STI Testing at the Weds Bear Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join our Telegram channel (https://t.me/sexpartiesnyc) to be notified of STI testing dates or cancellations (rare) in a text. Arrive as early as possible to avoid wait times. -- We offer free and confidential HIV and other STI testing through Mount Sinai's Sexual Liberation Project every Wednesday from 6-9pm at our 37th St location. Sign up for the mailing list above to get dates in our weekly email. Mount Sinai does testing on site with on-the-spot results for HIV, syphilis and Hepatitis C (takes 20 minutes) and they call or email results for chlamydia and gonorrhea several days later. Testing is a resource for all men regardless of whether they pay to enter the party. The tester takes guys on a first-come, first-served basis, so arrive early to avoid wait times. Because each time slot is 20 minutes, a maximum of nine guys can be seen per party. If the party ends before 9pm, which happens sometimes, the tester will stop taking appointments early, so don't be late!

Commando - Hush

Hosted by Circuit Party Info

Fursday

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Pheromone Party NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nowhere bar NYC

The Foot Link: A Foot Fetish Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

RSVP to: HarlemFetishEvents@gmail.com Step into a modern, uncrowded space designed for guys who love feet. Hosted in a roomy Harlem apartment, this 3-4 hour event brings together a great group for an afternoon of foot worship, footjobs and play. Please note: this is, first and foremost, a social event. If you are only looking to dive straight into play without saying hello, this might not be the right fit. Grab a drink, hang out, meet everyone, and let the play happen organically! Cover charge is $20.

Synclair - The Eagle

Hosted by Circuit Party Info

Queer Rope Social Brooklyn

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Info & Tickets: https://www.simpletix.com/e/queer-rope-social-brooklyn-tickets-260587?utm_source=nyckinklink

Underbear: Heat Wave

Hosted by Circuit Party Info

Alex Ramos - The Eagle

Hosted by Circuit Party Info

STING NYC | A M/M Spanking Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to STING NYC! A Spanking Party for Men STING NYC is a relaxed, men-only spanking party built for men who want space to give, receive, trade, watch, learn, and explore spanking in all its forms. Whether you are brand new or deeply experienced, STING NYC offers a playful, open environment where men can connect through impact, discipline, technique, erotic tension, and shared desire. From the sharp snap of a belt to the satisfying smack of a hand, this is a room for men who know that a good spanking can be playful, connective, intense, and deeply satisfying. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, aftercare, and connection outside of active play. What to Expect 1 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 1:45–2 PM | Arrival + Connection Meet others, go over the house rules, and set the tone before play begins. 2 PM | Play Room Opens For negotiated spanking, impact, watching, learning, connection, and exploration at your own pace. 6 PM | Party Ends The Vibe • A men-only space centered around spanking and impact • A relaxed, social, and erotic afternoon atmosphere • 12+ spanking stations and an open layout • Stations including a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking bench, kneeling benches, massage tables, and room for creative positioning • A separate social area for aftercare, downtime, snacks, and conversation What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator This event is led by Dan, a long-standing member of the spanking community and a trusted facilitator within The Kink Collective. Dan brings his passion for spanking and his easygoing style to create a space that feels safe, playful, and welcoming to all men in attendance. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend STING NYC. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

Urban Bear: Bears night out

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Vince Christopher - The Eagle

Hosted by Circuit Party Info

Cigar Social NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join your hosts Shane & Brent, every Sunday (weather permitting) for an evening of ‘gars, men and leather! Find us on the roof deck. Just look for the smokey haze! www.cigarsocialnyc.com The event is BYOB. The venue provides glasses and ice.

Super Nocturna

Hosted by Circuit Party Info

Excelsior MC Business Meeting

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC meetings are where our club brothers and current pledges discuss club business and organize upcoming events. Our meetings are open to the public, and they occur the third Sunday each month at The LGBT Center in Chelsea. We encourage those interested in Excelsior MC to attend our meetings and share their perspective and interests with the brothers. To RSVP or to find more information, go to our website. Check with the concierge at The LGBT Center to find our meeting room each month.

KrINKles - Call The Babysitter | Movie and Cuddle Social

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to Call The Babysitter! A light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering... Call the Babysitter is a light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering for those who want a cozy space to relax, connect, and explore. This is a room where diapers, comfort, playful energy, and community come together in a welcoming environment built on kindness, consent, and care. Whether you arrive to cuddle, socialize, watch a movie, enjoy the comfort of sporting "little gear", or share playful connection with others, this is a space designed to help people settle in, feel at ease, and enjoy themselves at their own pace. What to Expect 7 PM | Doors Open The room opens organically. People often start socializing and connecting soon after arrival. 7:45 PM Brief Opening + Rules Check-In Once the room has settled, we pause briefly to go over intentions and house rules. 8 PM Movies Begin Cuddle, socialize, enjoy little gear, and connect in a soft, relaxing environment. 12 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • A cozy, diaper-centered atmosphere for community, comfort, and light exploration • Space to relax, socialize, cuddle, and connect • A changing table set up for diaper wearers What to Bring Diapers, pillow, change of clothes and any comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Facilitator This container is guided by Dan, a seasoned member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, welcoming spaces for erotic and playful exploration. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection while helping people feel comfortable and free to explore at their own pace. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Intstructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) ⬇️ 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend Call the Babysitter Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

Good Boy

Hosted by Circuit Party Info

Rubber Social - NYC Rubber Club

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join the NYC Rubber Club on Sunday, August 23, 5–10PM at ANIMAL for an evening of rubber, community, and summer vibes. Featuring beats from DJ Pup Raptor and KJON all night long. Shine up and come socialize. Check our website for updated information. If you are subscribed to the NYC Rubber Club calendar, you will receive new events and updates as they are posted directly to your calendar! Web: https://nycrubber.club/ Instagram: http://instagram.com/nycrubber.club Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nycrubber.club/ X (Twitter): https://twitter.com/nycrubberclub Telegram Announcements: https://t.me/+yLFXdG6M_kI4Y2Nh Telegram Chat: request from an existing member or on Instagram

Rope At RockBar

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

T4T Rope Night

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Info & Tickets: https://www.simpletix.com/e/t4t-rope-night-tickets-260589 Join with Google Meet: https://meet.google.com/atk-mnzf-fqq Or dial: (US) +1 574-221-0012 PIN: 270544390# More phone numbers: https://tel.meet/atk-mnzf-fqq?pin=4360030666412&hs=7 Learn more about Meet at: https://support.google.com/a/users/answer/9282720

Pheromone Party NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nowhere bar NYC

Fursday

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

THE LITTLEZ PARTY

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join with Google Meet: https://meet.google.com/kaj-epms-wmg Or dial: (US) +1 727-325-2334 PIN: 411362141# More phone numbers: https://tel.meet/kaj-epms-wmg?pin=9675429636688&hs=7 Learn more about Meet at: https://support.google.com/a/users/answer/9282720

PERV! Kink Party for Weirdos

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

𝗣𝗘𝗥𝗩 💦Wedgie Night a kink party for weirdos hosted by Peter Cage @cloughagunga Pup Roger @pup_roger Noah Gold @thenoahgold Beats by Gabe is OK @gabe.is.still.ok Wedgie Demo by Benjamin Fredrickson @benjaminfredrickson2 Rockbar @rockbarnyc Last Friday every month! $10 cover Clothes check available Plastic wrap bondage demos Wedgies P*ss boy Questionable choices Dress: slut gear demented drag leather rubber pup hood chastity cage panties diaper cum-soaked jock fur suit your roommate’s dirty socks cuck chair clown nose saran wrap wet toilet paper

Cigar Social NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join your host, Brent, every 2nd and 4th Friday of the month for an evening of ‘gars, men and leather! The event is BYOB. The venue provides glasses and ice. www.cigarsocialnyc.com

Dani Toro - The Eagle

Hosted by Circuit Party Info

Urban Bear: Bears night out

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Love is the Message - The Eagle

Hosted by Circuit Party Info

Unspeakable Joy

Hosted by Circuit Party Info

Excelsior MC Business Meeting

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC meetings are where our club brothers and current pledges discuss club business and organize upcoming events. Our meetings are open to the public, and they occur the third Sunday each month at The LGBT Center in Chelsea. We encourage those interested in Excelsior MC to attend our meetings and share their perspective and interests with the brothers. To RSVP or to find more information, go to our website. Check with the concierge at The LGBT Center to find our meeting room each month.

Sam Gee - The Eagle

Hosted by Circuit Party Info

Cigar Social NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join your hosts Shane & Brent, every Sunday (weather permitting) for an evening of ‘gars, men and leather! Find us on the roof deck. Just look for the smokey haze! www.cigarsocialnyc.com The event is BYOB. The venue provides glasses and ice.

Beach Wear, Foot Fetish Party 🏖️ (Themed Edition) - come dressed in your best beachwear!

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

RSVP to: HarlemFetishEvents@gmail.com Step into a modern, uncrowded space designed for guys who love feet. Hosted in a roomy Harlem apartment, this 3-4 hour event brings together a great group for an afternoon of foot worship, footjobs and play. Please note: this is, first and foremost, a social event. If you are only looking to dive straight into play without saying hello, this might not be the right fit. Grab a drink, hang out, meet everyone, and let the play happen organically! Cover charge is $20.

KnottyNY: The Gay Rope Thing

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Gear up for Knotty NY, first Tuesday and third Saturday each month! Leather, rubber, neoprene, sports kit and all other fetish wear encouraged. Come with questions and ideas for our 'catch up' social or revisit the basics with Knotty 101. Sign up at KnottyNY.com

Rope At RockBar

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

STI Testing at the Weds Bear Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join our Telegram channel (https://t.me/sexpartiesnyc) to be notified of STI testing dates or cancellations (rare) in a text. Arrive as early as possible to avoid wait times. -- We offer free and confidential HIV and other STI testing through Mount Sinai's Sexual Liberation Project every Wednesday from 6-9pm at our 37th St location. Sign up for the mailing list above to get dates in our weekly email. Mount Sinai does testing on site with on-the-spot results for HIV, syphilis and Hepatitis C (takes 20 minutes) and they call or email results for chlamydia and gonorrhea several days later. Testing is a resource for all men regardless of whether they pay to enter the party. The tester takes guys on a first-come, first-served basis, so arrive early to avoid wait times. Because each time slot is 20 minutes, a maximum of nine guys can be seen per party. If the party ends before 9pm, which happens sometimes, the tester will stop taking appointments early, so don't be late!

Pheromone Party NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nowhere bar NYC

Fursday

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC Bar Night

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Come join the brothers of Excelsior MC for our monthly bar night! For anyone interested in the Leather community or meeting the brothers and current pledges, our bar nights are a casual social environment for discussion, sharing of ideas, and brotherhood. Our bar nights rotate to a different gay bar New York City each month to increase the visibility of Excelsior MC and the Leather Community at large. We look forward to seeing you there! https://linktr.ee/excelsiormc Leather/Gear is encouraged but not required. Come as you are!

