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Fetish Social Limburg

Hosted by Fetish Social Limburg

Sat, Oct 31, 20261:30 PM – 6:30 PM🇳🇱 Café Rosé, Maastricht

FETISH SOCIAL LIMBURG - MAASTRICHT, THE NETHERLANDS 🇳🇱 MAASTRICHT, ARE YOU READY? 🖤 On Saturday, October 31st, 2026, it’s time for the very first edition of Fetish Social Limburg! Whether you’re into leather, rubber, sportswear, work wear, sneakers, suit & tie, pup, tactical gear or something completely different... you’re welcome to join us! ABOUT THE SOCIAL Fetish Social Limburg brings people with different fetishes and interests together. It’s an afternoon to meet new people, catch up with familiar faces, make new connections and simply enjoy being part of the community. This is a social gathering, not a play party. There is no sex, play or nudity. It’s all about meeting each other in a relaxed and friendly atmosphere. You’re welcome to come in gear, but you don’t have to. Whether you already feel completely at home in the fetish scene or you’re taking your first steps into the community, you’re welcome to join the social. WHO IS IT FOR? 🏳️‍🌈 Fetish Social Limburg brings together men from the gay, bi and queer fetish community, whatever fetish or gear you’re into. Age: 18+ DATE, TIME & LOCATION 📅 Saturday, October 31st, 2026 ⌚ 13:30 – 18:30 📍 Café Rosé Bogaardenstraat 43 6211 SN Maastricht The Netherlands GETTING THERE Café Rosé is centrally located in Maastricht, close to the Markt and Vrijthof. The venue is easily accessible by public transport, with several paid parking facilities nearby. Maastricht is located close to both the Belgian and German borders, making Fetish Social Limburg easy to reach from the Netherlands as well as the surrounding cross-border region. GOOD TO KNOW 🎟 Free entry — no registration required. Drinks are at your own expense. 👕 A changing area is available, so you can change into your gear at the venue. 🍹 You’ll receive 50% off your first drink. 🎃 As our first edition takes place on Halloween, Café Rosé will be dressed for the occasion. FETISH SOCIAL LIMBURG Fetish Social Limburg is about bringing different parts of the fetish community together. Leather, rubber, pup, sportswear, sneakers, work wear, tactical gear, suit & tie and many other fetishes and styles all have a place within our social. Different gear, different interests, one social. WILL YOU BE JOINING US? 🌐 fetishsociallimburg.nl (soon) 📸 Instagram: @fetishsocial.limburg

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TRANSFERNO: THE HUNGER

Hosted by Transferno

Oct 31–Nov 1, 20269:00 PM – 3:00 AM🇺🇸 Pickles Playground, New York, NY

DJ RAW ED returns! $35 Cash (includes beverages, clothes check, towel, admission) Location: 210 5th Ave, Park Slope, Brooklyn Advance tickets ONLY, no cash entry at the door Ticket link goes live on Tuesday, October 13th at 12pm TICKET PRESALE LINK: https://forbiddentickets.com/events/kris-grey/f7c215fca1 Who needs thirst traps when you’ve got the HUNGER? This Halloween, TRANSFERNO invites you to give in to your cravings. Descend beneath the city, out of the light and into a den of creatures who only come alive after dark. Vampires, demons, leather daddies, lost boys, hungry holes and things without names—we gather all. DJ RAW ED will be feeding the dance floor until the small hours, while we celebrate Halloween the way nature intended: slutty, spooky, and altogether kooky. Come gorgeous. Come monstrous. Come with THE HUNGER. And remember: this one is PRESALE ONLY. Attendance is capped, there will be NO tickets at the door and NO cash admission. When the crypt is full, it’s full. Ticket link goes live on Tuesday, October 13th at 12pm noon! Once pre-sale is sold out, there will automatically be a waitlist sign-up. And remember - October 31st is Gaylight Savings Time night - so you get an extra hour of play! The night is young and so are you… for now. (but seriously, no blood play please) Hosted by Santos, Kris, and Oak! $35 Presale Only NEW SUBSTACK Link https://substack.com/@transfernoparty

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BOUND NYC: A Rope Bondage Party for Queer Men

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nov 6–7, 20267:00 PM – 1:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Bound NYC... A rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just a practice space. BOUND NYC is a rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just practice space. This is a room where bondage through rope is at the center, full scenes are encouraged, and play can extend into impact, sensation, bondage, and other forms of consensual exploration. Whether you come with a partner or attend solo, BOUND offers a warm, social, erotic, and play-minded environment for men who want to tie, connect, negotiate, and engage. This is not a class-based event. Light peer guidance and basic instruction may happen naturallyin the room, but the focus is on self-led play and scenes. Pick-up play is welcome, with attendees expected to negotiate for themselves. The Kink Collective’s MITPISA negotiation forms will be available to support clearer pre-scene communication and pickup play negotiation. What to Expect 7:00 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, connect, warm-up... Tie casually, if you'd like. 8:00 PM | Rules & Consent Agreements We gather briefly to review the rules, agreements and flow of the night. 8:15 PM | Rope and Scenes Open Once the room opens, attendees are free to tie, negotiate, play, and explore at their own pace. The Vibe • A warm, social, rope-forward atmosphere • Energetic beats and lighting set to support the room • Space for floor rope, with mats available • 2 suspension points and 1 suspension rig • Furnished with a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, tieable benches, and floor beds What to Bring Rope & Safety shears, implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No drugs. Meet Your Faciliatators BOUND is held by The Kink Collective facilitators and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care come first, and where exploration is supported rather than pushed. Location and Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $30 Member’s Ticket | $40 Solo Ticket | $60 Partner's (2 Tickets) 🎟 Get Your Advance Tickets, Here. OR pay at the door via Cash, Venmo, PayPal, Zelle, or CashApp Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend BOUND. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets, access to additional discounted in-person events, and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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FAUCET: A Party for Piss Pigs

Hosted by NYC Inferno

Sun, Nov 8, 20264:00 PM – 9:00 PM🇺🇸 Pickles Playground, New York, NY

FREE PISS PLAY 101 CLASS from 2:30 - 3:30PM taught by Adam $35 Cash (includes beverages, clothes check, towel, shower access) Location (for both party and class) 210 5th Ave, Park Slope, Brooklyn (Private Address) Bring ID. RSVP (not required) : partiful.com/e/ih87qdx5QakWZWf2OKqZ No Dress Code: Wear as little or as much as you want. Please DON’T wear cologne, fragrances or deodorant. Wear shoes or footwear you don’t mind getting soaked in piss. Reduced List Available, email nycinferno@gmail.com Each month, the world’s sexiest piss pigs regularly travel to Brooklyn from places as far away as London, Phoenix, Seattle, Berlin or the Bronx. Why? Because they know FAUCET is the wettest, wildest, friendliest and piggiest piss party on the East Coast. Over 100 thirsty players show up at Pickles' Playground on the first Sunday of the month. They come from all levels of experience, but they usually leave very happy, telling us that they've never been to a party like it, that they did something they've always wanted to try but were afraid to, like getting drenched in a piss pool, drinking from the tap, or getting pissed on in a sling! They always say they'll be back, and return they always do! So what's keeping you from joining us at one of FAUCET's upcoming Fall Piss Parties on Sundays November 8th, December 6th, or January 3? New to piss play or piss parties? Join our FREE-PRE-PEE-PARTY Piss Play 101 class! Show up at 2:30 PM to learn the ins, outs, tops and bottoms of golden showers, and meet other newcomers and prospective guests, in a friendly, laid-back, no-pressure environment. Seriously, this is a great party for first-timers and the curious voyeur who loves to watch piss videos at home... but really wants to see it in person... Once the party starts at 4 PM, we’ll be offering free beverages (or BYOB—no glass bottles, please!) and snacks… plus any liquid refreshment your fellow guests might have on tap! REDUCED $25 admission for Queer, Trans, POC folks or others in need of reduced admission. Email nycinferno@gmail.com to get on the list. You don’t need to explain why you need it, just email so we get a sense of how many people need reduced. Guests with motion disabilities: please note that the party space is sadly not accessible. Flyer by Brian Raudenbush FAUCET PRACTICES CONSENT! Ask for consent before touching somebody, and if they say “no thanks” or don’t respond enthusiastically, move on. If someone you’re watching asks for privacy, respect that. If you aren’t finding what you are looking for, just be kind and keep mingling, and you’ll surely find someone else into your scene. Nudity does NOT equal consent, and consent can be withdrawn at any time. Please DON’T BUTT INTO other SCENES in PROGRESS. RESPECT! Party staff keeping an eye on the space will enforce a policy of zero tolerance for anyone who disrespects a guest for their race, gender, disability, size, age, appearance, gender, genitals, kinks, for using condoms, for not using condoms, for being thirsty, for being shy, for being naked, for wearing “too much,” for wearing the “wrong” thing, or for who they are in any other capacity. ACCOUNTABILITY! If you feel someone is violating your boundaries, being too aggressive, or threatening your safety in any way, please find Adam, Pickles, or one of our staff immediately, and we will remove them from the party. FINALLY: Thanks for reading this far. You’re so sexy! Have a great time. WHAT IS FAUCET? ANSWERS TO FAQS FAUCET is NYC INFERNO’s monthly piss play-centered party for folks of every level of experience. Faucet parties take place in the same space as NYC INFERNO, a basement sex club with a cruising maze, multiple rooms, public and semi-private spaces for play; a social area for drinks, conversation and connection; and three piss tubs for folks who like to get pissed on. You have the whole club to get wet in, no areas are restricted except clothes check and the bathroom/clean up area. There is a shower and we provide towels for you to use post-shower where you can clean up/rinse off. We also provide a fridge of free beer and a bar with non-alcoholic selections - soda, juice - and snacks. As with NYC INFERNO, FAUCET is as social as it is sexual. Folks usually enter the party, have something to drink, socialize in our main room, before venturing off into our front room or back room, or into the maze, to make connections. Queer and trans kinksters are welcome and have been coming to the party since the beginning, though the party usually attracts a majority cis-gay crowd. Most guests tend to arrive between 4 and 5:30PM, many tanked up and ready to piss. FAUCET is a kink-positive party: wear whatever makes you feel sexy: rubber, pup hoods, jockstraps, thongs, or go naked! Do you like to wear clothes and get pissed on in them? That’s fine too. Voyeurs are also welcome. If it turns you on to watch, please do so, at a respectful distance, and

