Conferences and cons — multi-day events with programming, vendors, and community across the LGBTQ+ and kink world.

No — most conferences welcome newcomers. Each listing spells out the vibe, any dress code, and what to expect, and hosts moderate who attends. Read the event page before you go and reach out to the organizer with questions.

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Yes. We never collect legal names — you choose a scene name — every listing is moderated before it goes live, and a host can hide the exact address until you RSVP.