BOUND NYC: A Rope Bondage Party for Queer Men

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to Bound NYC... A rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just a practice space. BOUND NYC is a rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just practice space. This is a room where bondage through rope is at the center, full scenes are encouraged, and play can extend into impact, sensation, bondage, and other forms of consensual exploration. Whether you come with a partner or attend solo, BOUND offers a warm, social, erotic, and play-minded environment for men who want to tie, connect, negotiate, and engage. This is not a class-based event. Light peer guidance and basic instruction may happen naturallyin the room, but the focus is on self-led play and scenes. Pick-up play is welcome, with attendees expected to negotiate for themselves. The Kink Collective’s MITPISA negotiation forms will be available to support clearer pre-scene communication and pickup play negotiation. What to Expect 7:00 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, connect, warm-up... Tie casually, if you'd like. 8:00 PM | Rules & Consent Agreements We gather briefly to review the rules, agreements and flow of the night. 8:15 PM | Rope and Scenes Open Once the room opens, attendees are free to tie, negotiate, play, and explore at their own pace. The Vibe • A warm, social, rope-forward atmosphere • Energetic beats and lighting set to support the room • Space for floor rope, with mats available • 2 suspension points and 1 suspension rig • Furnished with a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, tieable benches, and floor beds What to Bring Rope & Safety shears, implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No drugs. Meet Your Faciliatators BOUND is held by The Kink Collective facilitators and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care come first, and where exploration is supported rather than pushed. Location and Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $30 Member’s Ticket | $40 Solo Ticket | $60 Partner's (2 Tickets) 🎟 Get Your Advance Tickets, Here. OR pay at the door via Cash, Venmo, PayPal, Zelle, or CashApp Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend BOUND. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets, access to additional discounted in-person events, and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

Jockstrap Happy Hour by Q Darkqwolf

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

NEW TIME -- DOOR FROM 7-930p! $10 donation at the door plus 100% of the proceeds raised goes right into the pockets of community LGBTQ nonprofit orgs. #TakeItOffGiveItBack#ShowUsYourSupport

Manhole in Park Slope, Brooklyn (sign up at manholenyc.com for address)

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

A fisting party for experienced players and novices alike. Sign up at manholenyc.com for more info.

Eagle NYC Club Night

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Leather/Fetish Clubs of the world...this is your night!!! Join host Michael Jeavons, Mr Eagle NYC 2020/2021 and Eagle NYC for one very special night each month dedicated to the many local, regional, national and worldwide leather/fetish clubs who serve and enrich the Community. Gear-up, come out, help us make a scene and join in the mayhem! ** Club Members (past/present) wearing their Colors will receive waived admission fee.

Urban Bear: Bears night out

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC Business Meeting

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC meetings are where our club brothers and current pledges discuss club business and organize upcoming events. Our meetings are open to the public, and they occur the third Sunday each month at The LGBT Center in Chelsea. We encourage those interested in Excelsior MC to attend our meetings and share their perspective and interests with the brothers. To RSVP or to find more information, go to our website. Check with the concierge at The LGBT Center to find our meeting room each month.

FAUCET

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

$35 Cash (includes beverages, clothes check, towel, shower access) Location (for both party and class) 210 5th Ave, Park Slope, Brooklyn (Private Address) Bring ID. RSVP (not required) : partiful.com/e/ownZrrNfF1imMFSfb9SE No Dress Code: Wear as little or as much as you want. Please DON’T wear cologne, fragrances or deodorant. Wear shoes or footwear you don’t mind getting soaked in piss. Reduced List Available, email nycinferno@gmail.com New to the scene? Just want to meet some fellow pigs in a no-pressure environment? Come early, 2:30-3:30pm, for our always popular, always free WATERSPORTS 101 workshop! This is a simple, low-key class covering some of the basics of piss play, a little of the history, and talking about what to do and not to do at the party from 4-9! REDUCED $25 admission for Queer, Trans, POC folks or others in need of reduced admission. Email nycinferno@gmail.com to get on the list. You don’t need to explain why you need it, just email so we get a sense of how many people need reduced. Guests with motion disabilities: please note that the party space is sadly not accessible.

Cigar Social NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join your hosts Shane & Brent, every Sunday (weather permitting) for an evening of ‘gars, men and leather! Find us on the roof deck. Just look for the smokey haze! www.cigarsocialnyc.com The event is BYOB. The venue provides glasses and ice.

Horse Meat Disco Labor Day Weekend

Hosted by Circuit Party Info

Fever Afterhours Max

Hosted by Circuit Party Info

LOCKED: Chastity Social

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join host Peter Cage for a gathering of locked guys, keyholders, and anyone into chastity. You do not need to have experience or to be locked up to attend! All are welcome. Rockbar, 7pm Second Tuesday every month No cover Clothes check available Cage check for a free shot!!! ***Monthly from 7pm to 11:30pm on the second Tuesday (Eastern Time - New York)

Rope At RockBar

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Fursday

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Pheromone Party NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nowhere bar NYC

Cigar Social NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join your host, Brent, every 2nd and 4th Friday of the month for an evening of ‘gars, men and leather! The event is BYOB. The venue provides glasses and ice. Www.cigarsocialnyc.com

Wrecked

Hosted by Circuit Party Info

ONYX Bar Night

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Calendar of Events:  https://forbiddentickets.com/events/onyxnyne ONYX is an organization that supports ethnic and racial diversity in the gay leather community. For over twenty-four years, the organization has worked to empower gay and queer men of color and our allies to find support, education and growth in a safe and sane manner. We provide education about our community, safety and history to empower men of color in our community (and the larger community) to integrate these practices into their lives without shame or judgement. Additionally, we also raise funds to support charitable organizations that focus on LGBTQIA+ people of color, HIV, and youth organizations.

KrINKles - Nappy Nibbles Social | An Free Indoor Picnic for ABDLs, Diaper Wearers, and Littles.

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to Nappy Nibbles! A free, cozy indoor picnic for ABDL's, Diaper Wearers, and Littles Nappy Nibbles is a soft, relaxed, low-pressure ABDL social created for diaper wearers, littles and those who want a cozy space to simply be. This is an indoor picnic-style gathering where comfort, community, and playful connection come first. Whether you want to cuddle up, chat, color, snack, relax, or just spend time around people who get it, Nappy Nibbles offers a warm and easygoing space to settle in without pressure or performance. What to Expect 4:30 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 4:30 PM–7:30 PM | Indoor Picnic Social Relax, cuddle, color, chat, snack, and enjoy a soft, low-pressure ABDL space at your own pace. 7:30 PM | Social Ends But the fun doesnt have to! Stay for our ABDL BDSM party, Diaper Debauchery. Starting at 8PM. 🎟️ Click Here, to Reserve Your Ticket. The Vibe • Cozy indoor picnic atmosphere • Space for cuddling, chatting, coloring, and quiet play • Low-pressure socializing and gentle connection • Couches, pillows, and mattresses for lounging • Soft lighting and a soft, easygoing feel What to Bring BYO food, drinks, snacks, games, comfort items, etc. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator Nappy Nibbles is guided by Dan, a long-time member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, grounded, and judgment-free spaces for men’s erotic and intimate play. Dan brings: warmth gentleness emotional presence excellent consent practice clarity around boundaries and a calm, steady leadership style His facilitation helps everyone feel seen, supported, and able to explore in their own time and way. Location & Entry Instructions Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets This event is free! | Donations welcome. Will You Stay for the Play Party? 🎉 After Nappy Nibbles, we flow into Diaper Debauchery, our ABDL BDSM play party starting at 8 PM. Come for the cozy social — stay for the deeper exploration if it feels right. 🎟️ Reserve Your Entrance to Diaper Debauchery, Click Here. Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to at

Urban Bear: Bears night out

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Queer Rope Social (East Village

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

a rope jam for queer folks suspension points, mats, & more at WOW Cafe Theater in the East Village 18+ $10-$40 entry, sliding scale RSVP: https://forms.gle/1XnedajrsoQ61q2d7

Into? Hosted by Cadet Kelley and Champ Phoenix

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to 'INTO?' a monthly Gear Social, queer cruising and viewing party.  'INTO?' aims to acknowledge and re-examine bar code nights and BLUF on social, economic and ethnographic levels.   For many, wearing "full cow" proper leathers are impossibility (...saving $200?month for a pair of pants or paying a cell-phone bill...) = and spending thousands of dollars on leather can be extremely alienating.   This disparity gap also creates echo-chambers of wealth and privilege.  How can our beautiful patchwork quilt of communities be accurately represented if they can't afford to get in the door?   IG:  CadetKelley IG:  ChampLeatherPup

Excelsior MC Business Meeting

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC meetings are where our club brothers and current pledges discuss club business and organize upcoming events. Our meetings are open to the public, and they occur the third Sunday each month at The LGBT Center in Chelsea. We encourage those interested in Excelsior MC to attend our meetings and share their perspective and interests with the brothers. To RSVP or to find more information, go to our website. Check with the concierge at The LGBT Center to find our meeting room each month.

Arrebato

Hosted by Circuit Party Info

Cigar Social NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join your hosts Shane & Brent, every Sunday (weather permitting) for an evening of ‘gars, men and leather! Find us on the roof deck. Just look for the smokey haze! www.cigarsocialnyc.com The event is BYOB. The venue provides glasses and ice.

Corrossion NYC | A Men's Only BDSM & Sex Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to Corrosion NYC! A Men's Only BDSM Sex Party CORROSION NYC is a men-only BDSM and sex party built for men who want space for real play, real connection, and real sexual freedom. Some come for BDSM, some come for sex, and some come for both. The room is designed to let all of that happen naturally, with consent, respect, and clear boundaries at the center. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, and connecting outside of active play. Socializing happens there. BDSM and sexual activity happen in the designated play areas. This is not a social with furniture in the background. The play spaces are meant to be used. Expect a setup designed for both BDSM and sex, with floor beds, benches, a sling, suspension points, spanking benches, a St. Andrew’s Cross, and more. What to Expect 7 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play. 8 PM | Open BDSM + Sex Party Negotiate, play, hook up, connect, and move between social and active spaces at your own pace. 12 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • Soft lighting and immersive music to support the energy, mood, and pacing of the room. • Furnished stations for impact, restraint, and intimate exploration (St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, sex bench, and more) • A dark, masculine, sexually charged environment What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, lube etc A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. CORROSION Dress Code Dress for the energy of the party. Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome. Nudity is allowed throughout the space. If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately. Meet Your Facilitators CORROSION is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink. In this room, that means connection before climax, with consent, respect, and clear boundaries leading the way. Event Details Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $30 Members, $40 Solo, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2) 🎟 Reserve Your Ticket Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend CORROSION. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

Rope At RockBar

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

STI Testing at the Weds Bear Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join our Telegram channel (https://t.me/sexpartiesnyc) to be notified of STI testing dates or cancellations (rare) in a text. Arrive as early as possible to avoid wait times. -- We offer free and confidential HIV and other STI testing through Mount Sinai's Sexual Liberation Project every Wednesday from 6-9pm at our 37th St location. Sign up for the mailing list above to get dates in our weekly email. Mount Sinai does testing on site with on-the-spot results for HIV, syphilis and Hepatitis C (takes 20 minutes) and they call or email results for chlamydia and gonorrhea several days later. Testing is a resource for all men regardless of whether they pay to enter the party. The tester takes guys on a first-come, first-served basis, so arrive early to avoid wait times. Because each time slot is 20 minutes, a maximum of nine guys can be seen per party. If the party ends before 9pm, which happens sometimes, the tester will stop taking appointments early, so don't be late!