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Kinky Speed Friending with PsychoKitty

Hosted by Wicked Grounds

Wed, Nov 11, 20267:00 PM – 9:00 PM🇺🇸 Trellis, San Francisco, CA

We can't promise love, but we can help you with a fun night full of meeting people, a lot of people, fast. Our purpose is to encourage you to meet new people. - Find people with similar kinks as yours. - Find people with whom to explore new kinks. - Find new friends. - Find new people to play with. People will be separated by appetite, either top or bottom. (Switches can pick a side or wait to see what side is needed more.) And then you will get two minutes with each person and a chance to connect afterward. The evening is about meeting people who complement your kinky appetite, not about identity or gender. The people you meet will be worth meeting, even if they aren't your appetite. Once the event has started, we can not add new people, so please be on time. PRESENTER: Ryan “Psychokitty” has been helping people connect with similar events for over a decade, from the old Shibaricon in Chicago to Dark Odyssey: Surrender, or hosting events at the SF Citadel, Catalyst, and of course Wicked Grounds. TICKETING: Ticketing for this event is exclusively through Plura: https://plra.io/m/kinky-speed-friending-with-psychokitty-67 ACCESS: In SF, this event will be held at Trellis. Please note that doors will close quickly so we recommend arriving 15 minutes before the event starts for check-in. We cannot admit anyone after about 7:10 (once the event has begun), so please plan accordingly! Late arrivals cannot be refunded. Please do not attend in person if you have any respiratory symptoms whatsoever. Anyone displaying signs of respiratory symptoms may be asked to leave, regardless of vaccination status.

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Leather & Lashes Drag Brunch

Hosted by The Dallas Eagle

Sat, Nov 14, 20261:00 PM – 3:00 PM🇺🇸 The Dallas Eagle, Dallas, TX

Where Bold Meets Beautiful. Where Leather Meets Lashes. Where Brunch is a Full-On Spectacle. 💥 Where Bold Meets Beautiful. Where Leather Meets Lashes. Where Brunch is a Full-On Spectacle. 💥 Get ready to strut, sip, and serve at Leather & Lashes, the high-energy drag brunch at The Eagle that blends sultry leather-clad looks with sky-high lashes and show-stopping performances. 🌟 Expect: ✔ Electrifying performances that keep you on your feet. ✔ Delicious brunch bites & signature cocktails to keep the vibes flowing. ✔ A crowd that knows how to TURN UP. Brunch isn’t just a meal—it’s a full-throttle experience. So grab your crew, lace up that leather, and lash out with us every Sunday at The Eagle! 🍾 Bottomless mimosas. Badass performances. And a brunch you won’t forget. Know Before you Go Here’s everything you need to know to make the most of your time at our fabulous drag brunch at Dallas Eagle: Doors Open: 1:00 PM Show Start Time: 1:30 PM Location: Dallas Eagle 525 S. Riverfront Blvd. Dallas, TX 75207 Parking: The Dallas Eagle parking lot is right next to the venue. We recommend arriving early to secure a spot. Age Requirement: The Dallas Eagle is a 21+ venue, so don’t forget to bring your ID! Brunch is interactive! Cheer, clap, sing along, and show your love for the performers. Tipping the queens is highly encouraged! Bring cash to show your appreciation for their fabulous performances. Keep it respectful: While the queens love the energy and excitement, remember no touching—admire the talent from a safe distance. We can’t wait to see you at the Dallas Eagle for an unforgettable experience filled with laughs, jaw-dropping performances, and plenty of love! 🎉 UID: ev.26.a606

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KrINKles - Nappy Nibbles Social | An Free Indoor Picnic for ABDLs, Diaper Wearers, and Littles.

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Sat, Nov 14, 20264:30 PM – 7:30 PM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Nappy Nibbles! A free, cozy indoor picnic for ABDL's, Diaper Wearers, and Littles Nappy Nibbles is a soft, relaxed, low-pressure ABDL social created for diaper wearers, littles and those who want a cozy space to simply be. This is an indoor picnic-style gathering where comfort, community, and playful connection come first. Whether you want to cuddle up, chat, color, snack, relax, or just spend time around people who get it, Nappy Nibbles offers a warm and easygoing space to settle in without pressure or performance. What to Expect 4:30 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 4:30 PM–7:30 PM | Indoor Picnic Social Relax, cuddle, color, chat, snack, and enjoy a soft, low-pressure ABDL space at your own pace. 7:30 PM | Social Ends But the fun doesnt have to! Stay for our ABDL BDSM party, Diaper Debauchery. Starting at 8PM. 🎟️ Click Here, to Reserve Your Ticket. The Vibe • Cozy indoor picnic atmosphere • Space for cuddling, chatting, coloring, and quiet play • Low-pressure socializing and gentle connection • Couches, pillows, and mattresses for lounging • Soft lighting and a soft, easygoing feel What to Bring BYO food, drinks, snacks, games, comfort items, etc. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator Nappy Nibbles is guided by Dan, a long-time member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, grounded, and judgment-free spaces for men’s erotic and intimate play. Dan brings: warmth gentleness emotional presence excellent consent practice clarity around boundaries and a calm, steady leadership style His facilitation helps everyone feel seen, supported, and able to explore in their own time and way. Location & Entry Instructions Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets This event is free! | Donations welcome. Will You Stay for the Play Party? 🎉 After Nappy Nibbles, we flow into Diaper Debauchery, our ABDL BDSM play party starting at 8 PM. Come for the cozy social — stay for the deeper exploration if it feels right. 🎟️ Reserve Your Entrance to Diaper Debauchery, Click Here. Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to at

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PLAGUE MASS - a new opera

Hosted by PLAGUE MASS

Thu, Nov 19, 20268:00 PM – 10:00 PM🇺🇸 Speyer Hall, New York, NY

PLAGUE MASS a new opera Tickets: https://www.tickettailor.com/events/countercodex/2097426 July 26th, 1985: Hollywood heartthrob and closeted gay man, ROCK HUDSON, sends a shockwave through American culture by announcing his diagnosis with Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome. From AIDS activists fighting for their lives, to movie stars in Hollywood, and politicians at the highest levels of government, there’s a marked change in how the disease is perceived. For some, there is a glimmer of hope for the first time that a cure can be found. Later, with ROCK on his deathbed, the spirit of KEITH HARING casts a spell to convene ELIZABETH TAYLOR, MATHILDE KRIM, and RONALD REAGAN so they can perform a ritual to help ROCK find peace. Created by six composers and five librettists, PLAGUE MASS explores what connects us in a time of crisis across divisions of power, class, and sexual identity. PERFORMANCES November 19, 2026 | 8:00 p.m. November 21, 2026 | 3:00 p.m. November 21, 2026 | 8:00 p.m. SPEYER HALL | UNIVERSITY SETTLEMENT | LOWER EAST SIDE FEATURING JORDAN RUTTER-COVATTO as KEITH HARING DAVEED BUZAGLO as ROCK HUDSON MELAINA MILLS as ELIZABETH TAYLOR DANIELLE BUONAIUTO as MATHILDE KRIM DANIEL KLEIN as RONALD REAGAN with music by JORDAN RUTTER-COVATTO, JASMINE GALANTE, SARAH GENEVIEVE BURGHART RICE, JOSEPH N. RUBINSTEIN, LUCAS TAHIRUZZAMAN SYED, and DEREK WEAGLE lyrics by CLARE BIERMAN, JOHNNY LLOYD, CHIARA M. N., HEATHER O'DONOVAN, and FRED SAUTER book by JORDAN RUTTER-COVATTO directed by SAM HELFRICH “Then they cried to the LORD in their trouble and He delivered them from their distress. He sent out His word and healed them; He rescued them from the grave.” Psalm 107: 20-2 SUPPORT THIS PROJECT AT COUNTERCODEX.COM/SUPPORT

