Mr Eagle NYC Competition Weekend

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

www.eagle-ny.com

Manhole in Park Slope, Brooklyn (sign up at manholenyc.com for address)

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

A fisting party for experienced players and novices alike. Sign up at manholenyc.com for more info.

Eagle NYC Club Night

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Leather/Fetish Clubs of the world...this is your night!!! Join host Michael Jeavons, Mr Eagle NYC 2020/2021 and Eagle NYC for one very special night each month dedicated to the many local, regional, national and worldwide leather/fetish clubs who serve and enrich the Community. Gear-up, come out, help us make a scene and join in the mayhem! ** Club Members (past/present) wearing their Colors will receive waived admission fee.

Mr Eagle NYC 2027 Contest

Hosted by The Eagle NYC

Welcome to Mr Eagle NYC 2027 contest weekend! Watch as one the contestant vying for the title of Mr Eagle NYC 2027 is chosen. $20 cover

Faucet: A Party for Piss Pigs in NYC

Hosted by NYC Inferno

$35 Cash (includes beverages, clothes check, towel, shower access) Location (for both party and class) 210 5th Ave, Park Slope, Brooklyn (Private Address) Bring ID. RSVP (not required) : partiful.com/e/ownZrrNfF1imMFSfb9SE No Dress Code: Wear as little or as much as you want. Please DON’T wear cologne, fragrances or deodorant. Wear shoes or footwear you don’t mind getting soaked in piss. Reduced List Available, email nycinferno@gmail.com New to the scene? Just want to meet some fellow pigs in a no-pressure environment? Come early, 2:30-3:30pm, for our always popular, always free WATERSPORTS 101 workshop! This is a simple, low-key class covering some of the basics of piss play, a little of the history, and talking about what to do and not to do at the party from 4-9! REDUCED $25 admission for Queer, Trans, POC folks or others in need of reduced admission. Email nycinferno@gmail.com to get on the list. You don’t need to explain why you need it, just email so we get a sense of how many people need reduced. Guests with motion disabilities: please note that the party space is sadly not accessible.

Excelsior MC Business Meeting

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC meetings are where our club brothers and current pledges discuss club business and organize upcoming events. Our meetings are open to the public, and they occur the third Sunday each month at The LGBT Center in Chelsea. We encourage those interested in Excelsior MC to attend our meetings and share their perspective and interests with the brothers. To RSVP or to find more information, go to our website. Check with the concierge at The LGBT Center to find our meeting room each month.

Cigar Social NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join your hosts Shane & Brent, every Sunday (weather permitting) for an evening of ‘gars, men and leather! Find us on the roof deck. Just look for the smokey haze! www.cigarsocialnyc.com The event is BYOB. The venue provides glasses and ice.

FLY Queens Rooftop Rapture

Hosted by Mathieu Blue

All-weather rooftop event featuring FLY QUEENS

Rubber Social - NYC Rubber Club

Hosted by NYC Rubber Club

From Leather to Latex, We Celebrate Together. Join Us in Welcoming the New Mr. Eagle NYC. Check our website for updated information. If you are subscribed to the NYC Rubber Club calendar, you will receive new events and updates as they are posted directly to your calendar! Web: https://nycrubber.club/ Instagram: http://instagram.com/nycrubber.club Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nycrubber.club/ X (Twitter): https://twitter.com/nycrubberclub Telegram Announcements: https://t.me/+yLFXdG6M_kI4Y2Nh Telegram Chat: request from an existing member or on Instagram

Love Sensation

Hosted by Rawhide NYC

A true New York tea dance, served with love

Mr Eagle NYC 2027 Victory Party

Hosted by The Eagle NYC

Welcome to Mr Eagle NYC 2027 Contest Weekend! Join Mr Eagle NYC 2027 for a celebration of their victory on the roof of Eagle NYC No Cover

Brian Kent - The Eagle

Hosted by The Eagle NYC

Rope At RockBar

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

KnottyNY: The Gay Rope Thing

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Gear up for Knotty NY, first Tuesday and third Saturday each month! Leather, rubber, neoprene, sports kit and all other fetish wear encouraged. Come with questions and ideas for our 'catch up' social or revisit the basics with Knotty 101. Sign up at KnottyNY.com