Fursday

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Pheromone Party NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nowhere bar NYC

Urban Bear: Bears night out

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

KnottyNY: The Gay Rope Thing

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Gear up for Knotty NY, first Tuesday and third Saturday each month! Leather, rubber, neoprene, sports kit and all other fetish wear encouraged. Come with questions and ideas for our 'catch up' social or revisit the basics with Knotty 101. Sign up at KnottyNY.com

FLEX on Tour: Muscle Worship

Hosted by Circuit Party Info

Yes Sir! | A Mens BDSM Impact Play Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to Yes Sir! A Men's Only BDSM Impact Play Party Yes Sir! is a men-only BDSM impact party built for men who want a dark, erotic space for impact, tension, and kinky exploration. Impact play is the theme of the night, with room for other BDSM play as it unfolds. Expect a room where flogging, spanking, paddles, canes, whips, rough body play, sensual impact, heavier impact, bondage, restraint, and CBT can all have a place. Sex is not the focus of the party, but may happen within scenes. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, aftercare, and connecting outside of active play. What to Expect 8 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play. 9 PM | Rules + Room Opening Once the room opens, men are free to negotiate, play, and move through the space at their own pace. 1 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • Ambient lighting and expressive house music that drive the energy • Furniture designed for real use, not just atmosphere (Benches, suspension points, spanking benches, massage tables, wall space, kneeling benches, stocks, and more) • A dark, erotic environment where impact, tension, and desire build side by side • Space for scenes to unfold with intensity, creativity, and control What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, lube etc A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Dress Code Dress for the energy of the party. Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome. Nudity is allowed throughout the space. If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately. Meet Your Facilitators Yes Sir! is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care support a wide range of impact and BDSM exploration. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $30 Members, $40 General Admission, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2) 🎟 Reserve Your Space Today, Click Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend YES SIR!. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [<a href="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://kinkcollective.net/membership-1&sa=D&source=calendar&us

Excelsior MC Business Meeting

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC meetings are where our club brothers and current pledges discuss club business and organize upcoming events. Our meetings are open to the public, and they occur the third Sunday each month at The LGBT Center in Chelsea. We encourage those interested in Excelsior MC to attend our meetings and share their perspective and interests with the brothers. To RSVP or to find more information, go to our website. Check with the concierge at The LGBT Center to find our meeting room each month.

Cigar Social NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join your hosts Shane & Brent, every Sunday (weather permitting) for an evening of ‘gars, men and leather! Find us on the roof deck. Just look for the smokey haze! www.cigarsocialnyc.com The event is BYOB. The venue provides glasses and ice.

Official BLUF NYC Monthly Social @ Eagle NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join your host Michael Jeavons (Mr Eagle NYC 2020/2021) #1320 and the men of BLUF NYC for our monthly social as we overtake the Eagle NYC!!! Show-up and Show-out for a kink, cigar and leather-filled evening with some of the hottest men in the Tri-State area. While BLUF leather is suggested for the social it is never required and everyone is always welcome!! We look forward to seeing you! No cover

Brut NYC Cruise

Hosted by Circuit Party Info

NYC Cruise: Sunset Beats!

Hosted by Brut

Embark on the ultimate gay boat party in New York City, where the skyline kisses the sunset and the vibes are electric. This annual THREE-LEVEL festival barge is your perfect playground, packed with the sexiest men in town, as we sail around Lady Liberty, with an incredible sunset, guided by the expert hands of renowned DJs Commandant DAN DARLINGTON and Captain ABEL.. Don’t miss out—subscribe to our email list now to lock in this price before early bird tickets go live!

Shamanic Kink Immersion

Hosted by retreat center in Upstate NY

Welcome to the Shamanic Kink Immersion: Harvers & Hunt! Join us for a transformative experience filled with shamanic rituals, kink exploration, and deep connections. This event will take place at the beautiful Easton Mountain Retreat Center on September 22nd - 28th, 2026. Dive into the mysteries of midsummer as we delve into the intersection of spirituality and kink. Get ready to expand your consciousness, explore your desires, and connect with like-minded individuals in a safe and supportive environment. Don't miss out on this unique opportunity to explore the depths of your being in a magical setting. The training welcomes those who have gained solid experience in at least one of the following fields and a strong curiosity about the other ones: Sacred sexuality/conscious intimacy/(neo-)tantra BDSM or conscious kink Transformational spaces & ritual healing work (group and/or 1-1) Maybe you’ve found your way into the realms of BDSM, Psychodrama Role Play, Tantric Kink, Therapeutic BDSM, or hovered around the edges of it. Maybe you’ve found it exciting, enticing, felt drawn, and then didn’t find the right time and place to step in… Maybe you’ve gone deep and desire to expand and explore even deeper. If you’ve felt some of the exhilaration and power available to you in this realm, and you’d like to truly get to the core of how to use BDSM in a transformative and sacred way, join Terra and Francesca for a profound immersion into the essence of ritual & conscious kink. The Shamanic Kink immersion lives at the intersection of ancient shamanic principles, somatic healing practices, sexology, and modern BDSM. During this 7-day in-person group journey, we will dive deep into how to use the tools, toys, and techniques of BDSM for healing, ritual, and transformation. THE IMMERSION DRAWS ITS TEACHINGS FROM: ~ Shamanism ~ Tantra ~ Psychology ~ Neurobiology ~ Sexology ~ Taoism ~ Somatics ~ Recovery from Trauma ~ Contemporary Kink/BDSM YOU WILL LEARN HOW TO SAFELY AND POWERFULLY ENGAGE IN: Feeling, Receiving & Guiding Energy Basic principles of Tantra Sacred Cacao ceremonies to deepen explorations of some of our work’s core principles How to find out what your Dominant and/or submissive archetypes are seeking and how they want to be expressed How to become an exquisite receiver (sub) or transmitter (Dom) for erotic energy How to engage courageously in sexual healing & empowerment Co-creating Kinky Scenes that are Therapeutic, Expansive, and Transformative How to work with Archetypes, Spirituality, Ritual, and the Psychology of Ceremony How to engage in Role Play therapeutically Understanding and working with some of the most common issues that benefit from receiving Therapeutic Kink Using and fine-tuning communication skills and emotionally intelligent boundary setting Sexual healing of past traumas (emotional, physical, sexual, & spiritual) The importance and use of After Care to integrate our healing process YOU WILL BE TRAINED IN: Breathing Techniques The basics of ritual, ceremony, and space-holding Sensation Play as a Body Blessing Dropping in to full surrender during ritual scene play The Basic Principles of Tantric Kink How to work with gears & flavors of Energy The power of Presence Understanding the Wounds of the male, female, and other gendered psyches When & how to support a Trauma Release & when to Stop It How to be a powerful and confident submissive who’s capable of surrendering deeply without needing to be codependent How to be a masterful, fine-tuned, and capable Dominant, without needing to be domineering WE WILL ALSO BE COVERING HOW Tantra, Psychology, Somatics, and Sexology can be combined with a knowledge of Kink/BDSM to: Bridge differences when only one partner in a couple identifies as kinky Deepen intimacy and heart opening in any Scene/Session Expand the healing energy in every Scene/Session Enhance the energetic connection in Kink/BDSM THE SHAMANIC KINK IMMERSION IS FOR YOU IF YOU ARE: A healer, bodyworker, dakini, tantric practitioner A Pro Dom/me, Healing Dom/me, Tantric Dom/me Looking to take your capacity to support and contain others in a kink-positive setting to another level Into roleplay, power exchange, or sensation play, and curious about exploring these deeply, in an empowering and expansive way Called to contribute to the healing or wholeness of another human being through the tools, toys, and techniques of Conscious Kink & Transformational BDSM A hands-on sexual professional seeking to expand into Therapeutic Kink Partnered with or dating someone who would benefit from this A Dominant who seeks to make a positive difference for your sub A submissive desiring to find more depth, grace, and ease in your surrender A top who desires to bring healing to your bottom A bottom wanting to find mastery and satisfaction in your submission For more information and the REGISTRATION FORM, visit our website https://www.shamanickink.com/shamanic-kink-immersion-new-york#Regis

Rope At RockBar

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Fursday

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Pheromone Party NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nowhere bar NYC

Cigar Social NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join your host, Brent, every 2nd and 4th Friday of the month for an evening of ‘gars, men and leather! The event is BYOB. The venue provides glasses and ice. www.cigarsocialnyc.com

PERV! Kink Party for Weirdos

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

𝗣𝗘𝗥𝗩 💦 a kink party for weirdos hosted by Peter Cage @cloughagunga Pup Roger @pup_roger Friday, Feb 28, 10pm Rockbar @rockbarnyc Last Friday every month! $10 cover Clothes check available Plastic wrap bondage demos Wedgies P*ss boy Questionable choices Dress: slut gear demented drag leather rubber pup hood chastity cage panties diaper cum-soaked jock fur suit your roommate’s dirty socks cuck chair clown nose saran wrap wet toilet paper

Urban Bear: Bears night out

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

STING NYC | A M/M Spanking Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to STING NYC! A Spanking Party for Men STING NYC is a relaxed, men-only spanking party built for men who want space to give, receive, trade, watch, learn, and explore spanking in all its forms. Whether you are brand new or deeply experienced, STING NYC offers a playful, open environment where men can connect through impact, discipline, technique, erotic tension, and shared desire. From the sharp snap of a belt to the satisfying smack of a hand, this is a room for men who know that a good spanking can be playful, connective, intense, and deeply satisfying. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, aftercare, and connection outside of active play. What to Expect 1 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 1:45–2 PM | Arrival + Connection Meet others, go over the house rules, and set the tone before play begins. 2 PM | Play Room Opens For negotiated spanking, impact, watching, learning, connection, and exploration at your own pace. 6 PM | Party Ends The Vibe • A men-only space centered around spanking and impact • A relaxed, social, and erotic afternoon atmosphere • 12+ spanking stations and an open layout • Stations including a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking bench, kneeling benches, massage tables, and room for creative positioning • A separate social area for aftercare, downtime, snacks, and conversation What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator This event is led by Dan, a long-standing member of the spanking community and a trusted facilitator within The Kink Collective. Dan brings his passion for spanking and his easygoing style to create a space that feels safe, playful, and welcoming to all men in attendance. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend STING NYC. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

Cigar Social NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join your hosts Shane & Brent, every Sunday (weather permitting) for an evening of ‘gars, men and leather! Find us on the roof deck. Just look for the smokey haze! www.cigarsocialnyc.com The event is BYOB. The venue provides glasses and ice.