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PLAGUE MASS - a new opera

Hosted by PLAGUE MASS

Sat, Nov 21, 20263:00 PM – 5:00 PM🇺🇸 Speyer Hall, New York, NY

PLAGUE MASS a new opera Tickets: https://www.tickettailor.com/events/countercodex/2097426 July 26th, 1985: Hollywood heartthrob and closeted gay man, ROCK HUDSON, sends a shockwave through American culture by announcing his diagnosis with Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome. From AIDS activists fighting for their lives, to movie stars in Hollywood, and politicians at the highest levels of government, there’s a marked change in how the disease is perceived. For some, there is a glimmer of hope for the first time that a cure can be found. Later, with ROCK on his deathbed, the spirit of KEITH HARING casts a spell to convene ELIZABETH TAYLOR, MATHILDE KRIM, and RONALD REAGAN so they can perform a ritual to help ROCK find peace. Created by six composers and five librettists, PLAGUE MASS explores what connects us in a time of crisis across divisions of power, class, and sexual identity. PERFORMANCES November 19, 2026 | 8:00 p.m. November 21, 2026 | 3:00 p.m. November 21, 2026 | 8:00 p.m. SPEYER HALL | UNIVERSITY SETTLEMENT | LOWER EAST SIDE FEATURING JORDAN RUTTER-COVATTO as KEITH HARING DAVEED BUZAGLO as ROCK HUDSON MELAINA MILLS as ELIZABETH TAYLOR DANIELLE BUONAIUTO as MATHILDE KRIM DANIEL KLEIN as RONALD REAGAN with music by JORDAN RUTTER-COVATTO, JASMINE GALANTE, SARAH GENEVIEVE BURGHART RICE, JOSEPH N. RUBINSTEIN, LUCAS TAHIRUZZAMAN SYED, and DEREK WEAGLE lyrics by CLARE BIERMAN, JOHNNY LLOYD, CHIARA M. N., HEATHER O'DONOVAN, and FRED SAUTER book by JORDAN RUTTER-COVATTO directed by SAM HELFRICH “Then they cried to the LORD in their trouble and He delivered them from their distress. He sent out His word and healed them; He rescued them from the grave.” Psalm 107: 20-2 SUPPORT THIS PROJECT AT COUNTERCODEX.COM/SUPPORT

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Yes Sir! | A Mens BDSM Impact Play Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nov 21–22, 20268:00 PM – 1:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Yes Sir! A Men's Only BDSM Impact Play Party Yes Sir! is a men-only BDSM impact party built for men who want a dark, erotic space for impact, tension, and kinky exploration. Impact play is the theme of the night, with room for other BDSM play as it unfolds. Expect a room where flogging, spanking, paddles, canes, whips, rough body play, sensual impact, heavier impact, bondage, restraint, and CBT can all have a place. Sex is not the focus of the party, but may happen within scenes. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, aftercare, and connecting outside of active play. What to Expect 8 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play. 9 PM | Rules + Room Opening Once the room opens, men are free to negotiate, play, and move through the space at their own pace. 1 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • Ambient lighting and expressive house music that drive the energy • Furniture designed for real use, not just atmosphere (Benches, suspension points, spanking benches, massage tables, wall space, kneeling benches, stocks, and more) • A dark, erotic environment where impact, tension, and desire build side by side • Space for scenes to unfold with intensity, creativity, and control What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, lube etc A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Dress Code Dress for the energy of the party. Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome. Nudity is allowed throughout the space. If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately. Meet Your Facilitators Yes Sir! is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care support a wide range of impact and BDSM exploration. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $30 Members, $40 General Admission, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2) 🎟 Reserve Your Space Today, Click Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend YES SIR!. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [<a href="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://kinkcollective.net/membership-1&sa=D&source=calendar&us

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PLAGUE MASS - a new opera

Hosted by PLAGUE MASS

Sat, Nov 21, 20268:00 PM – 10:00 PM🇺🇸 Speyer Hall, New York, NY

PLAGUE MASS a new opera Tickets: https://www.tickettailor.com/events/countercodex/2097426 July 26th, 1985: Hollywood heartthrob and closeted gay man, ROCK HUDSON, sends a shockwave through American culture by announcing his diagnosis with Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome. From AIDS activists fighting for their lives, to movie stars in Hollywood, and politicians at the highest levels of government, there’s a marked change in how the disease is perceived. For some, there is a glimmer of hope for the first time that a cure can be found. Later, with ROCK on his deathbed, the spirit of KEITH HARING casts a spell to convene ELIZABETH TAYLOR, MATHILDE KRIM, and RONALD REAGAN so they can perform a ritual to help ROCK find peace. Created by six composers and five librettists, PLAGUE MASS explores what connects us in a time of crisis across divisions of power, class, and sexual identity. PERFORMANCES November 19, 2026 | 8:00 p.m. November 21, 2026 | 3:00 p.m. November 21, 2026 | 8:00 p.m. SPEYER HALL | UNIVERSITY SETTLEMENT | LOWER EAST SIDE FEATURING JORDAN RUTTER-COVATTO as KEITH HARING DAVEED BUZAGLO as ROCK HUDSON MELAINA MILLS as ELIZABETH TAYLOR DANIELLE BUONAIUTO as MATHILDE KRIM DANIEL KLEIN as RONALD REAGAN with music by JORDAN RUTTER-COVATTO, JASMINE GALANTE, SARAH GENEVIEVE BURGHART RICE, JOSEPH N. RUBINSTEIN, LUCAS TAHIRUZZAMAN SYED, and DEREK WEAGLE lyrics by CLARE BIERMAN, JOHNNY LLOYD, CHIARA M. N., HEATHER O'DONOVAN, and FRED SAUTER book by JORDAN RUTTER-COVATTO directed by SAM HELFRICH “Then they cried to the LORD in their trouble and He delivered them from their distress. He sent out His word and healed them; He rescued them from the grave.” Psalm 107: 20-2 SUPPORT THIS PROJECT AT COUNTERCODEX.COM/SUPPORT

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KrINKles - Call The Babysitter | Movie and Cuddle Social

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nov 22–23, 20267:00 PM – 12:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Call The Babysitter! A light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering... Call the Babysitter is a light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering for those who want a cozy space to relax, connect, and explore. This is a room where diapers, comfort, playful energy, and community come together in a welcoming environment built on kindness, consent, and care. Whether you arrive to cuddle, socialize, watch a movie, enjoy the comfort of sporting "little gear", or share playful connection with others, this is a space designed to help people settle in, feel at ease, and enjoy themselves at their own pace. What to Expect 7 PM | Doors Open The room opens organically. People often start socializing and connecting soon after arrival. 7:45 PM Brief Opening + Rules Check-In Once the room has settled, we pause briefly to go over intentions and house rules. 8 PM Movies Begin Cuddle, socialize, enjoy little gear, and connect in a soft, relaxing environment. 12 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • A cozy, diaper-centered atmosphere for community, comfort, and light exploration • Space to relax, socialize, cuddle, and connect • A changing table set up for diaper wearers What to Bring Diapers, pillow, change of clothes and any comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Facilitator This container is guided by Dan, a seasoned member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, welcoming spaces for erotic and playful exploration. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection while helping people feel comfortable and free to explore at their own pace. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Intstructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) ⬇️ 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend Call the Babysitter Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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STING NYC | A M/M Spanking Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Sat, Nov 28, 20261:00 PM – 6:00 PM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to STING NYC! A Spanking Party for Men STING NYC is a relaxed, men-only spanking party built for men who want space to give, receive, trade, watch, learn, and explore spanking in all its forms. Whether you are brand new or deeply experienced, STING NYC offers a playful, open environment where men can connect through impact, discipline, technique, erotic tension, and shared desire. From the sharp snap of a belt to the satisfying smack of a hand, this is a room for men who know that a good spanking can be playful, connective, intense, and deeply satisfying. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, aftercare, and connection outside of active play. What to Expect 1 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 1:45–2 PM | Arrival + Connection Meet others, go over the house rules, and set the tone before play begins. 2 PM | Play Room Opens For negotiated spanking, impact, watching, learning, connection, and exploration at your own pace. 6 PM | Party Ends The Vibe • A men-only space centered around spanking and impact • A relaxed, social, and erotic afternoon atmosphere • 12+ spanking stations and an open layout • Stations including a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking bench, kneeling benches, massage tables, and room for creative positioning • A separate social area for aftercare, downtime, snacks, and conversation What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator This event is led by Dan, a long-standing member of the spanking community and a trusted facilitator within The Kink Collective. Dan brings his passion for spanking and his easygoing style to create a space that feels safe, playful, and welcoming to all men in attendance. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend STING NYC. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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DIAPER HAPPY HOUR presented by NYC ABDL

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Tue, Dec 1, 20267:00 PM – 10:00 PM🇺🇸 Rockbar NYC, New York, NY