STI Testing at the Weds Bear Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join our Telegram channel (https://t.me/sexpartiesnyc) to be notified of STI testing dates or cancellations (rare) in a text. Arrive as early as possible to avoid wait times. -- We offer free and confidential HIV and other STI testing through Mount Sinai's Sexual Liberation Project every Wednesday from 6-9pm at our 37th St location. Sign up for the mailing list above to get dates in our weekly email. Mount Sinai does testing on site with on-the-spot results for HIV, syphilis and Hepatitis C (takes 20 minutes) and they call or email results for chlamydia and gonorrhea several days later. Testing is a resource for all men regardless of whether they pay to enter the party. The tester takes guys on a first-come, first-served basis, so arrive early to avoid wait times. Because each time slot is 20 minutes, a maximum of nine guys can be seen per party. If the party ends before 9pm, which happens sometimes, the tester will stop taking appointments early, so don't be late!

Sam Gee - The Eagle

Hosted by The Eagle NYC

Fursday

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Pheromone Party NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nowhere bar NYC

Cigar Social NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join your host, Brent, every 2nd and 4th Friday of the month for an evening of ‘gars, men and leather! The event is BYOB. The venue provides glasses and ice. Www.cigarsocialnyc.com

DRY HUMP: A Sober Sex Party

Hosted by Dry Hump

$30 admission includes clothes check, free beverages, towel and shower. Bring ID. NO BOOZE/WEED/POPPERS/DRUGS It's about to be Sober October, a month when some folks take a break from their regular routine during the Halloween season. But abstaining from substances doesn't have to be a SCARY. At DRY HUMP, we aim to prove that there's just as much frisky fun to be had with some good, grounded fucking, sucking, dancing and socializing in our underground playspace, Pickles' Playground. Whether you're taking a tolerancee break, sober as a rule, or whether you just want to be a little more present for one sexy night, DRY HUMP is the party for you. DJ JULIO CESAR will be making his triumphant return, keepinig the party moving and making it a night you'll definitely want to remember. RULES: Show up sober and stay sober. No alcohol, no 420, no poppers, no drugs, and no shade! Everybody’s history with substances is their own business. Consent is a must. Don't touch people without permission. Respect each other's differences. Checking your phone at the clothes check is required. To get all the party info, including location add your email here: https://tinyurl.com/faucetnyc AND sign up for our private substack here: http://nycinferno.substack.com Once approved on the substack you can check out our posts, which will have all the info. Must Bring: ID and a Good Attitude! Please check your spam for "NYC INFERNO" if you don't see it in your inbox. Please note, the party is always in the same location Flyer by Michael Magnan Reduced $25 admission for Queer, Trans, POC folks or others in need of reduced admission. Email nycinferno@gmail.com to get on the list. Guests with motion disabilities: please note that the party space is not accessible. WHAT IS DRY HUMP? DRY HUMP is a brand new sex party for queer friends, fuckbuddies and lovers of all kinds. This is an inclusive queer party that welcomes all trans, cis and nonbinary genders, though it has traditionally been centered around gay cis and trans men who want to play in a mainly cis gay space. If you can't handle being at a party with trans people, please don't come! DRY HUMP practices: SOBRIETY! You don’t have to be in recovery, or sober 24/7, to be welcome at our party. We only ask that you refrain from partaking of any and all mind-altering substances—including alcohol, cannabis, poppers, and of course “party” drugs—before and during DRY HUMP. CONSENT! Ask for consent before touching somebody, and if they say "no thanks" or don't respond enthusiastically, move on. If someone you're watching asks for privacy, respect that. If you aren't finding what you are looking for, just be kind and keep mingling, and you'll surely find someone else into your scene. Nudity does NOT equal consent, and consent can be withdrawn at any time. Please DON'T BUTT INTO other SCENES in PROGRESS. RESPECT! Party staff keeping an eye on the space will enforce a policy of zero tolerance for anyone who disrespects a guest for their race, gender, disability, size, age, appearance, gender, genitals, kinks, for using condoms, for not using condoms, for being thirsty, for being shy, for being naked, for wearing "too much," for wearing the "wrong" thing, or for who they are in any other capacity. ACCOUNTABILITY! If you feel someone is violating your boundaries, being too aggressive, or threatening your safety in any way, please find Adam, Pickles, or one of our staff immediately, and we will remove them from the party. FINALLY: Thanks for reading this far. You're so sexy! Have a great time.