Excelsior MC Business Meeting

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC meetings are where our club brothers and current pledges discuss club business and organize upcoming events. Our meetings are open to the public, and they occur the third Sunday each month at The LGBT Center in Chelsea. We encourage those interested in Excelsior MC to attend our meetings and share their perspective and interests with the brothers. To RSVP or to find more information, go to our website. Check with the concierge at The LGBT Center to find our meeting room each month.

KrINKles - Call The Babysitter | Movie and Cuddle Social

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to Call The Babysitter! A light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering... Call the Babysitter is a light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering for those who want a cozy space to relax, connect, and explore. This is a room where diapers, comfort, playful energy, and community come together in a welcoming environment built on kindness, consent, and care. Whether you arrive to cuddle, socialize, watch a movie, enjoy the comfort of sporting "little gear", or share playful connection with others, this is a space designed to help people settle in, feel at ease, and enjoy themselves at their own pace. What to Expect 7 PM | Doors Open The room opens organically. People often start socializing and connecting soon after arrival. 7:45 PM Brief Opening + Rules Check-In Once the room has settled, we pause briefly to go over intentions and house rules. 8 PM Movies Begin Cuddle, socialize, enjoy little gear, and connect in a soft, relaxing environment. 12 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • A cozy, diaper-centered atmosphere for community, comfort, and light exploration • Space to relax, socialize, cuddle, and connect • A changing table set up for diaper wearers What to Bring Diapers, pillow, change of clothes and any comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Facilitator This container is guided by Dan, a seasoned member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, welcoming spaces for erotic and playful exploration. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection while helping people feel comfortable and free to explore at their own pace. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Intstructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) ⬇️ 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend Call the Babysitter Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

Rope At RockBar

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

T4T Rope Night

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Info & Tickets: https://www.simpletix.com/e/t4t-rope-night-tickets-260589?utm_source=nyckinklink Join with Google Meet: https://meet.google.com/hbq-bkyf-fnn Or dial: (US) +1 585-491-8498 PIN: 846532254# More phone numbers: https://tel.meet/hbq-bkyf-fnn?pin=5173271231220&hs=7 Learn more about Meet at: https://support.google.com/a/users/answer/9282720

Fursday

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Pheromone Party NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nowhere bar NYC

BOUND NYC: A Rope Bondage Party for Queer Men

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to Bound NYC... A rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just a practice space. BOUND NYC is a rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just practice space. This is a room where bondage through rope is at the center, full scenes are encouraged, and play can extend into impact, sensation, bondage, and other forms of consensual exploration. Whether you come with a partner or attend solo, BOUND offers a warm, social, erotic, and play-minded environment for men who want to tie, connect, negotiate, and engage. This is not a class-based event. Light peer guidance and basic instruction may happen naturallyin the room, but the focus is on self-led play and scenes. Pick-up play is welcome, with attendees expected to negotiate for themselves. The Kink Collective’s MITPISA negotiation forms will be available to support clearer pre-scene communication and pickup play negotiation. What to Expect 7:00 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, connect, warm-up... Tie casually, if you'd like. 8:00 PM | Rules & Consent Agreements We gather briefly to review the rules, agreements and flow of the night. 8:15 PM | Rope and Scenes Open Once the room opens, attendees are free to tie, negotiate, play, and explore at their own pace. The Vibe • A warm, social, rope-forward atmosphere • Energetic beats and lighting set to support the room • Space for floor rope, with mats available • 2 suspension points and 1 suspension rig • Furnished with a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, tieable benches, and floor beds What to Bring Rope & Safety shears, implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No drugs. Meet Your Faciliatators BOUND is held by The Kink Collective facilitators and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care come first, and where exploration is supported rather than pushed. Location and Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $30 Member’s Ticket | $40 Solo Ticket | $60 Partner's (2 Tickets) 🎟 Get Your Advance Tickets, Here. OR pay at the door via Cash, Venmo, PayPal, Zelle, or CashApp Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend BOUND. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets, access to additional discounted in-person events, and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

Excelsior MC Bar Night

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Come join the brothers of Excelsior MC for our monthly bar night! For anyone interested in the Leather community or meeting the brothers and current pledges, our bar nights are a casual social environment for discussion, sharing of ideas, and brotherhood. Our bar nights rotate to a different gay bar New York City each month to increase the visibility of Excelsior MC and the Leather Community at large. We look forward to seeing you there! https://linktr.ee/excelsiormc Leather/Gear is encouraged but not required. Come as you are!

Jockstrap Happy Hour by Q Darkqwolf

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

NEW TIME -- DOOR FROM 7-930p! $10 donation at the door plus 100% of the proceeds raised goes right into the pockets of community LGBTQ nonprofit orgs. #TakeItOffGiveItBack#ShowUsYourSupport

Mr Eagle NYC Competition Weekend

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

www.eagle-ny.com

Manhole in Park Slope, Brooklyn (sign up at manholenyc.com for address)

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

A fisting party for experienced players and novices alike. Sign up at manholenyc.com for more info.

Eagle NYC Club Night

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Leather/Fetish Clubs of the world...this is your night!!! Join host Michael Jeavons, Mr Eagle NYC 2020/2021 and Eagle NYC for one very special night each month dedicated to the many local, regional, national and worldwide leather/fetish clubs who serve and enrich the Community. Gear-up, come out, help us make a scene and join in the mayhem! ** Club Members (past/present) wearing their Colors will receive waived admission fee.

Urban Bear: Bears night out

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Cigar Social NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join your hosts Shane & Brent, every Sunday (weather permitting) for an evening of ‘gars, men and leather! Find us on the roof deck. Just look for the smokey haze! www.cigarsocialnyc.com The event is BYOB. The venue provides glasses and ice.

Excelsior MC Business Meeting

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC meetings are where our club brothers and current pledges discuss club business and organize upcoming events. Our meetings are open to the public, and they occur the third Sunday each month at The LGBT Center in Chelsea. We encourage those interested in Excelsior MC to attend our meetings and share their perspective and interests with the brothers. To RSVP or to find more information, go to our website. Check with the concierge at The LGBT Center to find our meeting room each month.

KnottyNY: The Gay Rope Thing

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Gear up for Knotty NY, first Tuesday and third Saturday each month! Leather, rubber, neoprene, sports kit and all other fetish wear encouraged. Come with questions and ideas for our 'catch up' social or revisit the basics with Knotty 101. Sign up at KnottyNY.com

Rope At RockBar

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

STI Testing at the Weds Bear Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join our Telegram channel (https://t.me/sexpartiesnyc) to be notified of STI testing dates or cancellations (rare) in a text. Arrive as early as possible to avoid wait times. -- We offer free and confidential HIV and other STI testing through Mount Sinai's Sexual Liberation Project every Wednesday from 6-9pm at our 37th St location. Sign up for the mailing list above to get dates in our weekly email. Mount Sinai does testing on site with on-the-spot results for HIV, syphilis and Hepatitis C (takes 20 minutes) and they call or email results for chlamydia and gonorrhea several days later. Testing is a resource for all men regardless of whether they pay to enter the party. The tester takes guys on a first-come, first-served basis, so arrive early to avoid wait times. Because each time slot is 20 minutes, a maximum of nine guys can be seen per party. If the party ends before 9pm, which happens sometimes, the tester will stop taking appointments early, so don't be late!

Pheromone Party NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nowhere bar NYC

Fursday

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Cigar Social NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join your host, Brent, every 2nd and 4th Friday of the month for an evening of ‘gars, men and leather! The event is BYOB. The venue provides glasses and ice. Www.cigarsocialnyc.com

KrINKles - Nappy Nibbles Social | An Free Indoor Picnic for ABDLs, Diaper Wearers, and Littles.

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to Nappy Nibbles! A free, cozy indoor picnic for ABDL's, Diaper Wearers, and Littles Nappy Nibbles is a soft, relaxed, low-pressure ABDL social created for diaper wearers, littles and those who want a cozy space to simply be. This is an indoor picnic-style gathering where comfort, community, and playful connection come first. Whether you want to cuddle up, chat, color, snack, relax, or just spend time around people who get it, Nappy Nibbles offers a warm and easygoing space to settle in without pressure or performance. What to Expect 4:30 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 4:30 PM–7:30 PM | Indoor Picnic Social Relax, cuddle, color, chat, snack, and enjoy a soft, low-pressure ABDL space at your own pace. 7:30 PM | Social Ends But the fun doesnt have to! Stay for our ABDL BDSM party, Diaper Debauchery. Starting at 8PM. 🎟️ Click Here, to Reserve Your Ticket. The Vibe • Cozy indoor picnic atmosphere • Space for cuddling, chatting, coloring, and quiet play • Low-pressure socializing and gentle connection • Couches, pillows, and mattresses for lounging • Soft lighting and a soft, easygoing feel What to Bring BYO food, drinks, snacks, games, comfort items, etc. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator Nappy Nibbles is guided by Dan, a long-time member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, grounded, and judgment-free spaces for men’s erotic and intimate play. Dan brings: warmth gentleness emotional presence excellent consent practice clarity around boundaries and a calm, steady leadership style His facilitation helps everyone feel seen, supported, and able to explore in their own time and way. Location & Entry Instructions Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets This event is free! | Donations welcome. Will You Stay for the Play Party? 🎉 After Nappy Nibbles, we flow into Diaper Debauchery, our ABDL BDSM play party starting at 8 PM. Come for the cozy social — stay for the deeper exploration if it feels right. 🎟️ Reserve Your Entrance to Diaper Debauchery, Click Here. Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to at

Urban Bear: Bears night out

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

ONYX Bar Night

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Calendar of Events:  https://forbiddentickets.com/events/onyxnyne ONYX is an organization that supports ethnic and racial diversity in the gay leather community. For over twenty-four years, the organization has worked to empower gay and queer men of color and our allies to find support, education and growth in a safe and sane manner. We provide education about our community, safety and history to empower men of color in our community (and the larger community) to integrate these practices into their lives without shame or judgement. Additionally, we also raise funds to support charitable organizations that focus on LGBTQIA+ people of color, HIV, and youth organizations.