Event Deets: 📅 Date: Tuesday, September 5th ⏰ Time: 7:00 PM - 10:00 PM (or whenever the party winds down) 📍 Location: Rockbar, 185 Christopher Street 💰 Suggested Donation: $5.00 (because good times are priceless!) Why You Absolutely Need to Be There: - 💃 Our fantastic bar staff will be serving up fun and drinks all night. Be sure to tip them like the superheroes they are! - 🤩 Drama? Not here, buddy! Our space is a drama-free zone. It's all about good vibes, epic conversations, and maybe even making lifelong friends. - 📸 Capture memories, but hey, ask before you snap! We're all about respecting each other's privacy. - 🧥 Coat check? Nah, you're in charge of your gear, but we trust you to keep it fabulous. - 🤗 Hugs and cuddles (fully clothed, of course) are on the menu – spread the love! - 🍑 Changing station's the only spot for nudies – let's keep the rest of the party PG, folks! - 💩 Keep those messy diapers at home – we're all about a clean and cozy vibe. - 🚫 Tantrum? No way, Jose! Bullying? Absolutely not! Let's keep things as light as a diaper breeze. **Sponsored By:** 🌟 AB Universe 🌈 Lil Comfort 🚼 Tykables 🐻 Onesies Downunder The Grand Finale: Get ready to win some epic raffle prizes – because who doesn't love surprises that make you grin like a toddler in a candy store? So grab your calendars, set a reminder, and get ready to make a splash (hopefully not too literal) at Diaper Happy Hour! This isn't just an event – it's a chance to celebrate your unique interests in an open, warm, and friendly space. Remember, the power of the diaper compels you – and by "power," we mean the power of connection, acceptance, and having a blast! IG: nycabdl

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BOUND NYC: A Rope Bondage Party for Queer Men

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Dec 4–5, 20267:00 PM – 1:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Bound NYC... A rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just a practice space. BOUND NYC is a rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just practice space. This is a room where bondage through rope is at the center, full scenes are encouraged, and play can extend into impact, sensation, bondage, and other forms of consensual exploration. Whether you come with a partner or attend solo, BOUND offers a warm, social, erotic, and play-minded environment for men who want to tie, connect, negotiate, and engage. This is not a class-based event. Light peer guidance and basic instruction may happen naturallyin the room, but the focus is on self-led play and scenes. Pick-up play is welcome, with attendees expected to negotiate for themselves. The Kink Collective’s MITPISA negotiation forms will be available to support clearer pre-scene communication and pickup play negotiation. What to Expect 7:00 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, connect, warm-up... Tie casually, if you'd like. 8:00 PM | Rules & Consent Agreements We gather briefly to review the rules, agreements and flow of the night. 8:15 PM | Rope and Scenes Open Once the room opens, attendees are free to tie, negotiate, play, and explore at their own pace. The Vibe • A warm, social, rope-forward atmosphere • Energetic beats and lighting set to support the room • Space for floor rope, with mats available • 2 suspension points and 1 suspension rig • Furnished with a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, tieable benches, and floor beds What to Bring Rope & Safety shears, implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No drugs. Meet Your Faciliatators BOUND is held by The Kink Collective facilitators and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care come first, and where exploration is supported rather than pushed. Location and Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $30 Member’s Ticket | $40 Solo Ticket | $60 Partner's (2 Tickets) 🎟 Get Your Advance Tickets, Here. OR pay at the door via Cash, Venmo, PayPal, Zelle, or CashApp Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend BOUND. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets, access to additional discounted in-person events, and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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Surrender: Wrestling and Electro (Blacklight Party + Electro Wrestling Workshop)

Hosted by theDommeKat

Fri, Dec 11, 20266:00 PM – 11:30 PM🇺🇸 Union Square, New York, NY

NYC's kinkiest queer wrestling party is back in neon with BLACKLIGHT WRESTLING. Grapple, watch, cuddle, explore -- whatever you came for, come as you are — leave sweaty, smiling and maybe just a little shocked and surprised! bit.ly/SurrenderElectroNYC Friday, Dec. 11, 2026 6:00–11:30 p.m. 📍 NYC near Union Square (address sent with registration) ⚠️ Accessibility note: 3rd floor walk-up What to Expect 💥 Open Mat Wrestling Pins, pro-style, grappling, submission, BJJ, rope wrestling, tickle fights, fantasy — you call it. Newbies and wrestling-curious folks are very welcome. A wrestling partner is not guaranteed, but the mats have a way of bringing people together. Show up curious and see what happens. 🛡️ Consent & Safety Referees on the mats. LED-armband consent monitors easy to spot if you need support. Color wristbands so everyone knows who's open to play and who prefers not to be approached. Photos and video only in the designated corner — the rest of the space is phone-free. We practice **RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)** — please check in with yourself before you dive in. Wrestling carries real physical risk, so participate at your own pace and within your own risk profile. 🛍️ More to Love Vendors, snacks, a cuddle-friendly 420 smoke lounge and plenty of good humans to meet. 🎟️ Tickets Prices increase as tiers sell out — early is cheaper. - Workshop + Party tickets are the standard ticket and include both. - Workshop-only and party-only tickets also available. - Door tickets: $80 (register online for the address and full info) - All online sales close Sept. 25 at midnight. - No refunds.* No discounts at the door. - Pay-What-You-Can tickets are available for SWs and queer/transgender people of color or financial hardship. Email theDommeKat@gmail.com for the code. (Limited availability — donations unlock more.) - Can't swing the cost? Email theDommeKat@gmail.com about volunteer opportunities — community references preferred. Volunteer position is not guaranteed.

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KrINKles - Nappy Nibbles Social | An Free Indoor Picnic for ABDLs, Diaper Wearers, and Littles.

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Sat, Dec 12, 20264:30 PM – 7:30 PM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Nappy Nibbles! A free, cozy indoor picnic for ABDL's, Diaper Wearers, and Littles Nappy Nibbles is a soft, relaxed, low-pressure ABDL social created for diaper wearers, littles and those who want a cozy space to simply be. This is an indoor picnic-style gathering where comfort, community, and playful connection come first. Whether you want to cuddle up, chat, color, snack, relax, or just spend time around people who get it, Nappy Nibbles offers a warm and easygoing space to settle in without pressure or performance. What to Expect 4:30 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 4:30 PM–7:30 PM | Indoor Picnic Social Relax, cuddle, color, chat, snack, and enjoy a soft, low-pressure ABDL space at your own pace. 7:30 PM | Social Ends But the fun doesnt have to! Stay for our ABDL BDSM party, Diaper Debauchery. Starting at 8PM. 🎟️ Click Here, to Reserve Your Ticket. The Vibe • Cozy indoor picnic atmosphere • Space for cuddling, chatting, coloring, and quiet play • Low-pressure socializing and gentle connection • Couches, pillows, and mattresses for lounging • Soft lighting and a soft, easygoing feel What to Bring BYO food, drinks, snacks, games, comfort items, etc. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator Nappy Nibbles is guided by Dan, a long-time member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, grounded, and judgment-free spaces for men’s erotic and intimate play. Dan brings: warmth gentleness emotional presence excellent consent practice clarity around boundaries and a calm, steady leadership style His facilitation helps everyone feel seen, supported, and able to explore in their own time and way. Location & Entry Instructions Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets This event is free! | Donations welcome. Will You Stay for the Play Party? 🎉 After Nappy Nibbles, we flow into Diaper Debauchery, our ABDL BDSM play party starting at 8 PM. Come for the cozy social — stay for the deeper exploration if it feels right. 🎟️ Reserve Your Entrance to Diaper Debauchery, Click Here. Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to at

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KrINKles - Diaper Debauchery | A diapers and kink play party for diapered expression, connection, and play.

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Dec 12–13, 20268:00 PM – 1:00 AM🇺🇸 New York, NY