JenDM - The Eagle

Hosted by The Eagle NYC

DANDYLAND: CARTOON GRAVEYARD Queer Erotic Art & Gift Market

Hosted by Dandyland

Come kick off the SPOOKY SEASON and shop with the horniest, perviest, sluttiest, kinkiest queer artists and makers in NYC!!! DANDYLAND: CARTOON GRAVEYARD Queer Erotic Art & Gift Market's got TONS of art, prints, cards, clothing, jewelry, gifts, and more! Buy your favorite queer something special for PRIDE, and support queer artistry! OVER 20 LOCAL QUEER ARTIST VENDORS AFFORDABLE ART & GIFTS KICK-ASS RAFFLES LOOSE MORALS DANDYLAND: CARTOON GRAVEYARD Saturday • October 10th • 2-8PM BOXERS HK 735 9th Avenue near 50th Street Hell's Kitchen • NYC FREE ADMISSION • 21+ Coat/Clothes Check Available Encouraged Dress: Cartoons, Zombies, Animation, Dead, Disney, Looney Tunes, etc.

KrINKles - Nappy Nibbles Social | An Free Indoor Picnic for ABDLs, Diaper Wearers, and Littles.

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to Nappy Nibbles! A free, cozy indoor picnic for ABDL's, Diaper Wearers, and Littles Nappy Nibbles is a soft, relaxed, low-pressure ABDL social created for diaper wearers, littles and those who want a cozy space to simply be. This is an indoor picnic-style gathering where comfort, community, and playful connection come first. Whether you want to cuddle up, chat, color, snack, relax, or just spend time around people who get it, Nappy Nibbles offers a warm and easygoing space to settle in without pressure or performance. What to Expect 4:30 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 4:30 PM–7:30 PM | Indoor Picnic Social Relax, cuddle, color, chat, snack, and enjoy a soft, low-pressure ABDL space at your own pace. 7:30 PM | Social Ends But the fun doesnt have to! Stay for our ABDL BDSM party, Diaper Debauchery. Starting at 8PM. 🎟️ Click Here, to Reserve Your Ticket. The Vibe • Cozy indoor picnic atmosphere • Space for cuddling, chatting, coloring, and quiet play • Low-pressure socializing and gentle connection • Couches, pillows, and mattresses for lounging • Soft lighting and a soft, easygoing feel What to Bring BYO food, drinks, snacks, games, comfort items, etc. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator Nappy Nibbles is guided by Dan, a long-time member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, grounded, and judgment-free spaces for men’s erotic and intimate play. Dan brings: warmth gentleness emotional presence excellent consent practice clarity around boundaries and a calm, steady leadership style His facilitation helps everyone feel seen, supported, and able to explore in their own time and way. Location & Entry Instructions Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets This event is free! | Donations welcome. Will You Stay for the Play Party? 🎉 After Nappy Nibbles, we flow into Diaper Debauchery, our ABDL BDSM play party starting at 8 PM. Come for the cozy social — stay for the deeper exploration if it feels right. 🎟️ Reserve Your Entrance to Diaper Debauchery, Click Here. Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to at

ONYX Bar Night

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Calendar of Events:  https://forbiddentickets.com/events/onyxnyne ONYX is an organization that supports ethnic and racial diversity in the gay leather community. For over twenty-four years, the organization has worked to empower gay and queer men of color and our allies to find support, education and growth in a safe and sane manner. We provide education about our community, safety and history to empower men of color in our community (and the larger community) to integrate these practices into their lives without shame or judgement. Additionally, we also raise funds to support charitable organizations that focus on LGBTQIA+ people of color, HIV, and youth organizations.

Urban Bear: Bears night out

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Hector Fonseca - The Eagle

Hosted by The Eagle NYC

STANK.bk

Hosted by Younghearts

It’s OFFICIAL - STANK is coming to Brooklyn 🐽 Phones down, arms up 🔥 Tickets: https://dice.fm/event/dk7a5v-stankbk-10th-oct-cmon-everybody-new-york-tickets San Francisco’s sound forward, pit fetish night comes to C’mon Everybody. Sweat to the sonic experience, catch the camp Ripe Pit contest, and leave with a new friend 👀 The line-up: Stank.BK Resident: Petrichor (MOANS.NYC) Guest DJs: MTHR TRSA, PUNKALOID w/ Cellblock Babes: Bru / Pup Elio Hosts: Spencer Adam + Simon Malvaez (Younghearts) Gear encouraged. Looks applauded. Vibes heavy. Sweat necessary.