Excelsior MC Business Meeting

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC meetings are where our club brothers and current pledges discuss club business and organize upcoming events. Our meetings are open to the public, and they occur the third Sunday each month at The LGBT Center in Chelsea. We encourage those interested in Excelsior MC to attend our meetings and share their perspective and interests with the brothers. To RSVP or to find more information, go to our website. Check with the concierge at The LGBT Center to find our meeting room each month.

Cigar Social NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join your hosts Shane & Brent, every Sunday (weather permitting) for an evening of ‘gars, men and leather! Find us on the roof deck. Just look for the smokey haze! www.cigarsocialnyc.com The event is BYOB. The venue provides glasses and ice.

Corrossion NYC | A Men's Only BDSM & Sex Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to Corrosion NYC! A Men's Only BDSM Sex Party CORROSION NYC is a men-only BDSM and sex party built for men who want space for real play, real connection, and real sexual freedom. Some come for BDSM, some come for sex, and some come for both. The room is designed to let all of that happen naturally, with consent, respect, and clear boundaries at the center. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, and connecting outside of active play. Socializing happens there. BDSM and sexual activity happen in the designated play areas. This is not a social with furniture in the background. The play spaces are meant to be used. Expect a setup designed for both BDSM and sex, with floor beds, benches, a sling, suspension points, spanking benches, a St. Andrew’s Cross, and more. What to Expect 7 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play. 8 PM | Open BDSM + Sex Party Negotiate, play, hook up, connect, and move between social and active spaces at your own pace. 12 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • Soft lighting and immersive music to support the energy, mood, and pacing of the room. • Furnished stations for impact, restraint, and intimate exploration (St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, sex bench, and more) • A dark, masculine, sexually charged environment What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, lube etc A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. CORROSION Dress Code Dress for the energy of the party. Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome. Nudity is allowed throughout the space. If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately. Meet Your Facilitators CORROSION is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink. In this room, that means connection before climax, with consent, respect, and clear boundaries leading the way. Event Details Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $30 Members, $40 Solo, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2) 🎟 Reserve Your Ticket Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend CORROSION. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

Into? Hosted by Cadet Kelley and Champ Phoenix

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to 'INTO?' a monthly Gear Social, queer cruising and viewing party.  'INTO?' aims to acknowledge and re-examine bar code nights and BLUF on social, economic and ethnographic levels.   For many, wearing "full cow" proper leathers are impossibility (...saving $200?month for a pair of pants or paying a cell-phone bill...) = and spending thousands of dollars on leather can be extremely alienating.   This disparity gap also creates echo-chambers of wealth and privilege.  How can our beautiful patchwork quilt of communities be accurately represented if they can't afford to get in the door?   IG:  CadetKelley IG:  ChampLeatherPup

LOCKED: Chastity Social

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join host Peter Cage for a gathering of locked guys, keyholders, and anyone into chastity. You do not need to have experience or to be locked up to attend! All are welcome. Rockbar, 7pm Second Tuesday every month No cover Clothes check available Cage check for a free shot!!! ***Monthly from 7pm to 11:30pm on the second Tuesday (Eastern Time - New York)

Rope At RockBar

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Pheromone Party NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nowhere bar NYC

Fursday

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

KnottyNY: The Gay Rope Thing

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Gear up for Knotty NY, first Tuesday and third Saturday each month! Leather, rubber, neoprene, sports kit and all other fetish wear encouraged. Come with questions and ideas for our 'catch up' social or revisit the basics with Knotty 101. Sign up at KnottyNY.com

Urban Bear: Bears night out

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Yes Sir! | A Mens BDSM Impact Play Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to Yes Sir! A Men's Only BDSM Impact Play Party Yes Sir! is a men-only BDSM impact party built for men who want a dark, erotic space for impact, tension, and kinky exploration. Impact play is the theme of the night, with room for other BDSM play as it unfolds. Expect a room where flogging, spanking, paddles, canes, whips, rough body play, sensual impact, heavier impact, bondage, restraint, and CBT can all have a place. Sex is not the focus of the party, but may happen within scenes. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, aftercare, and connecting outside of active play. What to Expect 8 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play. 9 PM | Rules + Room Opening Once the room opens, men are free to negotiate, play, and move through the space at their own pace. 1 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • Ambient lighting and expressive house music that drive the energy • Furniture designed for real use, not just atmosphere (Benches, suspension points, spanking benches, massage tables, wall space, kneeling benches, stocks, and more) • A dark, erotic environment where impact, tension, and desire build side by side • Space for scenes to unfold with intensity, creativity, and control What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, lube etc A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Dress Code Dress for the energy of the party. Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome. Nudity is allowed throughout the space. If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately. Meet Your Facilitators Yes Sir! is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care support a wide range of impact and BDSM exploration. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $30 Members, $40 General Admission, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2) 🎟 Reserve Your Space Today, Click Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend YES SIR!. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [<a href="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://kinkcollective.net/membership-1&sa=D&source=calendar&us

Official BLUF NYC Monthly Social @ Eagle NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join your host Michael Jeavons (Mr Eagle NYC 2020/2021) #1320 and the men of BLUF NYC for our monthly social as we overtake the Eagle NYC!!! Show-up and Show-out for a kink, cigar and leather-filled evening with some of the hottest men in the Tri-State area. While BLUF leather is suggested for the social it is never required and everyone is always welcome!! We look forward to seeing you! No cover

Excelsior MC Business Meeting

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC meetings are where our club brothers and current pledges discuss club business and organize upcoming events. Our meetings are open to the public, and they occur the third Sunday each month at The LGBT Center in Chelsea. We encourage those interested in Excelsior MC to attend our meetings and share their perspective and interests with the brothers. To RSVP or to find more information, go to our website. Check with the concierge at The LGBT Center to find our meeting room each month.

Cigar Social NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join your hosts Shane & Brent, every Sunday (weather permitting) for an evening of ‘gars, men and leather! Find us on the roof deck. Just look for the smokey haze! www.cigarsocialnyc.com The event is BYOB. The venue provides glasses and ice.

Rope At RockBar

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

STI Testing at the Weds Bear Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join our Telegram channel (https://t.me/sexpartiesnyc) to be notified of STI testing dates or cancellations (rare) in a text. Arrive as early as possible to avoid wait times. -- We offer free and confidential HIV and other STI testing through Mount Sinai's Sexual Liberation Project every Wednesday from 6-9pm at our 37th St location. Sign up for the mailing list above to get dates in our weekly email. Mount Sinai does testing on site with on-the-spot results for HIV, syphilis and Hepatitis C (takes 20 minutes) and they call or email results for chlamydia and gonorrhea several days later. Testing is a resource for all men regardless of whether they pay to enter the party. The tester takes guys on a first-come, first-served basis, so arrive early to avoid wait times. Because each time slot is 20 minutes, a maximum of nine guys can be seen per party. If the party ends before 9pm, which happens sometimes, the tester will stop taking appointments early, so don't be late!

Pheromone Party NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nowhere bar NYC

Fursday

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

PERV! Kink Party for Weirdos

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

𝗣𝗘𝗥𝗩 💦 a kink party for weirdos hosted by Peter Cage @cloughagunga Pup Roger @pup_roger Friday, Feb 28, 10pm Rockbar @rockbarnyc Last Friday every month! $10 cover Clothes check available Plastic wrap bondage demos Wedgies P*ss boy Questionable choices Dress: slut gear demented drag leather rubber pup hood chastity cage panties diaper cum-soaked jock fur suit your roommate’s dirty socks cuck chair clown nose saran wrap wet toilet paper

THE LITTLEZ PARTY

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join with Google Meet: https://meet.google.com/kaj-epms-wmg Or dial: (US) +1 727-325-2334 PIN: 411362141# More phone numbers: https://tel.meet/kaj-epms-wmg?pin=9675429636688&hs=7 Learn more about Meet at: https://support.google.com/a/users/answer/9282720

Cigar Social NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join your host, Brent, every 2nd and 4th Friday of the month for an evening of ‘gars, men and leather! The event is BYOB. The venue provides glasses and ice. www.cigarsocialnyc.com

Urban Bear: Bears night out

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

STING NYC | A M/M Spanking Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to STING NYC! A Spanking Party for Men STING NYC is a relaxed, men-only spanking party built for men who want space to give, receive, trade, watch, learn, and explore spanking in all its forms. Whether you are brand new or deeply experienced, STING NYC offers a playful, open environment where men can connect through impact, discipline, technique, erotic tension, and shared desire. From the sharp snap of a belt to the satisfying smack of a hand, this is a room for men who know that a good spanking can be playful, connective, intense, and deeply satisfying. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, aftercare, and connection outside of active play. What to Expect 1 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 1:45–2 PM | Arrival + Connection Meet others, go over the house rules, and set the tone before play begins. 2 PM | Play Room Opens For negotiated spanking, impact, watching, learning, connection, and exploration at your own pace. 6 PM | Party Ends The Vibe • A men-only space centered around spanking and impact • A relaxed, social, and erotic afternoon atmosphere • 12+ spanking stations and an open layout • Stations including a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking bench, kneeling benches, massage tables, and room for creative positioning • A separate social area for aftercare, downtime, snacks, and conversation What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator This event is led by Dan, a long-standing member of the spanking community and a trusted facilitator within The Kink Collective. Dan brings his passion for spanking and his easygoing style to create a space that feels safe, playful, and welcoming to all men in attendance. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend STING NYC. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

Excelsior MC Business Meeting

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC meetings are where our club brothers and current pledges discuss club business and organize upcoming events. Our meetings are open to the public, and they occur the third Sunday each month at The LGBT Center in Chelsea. We encourage those interested in Excelsior MC to attend our meetings and share their perspective and interests with the brothers. To RSVP or to find more information, go to our website. Check with the concierge at The LGBT Center to find our meeting room each month.

Cigar Social NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join your hosts Shane & Brent, every Sunday (weather permitting) for an evening of ‘gars, men and leather! Find us on the roof deck. Just look for the smokey haze! www.cigarsocialnyc.com The event is BYOB. The venue provides glasses and ice.