Welcome to Diaper Debauchery... This is a party where you can show up exactly as you are—diapered, kinky, and free. About This Event Diaper Debauchery is a kinky queer diaper community night where you can show up exactly as you are — diapered, curious, kinky, and playful. Hosted as part of The Sanctuary Sessions, this is a queer-friendly space where ABDL and kink can coexist without judgment. It is a place for diapered expression, kinky exploration, and real community, with consent at the center of it all. The night may include diaper play, impact, bondage, group play, insertables, voyeurism, cuddling, and aftercare. Some nights are more social, some more playful, and some more erotic, but the purpose stays the same: to give people space to express their kinks with their diapers in a room built on openness, respect, and freedom. While this is not a sex party, consensual erotic play may naturally unfold. Nothing is assumed, no one is owed access, and watching does not equal participation. What to expect  8:00 PM | Doors Open The room begins organically. People often start socializing, exploring, and connecting soon after arrival. 9:00PM Brief check in & Rules Once the room has settled, we pause briefly to go over house rules. Then the party continues naturally and the rest of the night is open for connection, play, exploration, and expression at your own pace. 1AM Party Ends The Vibe  • Separate social, cuddle, and play areas • Soft lighting and immersive music to support the energy, mood, and pacing of the room. • Furnished stations for impact, restraint, and intimate exploration (St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, sex bench, and more) What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. Diapers, outfits, buzzes, and more A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No drugs. Your Facilitator 🤸🏼‍♂️ This container is guided by Dan, a seasoned member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, welcoming spaces for queer erotic play. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection while making room for a wide range of expression. Location + Entry The Sanctuary of East Harlem 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $20 Member's Ticket | $30 Solo | $50 Couples For Advanced tickets, Click HERE. Tickets at the door (cash, Venmo, Cashapp, Zelle and PayPal) Diaper Debauchery is one of the only parties where ABDL and kink coexist freely. Come curious, come playful, come as you are. Leave connected. Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend Diaper Debauchery. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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Corrossion NYC | A Men's Only BDSM & Sex Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Dec 13–14, 20267:00 PM – 12:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Corrosion NYC! A Men's Only BDSM Sex Party CORROSION NYC is a men-only BDSM and sex party built for men who want space for real play, real connection, and real sexual freedom. Some come for BDSM, some come for sex, and some come for both. The room is designed to let all of that happen naturally, with consent, respect, and clear boundaries at the center. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, and connecting outside of active play. Socializing happens there. BDSM and sexual activity happen in the designated play areas. This is not a social with furniture in the background. The play spaces are meant to be used. Expect a setup designed for both BDSM and sex, with floor beds, benches, a sling, suspension points, spanking benches, a St. Andrew’s Cross, and more. What to Expect 7 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play. 8 PM | Open BDSM + Sex Party Negotiate, play, hook up, connect, and move between social and active spaces at your own pace. 12 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • Soft lighting and immersive music to support the energy, mood, and pacing of the room. • Furnished stations for impact, restraint, and intimate exploration (St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, sex bench, and more) • A dark, masculine, sexually charged environment What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, lube etc A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. CORROSION Dress Code Dress for the energy of the party. Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome. Nudity is allowed throughout the space. If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately. Meet Your Facilitators CORROSION is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink. In this room, that means connection before climax, with consent, respect, and clear boundaries leading the way. Event Details Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $30 Members, $40 Solo, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2) 🎟 Reserve Your Ticket Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend CORROSION. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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Yes Sir! | A Mens BDSM Impact Play Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Dec 19–20, 20268:00 PM – 1:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Yes Sir! A Men's Only BDSM Impact Play Party Yes Sir! is a men-only BDSM impact party built for men who want a dark, erotic space for impact, tension, and kinky exploration. Impact play is the theme of the night, with room for other BDSM play as it unfolds. Expect a room where flogging, spanking, paddles, canes, whips, rough body play, sensual impact, heavier impact, bondage, restraint, and CBT can all have a place. Sex is not the focus of the party, but may happen within scenes. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, aftercare, and connecting outside of active play. What to Expect 8 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play. 9 PM | Rules + Room Opening Once the room opens, men are free to negotiate, play, and move through the space at their own pace. 1 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • Ambient lighting and expressive house music that drive the energy • Furniture designed for real use, not just atmosphere (Benches, suspension points, spanking benches, massage tables, wall space, kneeling benches, stocks, and more) • A dark, erotic environment where impact, tension, and desire build side by side • Space for scenes to unfold with intensity, creativity, and control What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, lube etc A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Dress Code Dress for the energy of the party. Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome. Nudity is allowed throughout the space. If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately. Meet Your Facilitators Yes Sir! is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care support a wide range of impact and BDSM exploration. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $30 Members, $40 General Admission, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2) 🎟 Reserve Your Space Today, Click Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend YES SIR!. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [<a href="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://kinkcollective.net/membership-1&sa=D&source=calendar&us

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STING NYC | A M/M Spanking Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Sat, Dec 26, 20261:00 PM – 6:00 PM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to STING NYC! A Spanking Party for Men STING NYC is a relaxed, men-only spanking party built for men who want space to give, receive, trade, watch, learn, and explore spanking in all its forms. Whether you are brand new or deeply experienced, STING NYC offers a playful, open environment where men can connect through impact, discipline, technique, erotic tension, and shared desire. From the sharp snap of a belt to the satisfying smack of a hand, this is a room for men who know that a good spanking can be playful, connective, intense, and deeply satisfying. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, aftercare, and connection outside of active play. What to Expect 1 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 1:45–2 PM | Arrival + Connection Meet others, go over the house rules, and set the tone before play begins. 2 PM | Play Room Opens For negotiated spanking, impact, watching, learning, connection, and exploration at your own pace. 6 PM | Party Ends The Vibe • A men-only space centered around spanking and impact • A relaxed, social, and erotic afternoon atmosphere • 12+ spanking stations and an open layout • Stations including a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking bench, kneeling benches, massage tables, and room for creative positioning • A separate social area for aftercare, downtime, snacks, and conversation What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator This event is led by Dan, a long-standing member of the spanking community and a trusted facilitator within The Kink Collective. Dan brings his passion for spanking and his easygoing style to create a space that feels safe, playful, and welcoming to all men in attendance. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend STING NYC. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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KrINKles - Call The Babysitter | Movie and Cuddle Social

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Dec 27–28, 20267:00 PM – 12:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Call The Babysitter! A light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering... Call the Babysitter is a light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering for those who want a cozy space to relax, connect, and explore. This is a room where diapers, comfort, playful energy, and community come together in a welcoming environment built on kindness, consent, and care. Whether you arrive to cuddle, socialize, watch a movie, enjoy the comfort of sporting "little gear", or share playful connection with others, this is a space designed to help people settle in, feel at ease, and enjoy themselves at their own pace. What to Expect 7 PM | Doors Open The room opens organically. People often start socializing and connecting soon after arrival. 7:45 PM Brief Opening + Rules Check-In Once the room has settled, we pause briefly to go over intentions and house rules. 8 PM Movies Begin Cuddle, socialize, enjoy little gear, and connect in a soft, relaxing environment. 12 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • A cozy, diaper-centered atmosphere for community, comfort, and light exploration • Space to relax, socialize, cuddle, and connect • A changing table set up for diaper wearers What to Bring Diapers, pillow, change of clothes and any comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Facilitator This container is guided by Dan, a seasoned member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, welcoming spaces for erotic and playful exploration. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection while helping people feel comfortable and free to explore at their own pace. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Intstructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) ⬇️ 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend Call the Babysitter Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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BOUND NYC: A Rope Bondage Party for Queer Men

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Jan 1–2, 20277:00 PM – 1:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Bound NYC... A rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just a practice space. BOUND NYC is a rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just practice space. This is a room where bondage through rope is at the center, full scenes are encouraged, and play can extend into impact, sensation, bondage, and other forms of consensual exploration. Whether you come with a partner or attend solo, BOUND offers a warm, social, erotic, and play-minded environment for men who want to tie, connect, negotiate, and engage. This is not a class-based event. Light peer guidance and basic instruction may happen naturallyin the room, but the focus is on self-led play and scenes. Pick-up play is welcome, with attendees expected to negotiate for themselves. The Kink Collective’s MITPISA negotiation forms will be available to support clearer pre-scene communication and pickup play negotiation. What to Expect 7:00 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, connect, warm-up... Tie casually, if you'd like. 8:00 PM | Rules & Consent Agreements We gather briefly to review the rules, agreements and flow of the night. 8:15 PM | Rope and Scenes Open Once the room opens, attendees are free to tie, negotiate, play, and explore at their own pace. The Vibe • A warm, social, rope-forward atmosphere • Energetic beats and lighting set to support the room • Space for floor rope, with mats available • 2 suspension points and 1 suspension rig • Furnished with a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, tieable benches, and floor beds What to Bring Rope & Safety shears, implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No drugs. Meet Your Faciliatators BOUND is held by The Kink Collective facilitators and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care come first, and where exploration is supported rather than pushed. Location and Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $30 Member’s Ticket | $40 Solo Ticket | $60 Partner's (2 Tickets) 🎟 Get Your Advance Tickets, Here. OR pay at the door via Cash, Venmo, PayPal, Zelle, or CashApp Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend BOUND. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets, access to additional discounted in-person events, and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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DIAPER HAPPY HOUR presented by NYC ABDL

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Tue, Jan 5, 20277:00 PM – 10:00 PM🇺🇸 Rockbar NYC, New York, NY

Event Deets: 📅 Date: Tuesday, September 5th ⏰ Time: 7:00 PM - 10:00 PM (or whenever the party winds down) 📍 Location: Rockbar, 185 Christopher Street 💰 Suggested Donation: $5.00 (because good times are priceless!) Why You Absolutely Need to Be There: - 💃 Our fantastic bar staff will be serving up fun and drinks all night. Be sure to tip them like the superheroes they are! - 🤩 Drama? Not here, buddy! Our space is a drama-free zone. It's all about good vibes, epic conversations, and maybe even making lifelong friends. - 📸 Capture memories, but hey, ask before you snap! We're all about respecting each other's privacy. - 🧥 Coat check? Nah, you're in charge of your gear, but we trust you to keep it fabulous. - 🤗 Hugs and cuddles (fully clothed, of course) are on the menu – spread the love! - 🍑 Changing station's the only spot for nudies – let's keep the rest of the party PG, folks! - 💩 Keep those messy diapers at home – we're all about a clean and cozy vibe. - 🚫 Tantrum? No way, Jose! Bullying? Absolutely not! Let's keep things as light as a diaper breeze. **Sponsored By:** 🌟 AB Universe 🌈 Lil Comfort 🚼 Tykables 🐻 Onesies Downunder The Grand Finale: Get ready to win some epic raffle prizes – because who doesn't love surprises that make you grin like a toddler in a candy store? So grab your calendars, set a reminder, and get ready to make a splash (hopefully not too literal) at Diaper Happy Hour! This isn't just an event – it's a chance to celebrate your unique interests in an open, warm, and friendly space. Remember, the power of the diaper compels you – and by "power," we mean the power of connection, acceptance, and having a blast! IG: nycabdl

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KrINKles - Nappy Nibbles Social | An Free Indoor Picnic for ABDLs, Diaper Wearers, and Littles.

