted by The Kink Collective

Sat, Jan 9, 20274:30 PM – 7:30 PM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Nappy Nibbles! A free, cozy indoor picnic for ABDL's, Diaper Wearers, and Littles Nappy Nibbles is a soft, relaxed, low-pressure ABDL social created for diaper wearers, littles and those who want a cozy space to simply be. This is an indoor picnic-style gathering where comfort, community, and playful connection come first. Whether you want to cuddle up, chat, color, snack, relax, or just spend time around people who get it, Nappy Nibbles offers a warm and easygoing space to settle in without pressure or performance. What to Expect 4:30 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 4:30 PM–7:30 PM | Indoor Picnic Social Relax, cuddle, color, chat, snack, and enjoy a soft, low-pressure ABDL space at your own pace. 7:30 PM | Social Ends But the fun doesnt have to! Stay for our ABDL BDSM party, Diaper Debauchery. Starting at 8PM. 🎟️ Click Here, to Reserve Your Ticket. The Vibe • Cozy indoor picnic atmosphere • Space for cuddling, chatting, coloring, and quiet play • Low-pressure socializing and gentle connection • Couches, pillows, and mattresses for lounging • Soft lighting and a soft, easygoing feel What to Bring BYO food, drinks, snacks, games, comfort items, etc. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator Nappy Nibbles is guided by Dan, a long-time member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, grounded, and judgment-free spaces for men’s erotic and intimate play. Dan brings: warmth gentleness emotional presence excellent consent practice clarity around boundaries and a calm, steady leadership style His facilitation helps everyone feel seen, supported, and able to explore in their own time and way. Location & Entry Instructions Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets This event is free! | Donations welcome. Will You Stay for the Play Party? 🎉 After Nappy Nibbles, we flow into Diaper Debauchery, our ABDL BDSM play party starting at 8 PM. Come for the cozy social — stay for the deeper exploration if it feels right. 🎟️ Reserve Your Entrance to Diaper Debauchery, Click Here. Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to at

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KrINKles - Diaper Debauchery | A diapers and kink play party for diapered expression, connection, and play.

Hosted by The Kink Collective

Jan 9–10, 20278:00 PM – 1:00 AM🇺🇸 New York, NY

Welcome to Diaper Debauchery... This is a party where you can show up exactly as you are—diapered, kinky, and free. About This Event Diaper Debauchery is a kinky queer diaper community night where you can show up exactly as you are — diapered, curious, kinky, and playful. Hosted as part of The Sanctuary Sessions, this is a queer-friendly space where ABDL and kink can coexist without judgment. It is a place for diapered expression, kinky exploration, and real community, with consent at the center of it all. The night may include diaper play, impact, bondage, group play, insertables, voyeurism, cuddling, and aftercare. Some nights are more social, some more playful, and some more erotic, but the purpose stays the same: to give people space to express their kinks with their diapers in a room built on openness, respect, and freedom. While this is not a sex party, consensual erotic play may naturally unfold. Nothing is assumed, no one is owed access, and watching does not equal participation. What to expect  8:00 PM | Doors Open The room begins organically. People often start socializing, exploring, and connecting soon after arrival. 9:00PM Brief check in & Rules Once the room has settled, we pause briefly to go over house rules. Then the party continues naturally and the rest of the night is open for connection, play, exploration, and expression at your own pace. 1AM Party Ends The Vibe  • Separate social, cuddle, and play areas • Soft lighting and immersive music to support the energy, mood, and pacing of the room. • Furnished stations for impact, restraint, and intimate exploration (St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, sex bench, and more) What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. Diapers, outfits, buzzes, and more A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No drugs. Your Facilitator 🤸🏼‍♂️ This container is guided by Dan, a seasoned member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, welcoming spaces for queer erotic play. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection while making room for a wide range of expression. Location + Entry The Sanctuary of East Harlem 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $20 Member's Ticket | $30 Solo | $50 Couples For Advanced tickets, Click HERE. Tickets at the door (cash, Venmo, Cashapp, Zelle and PayPal) Diaper Debauchery is one of the only parties where ABDL and kink coexist freely. Come curious, come playful, come as you are. Leave connected. Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend Diaper Debauchery. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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Corrossion NYC | A Men's Only BDSM & Sex Party

Hosted by The Kink Collective

Jan 10–11, 20277:00 PM – 12:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Corrosion NYC! A Men's Only BDSM Sex Party CORROSION NYC is a men-only BDSM and sex party built for men who want space for real play, real connection, and real sexual freedom. Some come for BDSM, some come for sex, and some come for both. The room is designed to let all of that happen naturally, with consent, respect, and clear boundaries at the center. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, and connecting outside of active play. Socializing happens there. BDSM and sexual activity happen in the designated play areas. This is not a social with furniture in the background. The play spaces are meant to be used. Expect a setup designed for both BDSM and sex, with floor beds, benches, a sling, suspension points, spanking benches, a St. Andrew’s Cross, and more. What to Expect 7 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play. 8 PM | Open BDSM + Sex Party Negotiate, play, hook up, connect, and move between social and active spaces at your own pace. 12 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • Soft lighting and immersive music to support the energy, mood, and pacing of the room. • Furnished stations for impact, restraint, and intimate exploration (St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, sex bench, and more) • A dark, masculine, sexually charged environment What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, lube etc A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. CORROSION Dress Code Dress for the energy of the party. Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome. Nudity is allowed throughout the space. If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately. Meet Your Facilitators CORROSION is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink. In this room, that means connection before climax, with consent, respect, and clear boundaries leading the way. Event Details Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $30 Members, $40 Solo, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2) 🎟 Reserve Your Ticket Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend CORROSION. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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Leather Archives & Museum

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Leather Archives & Museum

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