KrINKles - Call The Babysitter | Movie and Cuddle Social

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to Call The Babysitter! A light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering... Call the Babysitter is a light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering for those who want a cozy space to relax, connect, and explore. This is a room where diapers, comfort, playful energy, and community come together in a welcoming environment built on kindness, consent, and care. Whether you arrive to cuddle, socialize, watch a movie, enjoy the comfort of sporting "little gear", or share playful connection with others, this is a space designed to help people settle in, feel at ease, and enjoy themselves at their own pace. What to Expect 7 PM | Doors Open The room opens organically. People often start socializing and connecting soon after arrival. 7:45 PM Brief Opening + Rules Check-In Once the room has settled, we pause briefly to go over intentions and house rules. 8 PM Movies Begin Cuddle, socialize, enjoy little gear, and connect in a soft, relaxing environment. 12 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • A cozy, diaper-centered atmosphere for community, comfort, and light exploration • Space to relax, socialize, cuddle, and connect • A changing table set up for diaper wearers What to Bring Diapers, pillow, change of clothes and any comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Facilitator This container is guided by Dan, a seasoned member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, welcoming spaces for erotic and playful exploration. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection while helping people feel comfortable and free to explore at their own pace. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Intstructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) ⬇️ 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend Call the Babysitter Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

Rope At RockBar

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Pheromone Party NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nowhere bar NYC

Fursday

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Urban Bear: Bears night out

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC Business Meeting

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC meetings are where our club brothers and current pledges discuss club business and organize upcoming events. Our meetings are open to the public, and they occur the third Sunday each month at The LGBT Center in Chelsea. We encourage those interested in Excelsior MC to attend our meetings and share their perspective and interests with the brothers. To RSVP or to find more information, go to our website. Check with the concierge at The LGBT Center to find our meeting room each month.

KnottyNY: The Gay Rope Thing

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Gear up for Knotty NY, first Tuesday and third Saturday each month! Leather, rubber, neoprene, sports kit and all other fetish wear encouraged. Come with questions and ideas for our 'catch up' social or revisit the basics with Knotty 101. Sign up at KnottyNY.com

Rope At RockBar

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

STI Testing at the Weds Bear Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join our Telegram channel (https://t.me/sexpartiesnyc) to be notified of STI testing dates or cancellations (rare) in a text. Arrive as early as possible to avoid wait times. -- We offer free and confidential HIV and other STI testing through Mount Sinai's Sexual Liberation Project every Wednesday from 6-9pm at our 37th St location. Sign up for the mailing list above to get dates in our weekly email. Mount Sinai does testing on site with on-the-spot results for HIV, syphilis and Hepatitis C (takes 20 minutes) and they call or email results for chlamydia and gonorrhea several days later. Testing is a resource for all men regardless of whether they pay to enter the party. The tester takes guys on a first-come, first-served basis, so arrive early to avoid wait times. Because each time slot is 20 minutes, a maximum of nine guys can be seen per party. If the party ends before 9pm, which happens sometimes, the tester will stop taking appointments early, so don't be late!

Pheromone Party NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nowhere bar NYC

Fursday

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Jockstrap Happy Hour by Q Darkqwolf

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

NEW TIME -- DOOR FROM 7-930p! $10 donation at the door plus 100% of the proceeds raised goes right into the pockets of community LGBTQ nonprofit orgs. #TakeItOffGiveItBack#ShowUsYourSupport

Excelsior MC Bar Night

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Come join the brothers of Excelsior MC for our monthly bar night! For anyone interested in the Leather community or meeting the brothers and current pledges, our bar nights are a casual social environment for discussion, sharing of ideas, and brotherhood. Our bar nights rotate to a different gay bar New York City each month to increase the visibility of Excelsior MC and the Leather Community at large. We look forward to seeing you there! https://linktr.ee/excelsiormc Leather/Gear is encouraged but not required. Come as you are!

BOUND NYC: A Rope Bondage Party for Queer Men

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to Bound NYC... A rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just a practice space. BOUND NYC is a rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just practice space. This is a room where bondage through rope is at the center, full scenes are encouraged, and play can extend into impact, sensation, bondage, and other forms of consensual exploration. Whether you come with a partner or attend solo, BOUND offers a warm, social, erotic, and play-minded environment for men who want to tie, connect, negotiate, and engage. This is not a class-based event. Light peer guidance and basic instruction may happen naturallyin the room, but the focus is on self-led play and scenes. Pick-up play is welcome, with attendees expected to negotiate for themselves. The Kink Collective’s MITPISA negotiation forms will be available to support clearer pre-scene communication and pickup play negotiation. What to Expect 7:00 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, connect, warm-up... Tie casually, if you'd like. 8:00 PM | Rules & Consent Agreements We gather briefly to review the rules, agreements and flow of the night. 8:15 PM | Rope and Scenes Open Once the room opens, attendees are free to tie, negotiate, play, and explore at their own pace. The Vibe • A warm, social, rope-forward atmosphere • Energetic beats and lighting set to support the room • Space for floor rope, with mats available • 2 suspension points and 1 suspension rig • Furnished with a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, tieable benches, and floor beds What to Bring Rope & Safety shears, implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No drugs. Meet Your Faciliatators BOUND is held by The Kink Collective facilitators and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care come first, and where exploration is supported rather than pushed. Location and Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $30 Member’s Ticket | $40 Solo Ticket | $60 Partner's (2 Tickets) 🎟 Get Your Advance Tickets, Here. OR pay at the door via Cash, Venmo, PayPal, Zelle, or CashApp Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend BOUND. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets, access to additional discounted in-person events, and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

Eagle NYC Club Night

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Leather/Fetish Clubs of the world...this is your night!!! Join host Michael Jeavons, Mr Eagle NYC 2020/2021 and Eagle NYC for one very special night each month dedicated to the many local, regional, national and worldwide leather/fetish clubs who serve and enrich the Community. Gear-up, come out, help us make a scene and join in the mayhem! ** Club Members (past/present) wearing their Colors will receive waived admission fee.

Urban Bear: Bears night out

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC Business Meeting

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC meetings are where our club brothers and current pledges discuss club business and organize upcoming events. Our meetings are open to the public, and they occur the third Sunday each month at The LGBT Center in Chelsea. We encourage those interested in Excelsior MC to attend our meetings and share their perspective and interests with the brothers. To RSVP or to find more information, go to our website. Check with the concierge at The LGBT Center to find our meeting room each month.

Into? Hosted by Cadet Kelley and Champ Phoenix

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to 'INTO?' a monthly Gear Social, queer cruising and viewing party.  'INTO?' aims to acknowledge and re-examine bar code nights and BLUF on social, economic and ethnographic levels.   For many, wearing "full cow" proper leathers are impossibility (...saving $200?month for a pair of pants or paying a cell-phone bill...) = and spending thousands of dollars on leather can be extremely alienating.   This disparity gap also creates echo-chambers of wealth and privilege.  How can our beautiful patchwork quilt of communities be accurately represented if they can't afford to get in the door?   IG:  CadetKelley IG:  ChampLeatherPup

Rope At RockBar

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

LOCKED: Chastity Social

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join host Peter Cage for a gathering of locked guys, keyholders, and anyone into chastity. You do not need to have experience or to be locked up to attend! All are welcome. Rockbar, 7pm Second Tuesday every month No cover Clothes check available Cage check for a free shot!!! ***Monthly from 7pm to 11:30pm on the second Tuesday (Eastern Time - New York)

Fursday

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Pheromone Party NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nowhere bar NYC

Cigar Social NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join your host, Brent, every 2nd and 4th Friday of the month for an evening of ‘gars, men and leather! The event is BYOB. The venue provides glasses and ice. Www.cigarsocialnyc.com

ONYX Bar Night

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Calendar of Events:  https://forbiddentickets.com/events/onyxnyne ONYX is an organization that supports ethnic and racial diversity in the gay leather community. For over twenty-four years, the organization has worked to empower gay and queer men of color and our allies to find support, education and growth in a safe and sane manner. We provide education about our community, safety and history to empower men of color in our community (and the larger community) to integrate these practices into their lives without shame or judgement. Additionally, we also raise funds to support charitable organizations that focus on LGBTQIA+ people of color, HIV, and youth organizations.

Urban Bear: Bears night out

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

KrINKles - Nappy Nibbles Social | An Free Indoor Picnic for ABDLs, Diaper Wearers, and Littles.

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to Nappy Nibbles! A free, cozy indoor picnic for ABDL's, Diaper Wearers, and Littles Nappy Nibbles is a soft, relaxed, low-pressure ABDL social created for diaper wearers, littles and those who want a cozy space to simply be. This is an indoor picnic-style gathering where comfort, community, and playful connection come first. Whether you want to cuddle up, chat, color, snack, relax, or just spend time around people who get it, Nappy Nibbles offers a warm and easygoing space to settle in without pressure or performance. What to Expect 4:30 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 4:30 PM–7:30 PM | Indoor Picnic Social Relax, cuddle, color, chat, snack, and enjoy a soft, low-pressure ABDL space at your own pace. 7:30 PM | Social Ends But the fun doesnt have to! Stay for our ABDL BDSM party, Diaper Debauchery. Starting at 8PM. 🎟️ Click Here, to Reserve Your Ticket. The Vibe • Cozy indoor picnic atmosphere • Space for cuddling, chatting, coloring, and quiet play • Low-pressure socializing and gentle connection • Couches, pillows, and mattresses for lounging • Soft lighting and a soft, easygoing feel What to Bring BYO food, drinks, snacks, games, comfort items, etc. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator Nappy Nibbles is guided by Dan, a long-time member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, grounded, and judgment-free spaces for men’s erotic and intimate play. Dan brings: warmth gentleness emotional presence excellent consent practice clarity around boundaries and a calm, steady leadership style His facilitation helps everyone feel seen, supported, and able to explore in their own time and way. Location & Entry Instructions Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets This event is free! | Donations welcome. Will You Stay for the Play Party? 🎉 After Nappy Nibbles, we flow into Diaper Debauchery, our ABDL BDSM play party starting at 8 PM. Come for the cozy social — stay for the deeper exploration if it feels right. 🎟️ Reserve Your Entrance to Diaper Debauchery, Click Here. Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to at

Official BLUF NYC Monthly Social @ Eagle NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join your host Michael Jeavons (Mr Eagle NYC 2020/2021) #1320 and the men of BLUF NYC for our monthly social as we overtake the Eagle NYC!!! Show-up and Show-out for a kink, cigar and leather-filled evening with some of the hottest men in the Tri-State area. While BLUF leather is suggested for the social it is never required and everyone is always welcome!! We look forward to seeing you! No cover

Excelsior MC Business Meeting

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC meetings are where our club brothers and current pledges discuss club business and organize upcoming events. Our meetings are open to the public, and they occur the third Sunday each month at The LGBT Center in Chelsea. We encourage those interested in Excelsior MC to attend our meetings and share their perspective and interests with the brothers. To RSVP or to find more information, go to our website. Check with the concierge at The LGBT Center to find our meeting room each month.

Rope At RockBar

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

STI Testing at the Weds Bear Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join our Telegram channel (https://t.me/sexpartiesnyc) to be notified of STI testing dates or cancellations (rare) in a text. Arrive as early as possible to avoid wait times. -- We offer free and confidential HIV and other STI testing through Mount Sinai's Sexual Liberation Project every Wednesday from 6-9pm at our 37th St location. Sign up for the mailing list above to get dates in our weekly email. Mount Sinai does testing on site with on-the-spot results for HIV, syphilis and Hepatitis C (takes 20 minutes) and they call or email results for chlamydia and gonorrhea several days later. Testing is a resource for all men regardless of whether they pay to enter the party. The tester takes guys on a first-come, first-served basis, so arrive early to avoid wait times. Because each time slot is 20 minutes, a maximum of nine guys can be seen per party. If the party ends before 9pm, which happens sometimes, the tester will stop taking appointments early, so don't be late!