Hosted by The Kink Collective

Sat, Jan 9, 20274:30 PM – 7:30 PM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Nappy Nibbles! A free, cozy indoor picnic for ABDL's, Diaper Wearers, and Littles Nappy Nibbles is a soft, relaxed, low-pressure ABDL social created for diaper wearers, littles and those who want a cozy space to simply be. This is an indoor picnic-style gathering where comfort, community, and playful connection come first. Whether you want to cuddle up, chat, color, snack, relax, or just spend time around people who get it, Nappy Nibbles offers a warm and easygoing space to settle in without pressure or performance. What to Expect 4:30 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 4:30 PM–7:30 PM | Indoor Picnic Social Relax, cuddle, color, chat, snack, and enjoy a soft, low-pressure ABDL space at your own pace. 7:30 PM | Social Ends But the fun doesnt have to! Stay for our ABDL BDSM party, Diaper Debauchery. Starting at 8PM. 🎟️ Click Here, to Reserve Your Ticket. The Vibe • Cozy indoor picnic atmosphere • Space for cuddling, chatting, coloring, and quiet play • Low-pressure socializing and gentle connection • Couches, pillows, and mattresses for lounging • Soft lighting and a soft, easygoing feel What to Bring BYO food, drinks, snacks, games, comfort items, etc. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator Nappy Nibbles is guided by Dan, a long-time member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, grounded, and judgment-free spaces for men’s erotic and intimate play. Dan brings: warmth gentleness emotional presence excellent consent practice clarity around boundaries and a calm, steady leadership style His facilitation helps everyone feel seen, supported, and able to explore in their own time and way. Location & Entry Instructions Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets This event is free! | Donations welcome. Will You Stay for the Play Party? 🎉 After Nappy Nibbles, we flow into Diaper Debauchery, our ABDL BDSM play party starting at 8 PM. Come for the cozy social — stay for the deeper exploration if it feels right. 🎟️ Reserve Your Entrance to Diaper Debauchery, Click Here. Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to at

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KrINKles - Diaper Debauchery | A diapers and kink play party for diapered expression, connection, and play.

Hosted by The Kink Collective

Jan 9–10, 20278:00 PM – 1:00 AM🇺🇸 New York, NY

Welcome to Diaper Debauchery... This is a party where you can show up exactly as you are—diapered, kinky, and free. About This Event Diaper Debauchery is a kinky queer diaper community night where you can show up exactly as you are — diapered, curious, kinky, and playful. Hosted as part of The Sanctuary Sessions, this is a queer-friendly space where ABDL and kink can coexist without judgment. It is a place for diapered expression, kinky exploration, and real community, with consent at the center of it all. The night may include diaper play, impact, bondage, group play, insertables, voyeurism, cuddling, and aftercare. Some nights are more social, some more playful, and some more erotic, but the purpose stays the same: to give people space to express their kinks with their diapers in a room built on openness, respect, and freedom. While this is not a sex party, consensual erotic play may naturally unfold. Nothing is assumed, no one is owed access, and watching does not equal participation. What to expect  8:00 PM | Doors Open The room begins organically. People often start socializing, exploring, and connecting soon after arrival. 9:00PM Brief check in & Rules Once the room has settled, we pause briefly to go over house rules. Then the party continues naturally and the rest of the night is open for connection, play, exploration, and expression at your own pace. 1AM Party Ends The Vibe  • Separate social, cuddle, and play areas • Soft lighting and immersive music to support the energy, mood, and pacing of the room. • Furnished stations for impact, restraint, and intimate exploration (St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, sex bench, and more) What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. Diapers, outfits, buzzes, and more A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No drugs. Your Facilitator 🤸🏼‍♂️ This container is guided by Dan, a seasoned member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, welcoming spaces for queer erotic play. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection while making room for a wide range of expression. Location + Entry The Sanctuary of East Harlem 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $20 Member's Ticket | $30 Solo | $50 Couples For Advanced tickets, Click HERE. Tickets at the door (cash, Venmo, Cashapp, Zelle and PayPal) Diaper Debauchery is one of the only parties where ABDL and kink coexist freely. Come curious, come playful, come as you are. Leave connected. Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend Diaper Debauchery. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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Corrossion NYC | A Men's Only BDSM & Sex Party

Hosted by The Kink Collective

Jan 10–11, 20277:00 PM – 12:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Corrosion NYC! A Men's Only BDSM Sex Party CORROSION NYC is a men-only BDSM and sex party built for men who want space for real play, real connection, and real sexual freedom. Some come for BDSM, some come for sex, and some come for both. The room is designed to let all of that happen naturally, with consent, respect, and clear boundaries at the center. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, and connecting outside of active play. Socializing happens there. BDSM and sexual activity happen in the designated play areas. This is not a social with furniture in the background. The play spaces are meant to be used. Expect a setup designed for both BDSM and sex, with floor beds, benches, a sling, suspension points, spanking benches, a St. Andrew’s Cross, and more. What to Expect 7 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play. 8 PM | Open BDSM + Sex Party Negotiate, play, hook up, connect, and move between social and active spaces at your own pace. 12 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • Soft lighting and immersive music to support the energy, mood, and pacing of the room. • Furnished stations for impact, restraint, and intimate exploration (St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, sex bench, and more) • A dark, masculine, sexually charged environment What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, lube etc A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. CORROSION Dress Code Dress for the energy of the party. Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome. Nudity is allowed throughout the space. If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately. Meet Your Facilitators CORROSION is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink. In this room, that means connection before climax, with consent, respect, and clear boundaries leading the way. Event Details Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $30 Members, $40 Solo, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2) 🎟 Reserve Your Ticket Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend CORROSION. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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Yes Sir! | A Mens BDSM Impact Play Party

Hosted by The Kink Collective

Jan 16–17, 20278:00 PM – 1:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Yes Sir! A Men's Only BDSM Impact Play Party Yes Sir! is a men-only BDSM impact party built for men who want a dark, erotic space for impact, tension, and kinky exploration. Impact play is the theme of the night, with room for other BDSM play as it unfolds. Expect a room where flogging, spanking, paddles, canes, whips, rough body play, sensual impact, heavier impact, bondage, restraint, and CBT can all have a place. Sex is not the focus of the party, but may happen within scenes. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, aftercare, and connecting outside of active play. What to Expect 8 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play. 9 PM | Rules + Room Opening Once the room opens, men are free to negotiate, play, and move through the space at their own pace. 1 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • Ambient lighting and expressive house music that drive the energy • Furniture designed for real use, not just atmosphere (Benches, suspension points, spanking benches, massage tables, wall space, kneeling benches, stocks, and more) • A dark, erotic environment where impact, tension, and desire build side by side • Space for scenes to unfold with intensity, creativity, and control What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, lube etc A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Dress Code Dress for the energy of the party. Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome. Nudity is allowed throughout the space. If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately. Meet Your Facilitators Yes Sir! is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care support a wide range of impact and BDSM exploration. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $30 Members, $40 General Admission, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2) 🎟 Reserve Your Space Today, Click Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend YES SIR!. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [<a href="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://kinkcollective.net/membership-1&sa=D&source=calendar&us