Pheromone Party NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nowhere bar NYC

Fursday

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

KnottyNY: The Gay Rope Thing

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Gear up for Knotty NY, first Tuesday and third Saturday each month! Leather, rubber, neoprene, sports kit and all other fetish wear encouraged. Come with questions and ideas for our 'catch up' social or revisit the basics with Knotty 101. Sign up at KnottyNY.com

Urban Bear: Bears night out

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Yes Sir! | A Mens BDSM Impact Play Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to Yes Sir! A Men's Only BDSM Impact Play Party Yes Sir! is a men-only BDSM impact party built for men who want a dark, erotic space for impact, tension, and kinky exploration. Impact play is the theme of the night, with room for other BDSM play as it unfolds. Expect a room where flogging, spanking, paddles, canes, whips, rough body play, sensual impact, heavier impact, bondage, restraint, and CBT can all have a place. Sex is not the focus of the party, but may happen within scenes. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, aftercare, and connecting outside of active play. What to Expect 8 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play. 9 PM | Rules + Room Opening Once the room opens, men are free to negotiate, play, and move through the space at their own pace. 1 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • Ambient lighting and expressive house music that drive the energy • Furniture designed for real use, not just atmosphere (Benches, suspension points, spanking benches, massage tables, wall space, kneeling benches, stocks, and more) • A dark, erotic environment where impact, tension, and desire build side by side • Space for scenes to unfold with intensity, creativity, and control What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, lube etc A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Dress Code Dress for the energy of the party. Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome. Nudity is allowed throughout the space. If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately. Meet Your Facilitators Yes Sir! is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care support a wide range of impact and BDSM exploration. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $30 Members, $40 General Admission, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2) 🎟 Reserve Your Space Today, Click Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend YES SIR!. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [<a href="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://kinkcollective.net/membership-1&sa=D&source=calendar&us

KrINKles - Call The Babysitter | Movie and Cuddle Social

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to Call The Babysitter! A light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering... Call the Babysitter is a light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering for those who want a cozy space to relax, connect, and explore. This is a room where diapers, comfort, playful energy, and community come together in a welcoming environment built on kindness, consent, and care. Whether you arrive to cuddle, socialize, watch a movie, enjoy the comfort of sporting "little gear", or share playful connection with others, this is a space designed to help people settle in, feel at ease, and enjoy themselves at their own pace. What to Expect 7 PM | Doors Open The room opens organically. People often start socializing and connecting soon after arrival. 7:45 PM Brief Opening + Rules Check-In Once the room has settled, we pause briefly to go over intentions and house rules. 8 PM Movies Begin Cuddle, socialize, enjoy little gear, and connect in a soft, relaxing environment. 12 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • A cozy, diaper-centered atmosphere for community, comfort, and light exploration • Space to relax, socialize, cuddle, and connect • A changing table set up for diaper wearers What to Bring Diapers, pillow, change of clothes and any comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Facilitator This container is guided by Dan, a seasoned member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, welcoming spaces for erotic and playful exploration. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection while helping people feel comfortable and free to explore at their own pace. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Intstructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) ⬇️ 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend Call the Babysitter Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

Excelsior MC Business Meeting

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC meetings are where our club brothers and current pledges discuss club business and organize upcoming events. Our meetings are open to the public, and they occur the third Sunday each month at The LGBT Center in Chelsea. We encourage those interested in Excelsior MC to attend our meetings and share their perspective and interests with the brothers. To RSVP or to find more information, go to our website. Check with the concierge at The LGBT Center to find our meeting room each month.

Rope At RockBar

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Fursday

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Pheromone Party NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nowhere bar NYC

Cigar Social NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join your host, Brent, every 2nd and 4th Friday of the month for an evening of ‘gars, men and leather! The event is BYOB. The venue provides glasses and ice. www.cigarsocialnyc.com

PERV! Kink Party for Weirdos

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

𝗣𝗘𝗥𝗩 💦 a kink party for weirdos hosted by Peter Cage @cloughagunga Pup Roger @pup_roger Friday, Feb 28, 10pm Rockbar @rockbarnyc Last Friday every month! $10 cover Clothes check available Plastic wrap bondage demos Wedgies P*ss boy Questionable choices Dress: slut gear demented drag leather rubber pup hood chastity cage panties diaper cum-soaked jock fur suit your roommate’s dirty socks cuck chair clown nose saran wrap wet toilet paper

STING NYC | A M/M Spanking Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to STING NYC! A Spanking Party for Men STING NYC is a relaxed, men-only spanking party built for men who want space to give, receive, trade, watch, learn, and explore spanking in all its forms. Whether you are brand new or deeply experienced, STING NYC offers a playful, open environment where men can connect through impact, discipline, technique, erotic tension, and shared desire. From the sharp snap of a belt to the satisfying smack of a hand, this is a room for men who know that a good spanking can be playful, connective, intense, and deeply satisfying. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, aftercare, and connection outside of active play. What to Expect 1 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 1:45–2 PM | Arrival + Connection Meet others, go over the house rules, and set the tone before play begins. 2 PM | Play Room Opens For negotiated spanking, impact, watching, learning, connection, and exploration at your own pace. 6 PM | Party Ends The Vibe • A men-only space centered around spanking and impact • A relaxed, social, and erotic afternoon atmosphere • 12+ spanking stations and an open layout • Stations including a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking bench, kneeling benches, massage tables, and room for creative positioning • A separate social area for aftercare, downtime, snacks, and conversation What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator This event is led by Dan, a long-standing member of the spanking community and a trusted facilitator within The Kink Collective. Dan brings his passion for spanking and his easygoing style to create a space that feels safe, playful, and welcoming to all men in attendance. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend STING NYC. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

Urban Bear: Bears night out

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC Business Meeting

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC meetings are where our club brothers and current pledges discuss club business and organize upcoming events. Our meetings are open to the public, and they occur the third Sunday each month at The LGBT Center in Chelsea. We encourage those interested in Excelsior MC to attend our meetings and share their perspective and interests with the brothers. To RSVP or to find more information, go to our website. Check with the concierge at The LGBT Center to find our meeting room each month.

DIAPER HAPPY HOUR presented by NYC ABDL

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Event Deets: 📅 Date: Tuesday, September 5th ⏰ Time: 7:00 PM - 10:00 PM (or whenever the party winds down) 📍 Location: Rockbar, 185 Christopher Street 💰 Suggested Donation: $5.00 (because good times are priceless!) Why You Absolutely Need to Be There: - 💃 Our fantastic bar staff will be serving up fun and drinks all night. Be sure to tip them like the superheroes they are! - 🤩 Drama? Not here, buddy! Our space is a drama-free zone. It's all about good vibes, epic conversations, and maybe even making lifelong friends. - 📸 Capture memories, but hey, ask before you snap! We're all about respecting each other's privacy. - 🧥 Coat check? Nah, you're in charge of your gear, but we trust you to keep it fabulous. - 🤗 Hugs and cuddles (fully clothed, of course) are on the menu – spread the love! - 🍑 Changing station's the only spot for nudies – let's keep the rest of the party PG, folks! - 💩 Keep those messy diapers at home – we're all about a clean and cozy vibe. - 🚫 Tantrum? No way, Jose! Bullying? Absolutely not! Let's keep things as light as a diaper breeze. **Sponsored By:** 🌟 AB Universe 🌈 Lil Comfort 🚼 Tykables 🐻 Onesies Downunder The Grand Finale: Get ready to win some epic raffle prizes – because who doesn't love surprises that make you grin like a toddler in a candy store? So grab your calendars, set a reminder, and get ready to make a splash (hopefully not too literal) at Diaper Happy Hour! This isn't just an event – it's a chance to celebrate your unique interests in an open, warm, and friendly space. Remember, the power of the diaper compels you – and by "power," we mean the power of connection, acceptance, and having a blast! IG: nycabdl

KnottyNY: The Gay Rope Thing

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Gear up for Knotty NY, first Tuesday and third Saturday each month! Leather, rubber, neoprene, sports kit and all other fetish wear encouraged. Come with questions and ideas for our 'catch up' social or revisit the basics with Knotty 101. Sign up at KnottyNY.com

Rope At RockBar

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

STI Testing at the Weds Bear Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join our Telegram channel (https://t.me/sexpartiesnyc) to be notified of STI testing dates or cancellations (rare) in a text. Arrive as early as possible to avoid wait times. -- We offer free and confidential HIV and other STI testing through Mount Sinai's Sexual Liberation Project every Wednesday from 6-9pm at our 37th St location. Sign up for the mailing list above to get dates in our weekly email. Mount Sinai does testing on site with on-the-spot results for HIV, syphilis and Hepatitis C (takes 20 minutes) and they call or email results for chlamydia and gonorrhea several days later. Testing is a resource for all men regardless of whether they pay to enter the party. The tester takes guys on a first-come, first-served basis, so arrive early to avoid wait times. Because each time slot is 20 minutes, a maximum of nine guys can be seen per party. If the party ends before 9pm, which happens sometimes, the tester will stop taking appointments early, so don't be late!

Pheromone Party NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nowhere bar NYC

Fursday

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

BOUND NYC: A Rope Bondage Party for Queer Men

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to Bound NYC... A rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just a practice space. BOUND NYC is a rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just practice space. This is a room where bondage through rope is at the center, full scenes are encouraged, and play can extend into impact, sensation, bondage, and other forms of consensual exploration. Whether you come with a partner or attend solo, BOUND offers a warm, social, erotic, and play-minded environment for men who want to tie, connect, negotiate, and engage. This is not a class-based event. Light peer guidance and basic instruction may happen naturallyin the room, but the focus is on self-led play and scenes. Pick-up play is welcome, with attendees expected to negotiate for themselves. The Kink Collective’s MITPISA negotiation forms will be available to support clearer pre-scene communication and pickup play negotiation. What to Expect 7:00 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, connect, warm-up... Tie casually, if you'd like. 8:00 PM | Rules & Consent Agreements We gather briefly to review the rules, agreements and flow of the night. 8:15 PM | Rope and Scenes Open Once the room opens, attendees are free to tie, negotiate, play, and explore at their own pace. The Vibe • A warm, social, rope-forward atmosphere • Energetic beats and lighting set to support the room • Space for floor rope, with mats available • 2 suspension points and 1 suspension rig • Furnished with a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, tieable benches, and floor beds What to Bring Rope & Safety shears, implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No drugs. Meet Your Faciliatators BOUND is held by The Kink Collective facilitators and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care come first, and where exploration is supported rather than pushed. Location and Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $30 Member’s Ticket | $40 Solo Ticket | $60 Partner's (2 Tickets) 🎟 Get Your Advance Tickets, Here. OR pay at the door via Cash, Venmo, PayPal, Zelle, or CashApp Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend BOUND. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets, access to additional discounted in-person events, and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

Excelsior MC’s Trim-A-Tree Celebration

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

TRIM-A-TREE 2026 A Holiday Celebration of Leather, Laughter & Giving Back Celebrate and honor the leather clubs and communities from across the region as we come together for our annual Trim-a-Tree fundraising event! This year marks another milestone of holiday cheer, brotherhood, and community spirit—so come ready to jingle your bells and spread some festive mischief! https://linktr.ee/excelsiormc Details of the evening to be announced.