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Dublin Leather Weekend

Hosted by Leathermen of Ireland

Jan 22–24, 20275:00 PM – 11:30 PM🇮🇪 D01 P9K1, Dublin🔖 1 saved

Come and celebrate Dublin Leather Weekend, where the world comes together in Dublin’s Fair City to meet, have plenty of craic, and find out who will be the next Mr. Dublin Leather! Dublin Leather Weekend takes place from 22nd-24th January 2027. Full Weekend Packages Our weekend packages have been fully sold – however, we operate a waitlist for those still looking to get a package. Click here to send an email expressing interest, or email lmi@outlook.ie with the subject DLW 2027 WAITING LIST. General Weekend Tickets Saturday tickets are now available. This gives you admission to all Saturday events except the leather dinner – Puppy Ireland, Bingo, Shine & the Mr Dublin Leather contest. There will also be a limited number of tickets available at the door for Saturday daytime events and the evening contest. Our Host Hotel – Trinity City Hotel This year we are partnering with Trinity City Hotel to offer a limited number of rooms at a competitive rate. Book early, as rooms are limited! Booking link Here’s what to expect over the weekend: Friday 22nd January 5PM – 8PM | Full Weekend Package Wristband Collection Pennylane Our first event of the weekend as we kick off DLW 2027 in this much-loved famous Dublin bar. Full Weekend Package wristband collection – please bring your ticket. 8PM – Late | Meet & Greet Pennylane Come along to meet locals and visitors as we officially launch DLW 2027. Free event – entry is dependent on venue capacity, so arrive early! — Saturday 23rd January 12:30PM – 2PM | Puppy Ireland Contest Pantibar Join us as we witness the 5th Puppy Ireland Contest and enjoy the sheer excitement of the Irish puppies. Who will ‘fetch’ the title this year? Included in Weekend Package or €15 on the door for all afternoon events.   2PM – 3PM | Leathermen of Ireland’s Legendary Music Bingo Pantibar Eyes down for a session of smashing tunes & a chance to win some prizes. Included in Weekend Package or €15 on the door for all afternoon events.   3PM – 5PM | Saturday Socials – Several Options… SHINE – A Relaxing Rubber Social @ Pantibar, Upstairs Slick up & hang out with your shiny friends! Included in Weekend Package or €15 on the door for all afternoon events. Pints & Nibbles @ Pennylane Head across the road to Pennylane to snack out and socialise. Free event.   Cigar Social @ Pennylane, Terrace Join Jamie, Mr Leather Europe 2026 for a chilled smokeout with leather friends. Free event.   Femmes & Thems @ Pantibar, Downstairs For Femmes, Thems & gender-diverse queers. Head downstairs in Pantibar to join Scarlett Rose – Ms Southeast Leatherfest 2023 – for good company & conversation. Included in Weekend Package or €15 on the door for all afternoon events.   Waddlíns ABDL Social @ Pantibar, Downstairs The Waddlíns Dublin ABDL social is coming to DLW! They will be downstairs in Pantibar. Anyone with even a passing interest in diapers or diaper wearers is welcome! There will be board games, colouring books, and good conversation. ABDL gear is welcome and encouraged, but please note this is just a social, so there won’t be any changing facilities provided. Included in Weekend Package or €15 on the door for all afternoon events.   6PM – 9PM | Official Leather Dinner of DLW 2027 @ The Trinity City Hotel 3-course meal. Full Weekend Package Wristband only.   9:30PM – Late | DLW 2027 Main Event @ DV8 With music from X-Award Winner, Darklands DJ and Folsom Europe PIG Party DJ, K-PAXian direct from Norway with his iconic funky beats. Featuring the Mr Dublin Leather 2027 Competition. Full Weekend Wristband or €25 on the door.   — Sunday 24th January 12:30PM – 3PM | Leather Lunch @ Fade Street Social The refuel needed after the night before. Full Weekend Package Wristband only.   7PM – Late | Drag Bingo & Boogie @ The George Bar It will be ‘Eyes Dow

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STING NYC | A M/M Spanking Party

Hosted by The Kink Collective

Sat, Jan 23, 20271:00 PM – 6:00 PM🇺🇸 The Sanctuary of East Harlem, New York, NY

Welcome to STING NYC! A Spanking Party for Men STING NYC is a relaxed, men-only spanking party built for men who want space to give, receive, trade, watch, learn, and explore spanking in all its forms. Whether you are brand new or deeply experienced, STING NYC offers a playful, open environment where men can connect through impact, discipline, technique, erotic tension, and shared desire. From the sharp snap of a belt to the satisfying smack of a hand, this is a room for men who know that a good spanking can be playful, connective, intense, and deeply satisfying. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, aftercare, and connection outside of active play. What to Expect 1 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 1:45–2 PM | Arrival + Connection Meet others, go over the house rules, and set the tone before play begins. 2 PM | Play Room Opens For negotiated spanking, impact, watching, learning, connection, and exploration at your own pace. 6 PM | Party Ends The Vibe • A men-only space centered around spanking and impact • A relaxed, social, and erotic afternoon atmosphere • 12+ spanking stations and an open layout • Stations including a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking bench, kneeling benches, massage tables, and room for creative positioning • A separate social area for aftercare, downtime, snacks, and conversation What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator This event is led by Dan, a long-standing member of the spanking community and a trusted facilitator within The Kink Collective. Dan brings his passion for spanking and his easygoing style to create a space that feels safe, playful, and welcoming to all men in attendance. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend STING NYC. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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KrINKles - Call The Babysitter | Movie and Cuddle Social

Hosted by The Kink Collective

Jan 24–25, 20277:00 PM – 12:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Call The Babysitter! A light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering... Call the Babysitter is a light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering for those who want a cozy space to relax, connect, and explore. This is a room where diapers, comfort, playful energy, and community come together in a welcoming environment built on kindness, consent, and care. Whether you arrive to cuddle, socialize, watch a movie, enjoy the comfort of sporting "little gear", or share playful connection with others, this is a space designed to help people settle in, feel at ease, and enjoy themselves at their own pace. What to Expect 7 PM | Doors Open The room opens organically. People often start socializing and connecting soon after arrival. 7:45 PM Brief Opening + Rules Check-In Once the room has settled, we pause briefly to go over intentions and house rules. 8 PM Movies Begin Cuddle, socialize, enjoy little gear, and connect in a soft, relaxing environment. 12 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • A cozy, diaper-centered atmosphere for community, comfort, and light exploration • Space to relax, socialize, cuddle, and connect • A changing table set up for diaper wearers What to Bring Diapers, pillow, change of clothes and any comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Facilitator This container is guided by Dan, a seasoned member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, welcoming spaces for erotic and playful exploration. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection while helping people feel comfortable and free to explore at their own pace. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Intstructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) ⬇️ 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend Call the Babysitter Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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DIAPER HAPPY HOUR presented by NYC ABDL

Hosted by Rockbar NYC

Tue, Feb 2, 20277:00 PM – 10:00 PM🇺🇸 Rockbar NYC, New York, NY

Event Deets: 📅 Date: Tuesday, September 5th ⏰ Time: 7:00 PM - 10:00 PM (or whenever the party winds down) 📍 Location: Rockbar, 185 Christopher Street 💰 Suggested Donation: $5.00 (because good times are priceless!) Why You Absolutely Need to Be There: - 💃 Our fantastic bar staff will be serving up fun and drinks all night. Be sure to tip them like the superheroes they are! - 🤩 Drama? Not here, buddy! Our space is a drama-free zone. It's all about good vibes, epic conversations, and maybe even making lifelong friends. - 📸 Capture memories, but hey, ask before you snap! We're all about respecting each other's privacy. - 🧥 Coat check? Nah, you're in charge of your gear, but we trust you to keep it fabulous. - 🤗 Hugs and cuddles (fully clothed, of course) are on the menu – spread the love! - 🍑 Changing station's the only spot for nudies – let's keep the rest of the party PG, folks! - 💩 Keep those messy diapers at home – we're all about a clean and cozy vibe. - 🚫 Tantrum? No way, Jose! Bullying? Absolutely not! Let's keep things as light as a diaper breeze. **Sponsored By:** 🌟 AB Universe 🌈 Lil Comfort 🚼 Tykables 🐻 Onesies Downunder The Grand Finale: Get ready to win some epic raffle prizes – because who doesn't love surprises that make you grin like a toddler in a candy store? So grab your calendars, set a reminder, and get ready to make a splash (hopefully not too literal) at Diaper Happy Hour! This isn't just an event – it's a chance to celebrate your unique interests in an open, warm, and friendly space. Remember, the power of the diaper compels you – and by "power," we mean the power of connection, acceptance, and having a blast! IG: nycabdl

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BOUND NYC: A Rope Bondage Party for Queer Men

Hosted by The Kink Collective

Feb 5–6, 20277:00 PM – 1:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Bound NYC... A rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just a practice space. BOUND NYC is a rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just practice space. This is a room where bondage through rope is at the center, full scenes are encouraged, and play can extend into impact, sensation, bondage, and other forms of consensual exploration. Whether you come with a partner or attend solo, BOUND offers a warm, social, erotic, and play-minded environment for men who want to tie, connect, negotiate, and engage. This is not a class-based event. Light peer guidance and basic instruction may happen naturallyin the room, but the focus is on self-led play and scenes. Pick-up play is welcome, with attendees expected to negotiate for themselves. The Kink Collective’s MITPISA negotiation forms will be available to support clearer pre-scene communication and pickup play negotiation. What to Expect 7:00 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, connect, warm-up... Tie casually, if you'd like. 8:00 PM | Rules & Consent Agreements We gather briefly to review the rules, agreements and flow of the night. 8:15 PM | Rope and Scenes Open Once the room opens, attendees are free to tie, negotiate, play, and explore at their own pace. The Vibe • A warm, social, rope-forward atmosphere • Energetic beats and lighting set to support the room • Space for floor rope, with mats available • 2 suspension points and 1 suspension rig • Furnished with a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, tieable benches, and floor beds What to Bring Rope & Safety shears, implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No drugs. Meet Your Faciliatators BOUND is held by The Kink Collective facilitators and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care come first, and where exploration is supported rather than pushed. Location and Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $30 Member’s Ticket | $40 Solo Ticket | $60 Partner's (2 Tickets) 🎟 Get Your Advance Tickets, Here. OR pay at the door via Cash, Venmo, PayPal, Zelle, or CashApp Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend BOUND. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets, access to additional discounted in-person events, and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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KrINKles - Nappy Nibbles Social | An Free Indoor Picnic for ABDLs, Diaper Wearers, and Littles.