Jockstrap Happy Hour by Q Darkqwolf

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

NEW TIME -- DOOR FROM 7-930p! $10 donation at the door plus 100% of the proceeds raised goes right into the pockets of community LGBTQ nonprofit orgs. #TakeItOffGiveItBack#ShowUsYourSupport

Urban Bear: Bears night out

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Eagle NYC Club Night

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Leather/Fetish Clubs of the world...this is your night!!! Join host Michael Jeavons, Mr Eagle NYC 2020/2021 and Eagle NYC for one very special night each month dedicated to the many local, regional, national and worldwide leather/fetish clubs who serve and enrich the Community. Gear-up, come out, help us make a scene and join in the mayhem! ** Club Members (past/present) wearing their Colors will receive waived admission fee.

Manhole in Park Slope, Brooklyn (sign up at manholenyc.com for address)

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

A fisting party for experienced players and novices alike. Sign up at manholenyc.com for more info.

Excelsior MC Business Meeting

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC meetings are where our club brothers and current pledges discuss club business and organize upcoming events. Our meetings are open to the public, and they occur the third Sunday each month at The LGBT Center in Chelsea. We encourage those interested in Excelsior MC to attend our meetings and share their perspective and interests with the brothers. To RSVP or to find more information, go to our website. Check with the concierge at The LGBT Center to find our meeting room each month.

LOCKED: Chastity Social

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join host Peter Cage for a gathering of locked guys, keyholders, and anyone into chastity. You do not need to have experience or to be locked up to attend! All are welcome. Rockbar, 7pm Second Tuesday every month No cover Clothes check available Cage check for a free shot!!! ***Monthly from 7pm to 11:30pm on the second Tuesday (Eastern Time - New York)

Rope At RockBar

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Pheromone Party NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nowhere bar NYC

Fursday

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Cigar Social NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join your host, Brent, every 2nd and 4th Friday of the month for an evening of ‘gars, men and leather! The event is BYOB. The venue provides glasses and ice. Www.cigarsocialnyc.com

KrINKles - Nappy Nibbles Social | An Free Indoor Picnic for ABDLs, Diaper Wearers, and Littles.

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to Nappy Nibbles! A free, cozy indoor picnic for ABDL's, Diaper Wearers, and Littles Nappy Nibbles is a soft, relaxed, low-pressure ABDL social created for diaper wearers, littles and those who want a cozy space to simply be. This is an indoor picnic-style gathering where comfort, community, and playful connection come first. Whether you want to cuddle up, chat, color, snack, relax, or just spend time around people who get it, Nappy Nibbles offers a warm and easygoing space to settle in without pressure or performance. What to Expect 4:30 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 4:30 PM–7:30 PM | Indoor Picnic Social Relax, cuddle, color, chat, snack, and enjoy a soft, low-pressure ABDL space at your own pace. 7:30 PM | Social Ends But the fun doesnt have to! Stay for our ABDL BDSM party, Diaper Debauchery. Starting at 8PM. 🎟️ Click Here, to Reserve Your Ticket. The Vibe • Cozy indoor picnic atmosphere • Space for cuddling, chatting, coloring, and quiet play • Low-pressure socializing and gentle connection • Couches, pillows, and mattresses for lounging • Soft lighting and a soft, easygoing feel What to Bring BYO food, drinks, snacks, games, comfort items, etc. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator Nappy Nibbles is guided by Dan, a long-time member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, grounded, and judgment-free spaces for men’s erotic and intimate play. Dan brings: warmth gentleness emotional presence excellent consent practice clarity around boundaries and a calm, steady leadership style His facilitation helps everyone feel seen, supported, and able to explore in their own time and way. Location & Entry Instructions Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets This event is free! | Donations welcome. Will You Stay for the Play Party? 🎉 After Nappy Nibbles, we flow into Diaper Debauchery, our ABDL BDSM play party starting at 8 PM. Come for the cozy social — stay for the deeper exploration if it feels right. 🎟️ Reserve Your Entrance to Diaper Debauchery, Click Here. Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to at

Urban Bear: Bears night out

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

KrINKles - Diaper Debauchery | A diapers and kink play party for diapered expression, connection, and play.

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to Diaper Debauchery... This is a party where you can show up exactly as you are—diapered, kinky, and free. About This Event Diaper Debauchery is a kinky queer diaper community night where you can show up exactly as you are — diapered, curious, kinky, and playful. Hosted as part of The Sanctuary Sessions, this is a queer-friendly space where ABDL and kink can coexist without judgment. It is a place for diapered expression, kinky exploration, and real community, with consent at the center of it all. The night may include diaper play, impact, bondage, group play, insertables, voyeurism, cuddling, and aftercare. Some nights are more social, some more playful, and some more erotic, but the purpose stays the same: to give people space to express their kinks with their diapers in a room built on openness, respect, and freedom. While this is not a sex party, consensual erotic play may naturally unfold. Nothing is assumed, no one is owed access, and watching does not equal participation. What to expect  8:00 PM | Doors Open The room begins organically. People often start socializing, exploring, and connecting soon after arrival. 9:00PM Brief check in & Rules Once the room has settled, we pause briefly to go over house rules. Then the party continues naturally and the rest of the night is open for connection, play, exploration, and expression at your own pace. 1AM Party Ends The Vibe  • Separate social, cuddle, and play areas • Soft lighting and immersive music to support the energy, mood, and pacing of the room. • Furnished stations for impact, restraint, and intimate exploration (St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, sex bench, and more) What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. Diapers, outfits, buzzes, and more A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No drugs. Your Facilitator 🤸🏼‍♂️ This container is guided by Dan, a seasoned member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, welcoming spaces for queer erotic play. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection while making room for a wide range of expression. Location + Entry The Sanctuary of East Harlem 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $20 Member's Ticket | $30 Solo | $50 Couples For Advanced tickets, Click HERE. Tickets at the door (cash, Venmo, Cashapp, Zelle and PayPal) Diaper Debauchery is one of the only parties where ABDL and kink coexist freely. Come curious, come playful, come as you are. Leave connected. Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend Diaper Debauchery. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

ONYX Bar Night

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Calendar of Events:  https://forbiddentickets.com/events/onyxnyne ONYX is an organization that supports ethnic and racial diversity in the gay leather community. For over twenty-four years, the organization has worked to empower gay and queer men of color and our allies to find support, education and growth in a safe and sane manner. We provide education about our community, safety and history to empower men of color in our community (and the larger community) to integrate these practices into their lives without shame or judgement. Additionally, we also raise funds to support charitable organizations that focus on LGBTQIA+ people of color, HIV, and youth organizations.

Corrossion NYC | A Men's Only BDSM & Sex Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to Corrosion NYC! A Men's Only BDSM Sex Party CORROSION NYC is a men-only BDSM and sex party built for men who want space for real play, real connection, and real sexual freedom. Some come for BDSM, some come for sex, and some come for both. The room is designed to let all of that happen naturally, with consent, respect, and clear boundaries at the center. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, and connecting outside of active play. Socializing happens there. BDSM and sexual activity happen in the designated play areas. This is not a social with furniture in the background. The play spaces are meant to be used. Expect a setup designed for both BDSM and sex, with floor beds, benches, a sling, suspension points, spanking benches, a St. Andrew’s Cross, and more. What to Expect 7 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play. 8 PM | Open BDSM + Sex Party Negotiate, play, hook up, connect, and move between social and active spaces at your own pace. 12 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • Soft lighting and immersive music to support the energy, mood, and pacing of the room. • Furnished stations for impact, restraint, and intimate exploration (St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, sex bench, and more) • A dark, masculine, sexually charged environment What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, lube etc A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. CORROSION Dress Code Dress for the energy of the party. Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome. Nudity is allowed throughout the space. If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately. Meet Your Facilitators CORROSION is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink. In this room, that means connection before climax, with consent, respect, and clear boundaries leading the way. Event Details Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $30 Members, $40 Solo, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2) 🎟 Reserve Your Ticket Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend CORROSION. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

Excelsior MC Business Meeting

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC meetings are where our club brothers and current pledges discuss club business and organize upcoming events. Our meetings are open to the public, and they occur the third Sunday each month at The LGBT Center in Chelsea. We encourage those interested in Excelsior MC to attend our meetings and share their perspective and interests with the brothers. To RSVP or to find more information, go to our website. Check with the concierge at The LGBT Center to find our meeting room each month.

Into? Hosted by Cadet Kelley and Champ Phoenix

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to 'INTO?' a monthly Gear Social, queer cruising and viewing party.  'INTO?' aims to acknowledge and re-examine bar code nights and BLUF on social, economic and ethnographic levels.   For many, wearing "full cow" proper leathers are impossibility (...saving $200?month for a pair of pants or paying a cell-phone bill...) = and spending thousands of dollars on leather can be extremely alienating.   This disparity gap also creates echo-chambers of wealth and privilege.  How can our beautiful patchwork quilt of communities be accurately represented if they can't afford to get in the door?   IG:  CadetKelley IG:  ChampLeatherPup

Rope At RockBar

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

STI Testing at the Weds Bear Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join our Telegram channel (https://t.me/sexpartiesnyc) to be notified of STI testing dates or cancellations (rare) in a text. Arrive as early as possible to avoid wait times. -- We offer free and confidential HIV and other STI testing through Mount Sinai's Sexual Liberation Project every Wednesday from 6-9pm at our 37th St location. Sign up for the mailing list above to get dates in our weekly email. Mount Sinai does testing on site with on-the-spot results for HIV, syphilis and Hepatitis C (takes 20 minutes) and they call or email results for chlamydia and gonorrhea several days later. Testing is a resource for all men regardless of whether they pay to enter the party. The tester takes guys on a first-come, first-served basis, so arrive early to avoid wait times. Because each time slot is 20 minutes, a maximum of nine guys can be seen per party. If the party ends before 9pm, which happens sometimes, the tester will stop taking appointments early, so don't be late!