Hosted by The Kink Collective

Sat, Feb 13, 20274:30 PM – 7:30 PM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Nappy Nibbles! A free, cozy indoor picnic for ABDL's, Diaper Wearers, and Littles Nappy Nibbles is a soft, relaxed, low-pressure ABDL social created for diaper wearers, littles and those who want a cozy space to simply be. This is an indoor picnic-style gathering where comfort, community, and playful connection come first. Whether you want to cuddle up, chat, color, snack, relax, or just spend time around people who get it, Nappy Nibbles offers a warm and easygoing space to settle in without pressure or performance. What to Expect 4:30 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 4:30 PM–7:30 PM | Indoor Picnic Social Relax, cuddle, color, chat, snack, and enjoy a soft, low-pressure ABDL space at your own pace. 7:30 PM | Social Ends But the fun doesnt have to! Stay for our ABDL BDSM party, Diaper Debauchery. Starting at 8PM. 🎟️ Click Here, to Reserve Your Ticket. The Vibe • Cozy indoor picnic atmosphere • Space for cuddling, chatting, coloring, and quiet play • Low-pressure socializing and gentle connection • Couches, pillows, and mattresses for lounging • Soft lighting and a soft, easygoing feel What to Bring BYO food, drinks, snacks, games, comfort items, etc. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator Nappy Nibbles is guided by Dan, a long-time member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, grounded, and judgment-free spaces for men’s erotic and intimate play. Dan brings: warmth gentleness emotional presence excellent consent practice clarity around boundaries and a calm, steady leadership style His facilitation helps everyone feel seen, supported, and able to explore in their own time and way. Location & Entry Instructions Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets This event is free! | Donations welcome. Will You Stay for the Play Party? 🎉 After Nappy Nibbles, we flow into Diaper Debauchery, our ABDL BDSM play party starting at 8 PM. Come for the cozy social — stay for the deeper exploration if it feels right. 🎟️ Reserve Your Entrance to Diaper Debauchery, Click Here. Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to at

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KrINKles - Diaper Debauchery | A diapers and kink play party for diapered expression, connection, and play.

Hosted by The Kink Collective

Feb 13–14, 20278:00 PM – 1:00 AM🇺🇸 The Sanctuary of East Harlem, New York, NY

Welcome to Diaper Debauchery... This is a party where you can show up exactly as you are—diapered, kinky, and free. About This Event Diaper Debauchery is a kinky queer diaper community night where you can show up exactly as you are — diapered, curious, kinky, and playful. Hosted as part of The Sanctuary Sessions, this is a queer-friendly space where ABDL and kink can coexist without judgment. It is a place for diapered expression, kinky exploration, and real community, with consent at the center of it all. The night may include diaper play, impact, bondage, group play, insertables, voyeurism, cuddling, and aftercare. Some nights are more social, some more playful, and some more erotic, but the purpose stays the same: to give people space to express their kinks with their diapers in a room built on openness, respect, and freedom. While this is not a sex party, consensual erotic play may naturally unfold. Nothing is assumed, no one is owed access, and watching does not equal participation. What to expect  8:00 PM | Doors Open The room begins organically. People often start socializing, exploring, and connecting soon after arrival. 9:00PM Brief check in & Rules Once the room has settled, we pause briefly to go over house rules. Then the party continues naturally and the rest of the night is open for connection, play, exploration, and expression at your own pace. 1AM Party Ends The Vibe  • Separate social, cuddle, and play areas • Soft lighting and immersive music to support the energy, mood, and pacing of the room. • Furnished stations for impact, restraint, and intimate exploration (St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, sex bench, and more) What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. Diapers, outfits, buzzes, and more A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No drugs. Your Facilitator 🤸🏼‍♂️ This container is guided by Dan, a seasoned member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, welcoming spaces for queer erotic play. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection while making room for a wide range of expression. Location + Entry The Sanctuary of East Harlem 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $20 Member's Ticket | $30 Solo | $50 Couples For Advanced tickets, Click HERE. Tickets at the door (cash, Venmo, Cashapp, Zelle and PayPal) Diaper Debauchery is one of the only parties where ABDL and kink coexist freely. Come curious, come playful, come as you are. Leave connected. Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend Diaper Debauchery. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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Corrossion NYC | A Men's Only BDSM & Sex Party

Hosted by The Kink Collective

Feb 14–15, 20277:00 PM – 12:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Corrosion NYC! A Men's Only BDSM Sex Party CORROSION NYC is a men-only BDSM and sex party built for men who want space for real play, real connection, and real sexual freedom. Some come for BDSM, some come for sex, and some come for both. The room is designed to let all of that happen naturally, with consent, respect, and clear boundaries at the center. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, and connecting outside of active play. Socializing happens there. BDSM and sexual activity happen in the designated play areas. This is not a social with furniture in the background. The play spaces are meant to be used. Expect a setup designed for both BDSM and sex, with floor beds, benches, a sling, suspension points, spanking benches, a St. Andrew’s Cross, and more. What to Expect 7 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play. 8 PM | Open BDSM + Sex Party Negotiate, play, hook up, connect, and move between social and active spaces at your own pace. 12 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • Soft lighting and immersive music to support the energy, mood, and pacing of the room. • Furnished stations for impact, restraint, and intimate exploration (St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, sex bench, and more) • A dark, masculine, sexually charged environment What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, lube etc A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. CORROSION Dress Code Dress for the energy of the party. Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome. Nudity is allowed throughout the space. If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately. Meet Your Facilitators CORROSION is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink. In this room, that means connection before climax, with consent, respect, and clear boundaries leading the way. Event Details Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $30 Members, $40 Solo, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2) 🎟 Reserve Your Ticket Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend CORROSION. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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Yes Sir! | A Mens BDSM Impact Play Party

Hosted by The Kink Collective

Feb 20–21, 20278:00 PM – 1:00 AM🇺🇸 The sanctuary of East Harlem, New York, NY

Welcome to Yes Sir! A Men's Only BDSM Impact Play Party Yes Sir! is a men-only BDSM impact party built for men who want a dark, erotic space for impact, tension, and kinky exploration. Impact play is the theme of the night, with room for other BDSM play as it unfolds. Expect a room where flogging, spanking, paddles, canes, whips, rough body play, sensual impact, heavier impact, bondage, restraint, and CBT can all have a place. Sex is not the focus of the party, but may happen within scenes. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, aftercare, and connecting outside of active play. What to Expect 8 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play. 9 PM | Rules + Room Opening Once the room opens, men are free to negotiate, play, and move through the space at their own pace. 1 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • Ambient lighting and expressive house music that drive the energy • Furniture designed for real use, not just atmosphere (Benches, suspension points, spanking benches, massage tables, wall space, kneeling benches, stocks, and more) • A dark, erotic environment where impact, tension, and desire build side by side • Space for scenes to unfold with intensity, creativity, and control What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, lube etc A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Dress Code Dress for the energy of the party. Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome. Nudity is allowed throughout the space. If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately. Meet Your Facilitators Yes Sir! is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care support a wide range of impact and BDSM exploration. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $30 Members, $40 General Admission, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2) 🎟 Reserve Your Space Today, Click Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend YES SIR!. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [<a href="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://kinkcollective.net/membership-1&sa=D&source=calendar&

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STING NYC | A M/M Spanking Party

Hosted by The Kink Collective

Sat, Feb 27, 20271:00 PM – 6:00 PM🇺🇸 The sanctuary of East Harlem, New York, NY

Welcome to STING NYC! A Spanking Party for Men STING NYC is a relaxed, men-only spanking party built for men who want space to give, receive, trade, watch, learn, and explore spanking in all its forms. Whether you are brand new or deeply experienced, STING NYC offers a playful, open environment where men can connect through impact, discipline, technique, erotic tension, and shared desire. From the sharp snap of a belt to the satisfying smack of a hand, this is a room for men who know that a good spanking can be playful, connective, intense, and deeply satisfying. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, aftercare, and connection outside of active play. What to Expect 1 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 1:45–2 PM | Arrival + Connection Meet others, go over the house rules, and set the tone before play begins. 2 PM | Play Room Opens For negotiated spanking, impact, watching, learning, connection, and exploration at your own pace. 6 PM | Party Ends The Vibe • A men-only space centered around spanking and impact • A relaxed, social, and erotic afternoon atmosphere • 12+ spanking stations and an open layout • Stations including a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking bench, kneeling benches, massage tables, and room for creative positioning • A separate social area for aftercare, downtime, snacks, and conversation What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator This event is led by Dan, a long-standing member of the spanking community and a trusted facilitator within The Kink Collective. Dan brings his passion for spanking and his easygoing style to create a space that feels safe, playful, and welcoming to all men in attendance. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend STING NYC. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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