Excelsior MC Business Meeting

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC meetings are where our club brothers and current pledges discuss club business and organize upcoming events. Our meetings are open to the public, and they occur the third Sunday each month at The LGBT Center in Chelsea. We encourage those interested in Excelsior MC to attend our meetings and share their perspective and interests with the brothers. To RSVP or to find more information, go to our website. Check with the concierge at The LGBT Center to find our meeting room each month.

Cigar Social NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join your hosts Shane & Brent, every Sunday (weather permitting) for an evening of ‘gars, men and leather! Find us on the roof deck. Just look for the smokey haze! www.cigarsocialnyc.com The event is BYOB. The venue provides glasses and ice.

Into? Hosted by Cadet Kelley and Champ Phoenix

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to 'INTO?' a monthly Gear Social, queer cruising and viewing party.  'INTO?' aims to acknowledge and re-examine bar code nights and BLUF on social, economic and ethnographic levels.   For many, wearing "full cow" proper leathers are impossibility (...saving $200?month for a pair of pants or paying a cell-phone bill...) = and spending thousands of dollars on leather can be extremely alienating.   This disparity gap also creates echo-chambers of wealth and privilege.  How can our beautiful patchwork quilt of communities be accurately represented if they can't afford to get in the door?   IG:  CadetKelley IG:  ChampLeatherPup

ConTEAnental

Hosted by Ricardo Tavares

Corrossion NYC | A Men's Only BDSM & Sex Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to Corrosion NYC! A Men's Only BDSM Sex Party CORROSION NYC is a men-only BDSM and sex party built for men who want space for real play, real connection, and real sexual freedom. Some come for BDSM, some come for sex, and some come for both. The room is designed to let all of that happen naturally, with consent, respect, and clear boundaries at the center. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, and connecting outside of active play. Socializing happens there. BDSM and sexual activity happen in the designated play areas. This is not a social with furniture in the background. The play spaces are meant to be used. Expect a setup designed for both BDSM and sex, with floor beds, benches, a sling, suspension points, spanking benches, a St. Andrew’s Cross, and more. What to Expect 7 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play. 8 PM | Open BDSM + Sex Party Negotiate, play, hook up, connect, and move between social and active spaces at your own pace. 12 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • Soft lighting and immersive music to support the energy, mood, and pacing of the room. • Furnished stations for impact, restraint, and intimate exploration (St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, sex bench, and more) • A dark, masculine, sexually charged environment What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, lube etc A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. CORROSION Dress Code Dress for the energy of the party. Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome. Nudity is allowed throughout the space. If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately. Meet Your Facilitators CORROSION is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink. In this room, that means connection before climax, with consent, respect, and clear boundaries leading the way. Event Details Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $30 Members, $40 Solo, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2) 🎟 Reserve Your Ticket Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend CORROSION. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

Nocturna: Pirates of the Underworld

Hosted by Nocturna Circuit

Battle Hymn

Hosted by Ladyfag

Dani Toro - The Eagle

Hosted by The Eagle NYC

Rope At RockBar

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

LOCKED: Chastity Social

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join host Peter Cage for a gathering of locked guys, keyholders, and anyone into chastity. You do not need to have experience or to be locked up to attend! All are welcome. Rockbar, 7pm Second Tuesday every month No cover Clothes check available Cage check for a free shot!!! ***Monthly from 7pm to 11:30pm on the second Tuesday (Eastern Time - New York)

Fursday

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Narrow Rooms presents LES FANTOMES DU HARD & FISTULE

Hosted by Narrow Rooms

Buy Tickets Here: anthologyfilmarchives.org Screenings usually sell out, so please buy your tickets now! Join the Narrow Rooms Email List: bit.ly/narrowrooms Most kinky queers in NYC know all about the Mineshaft, the legendary, long-shuttered NYC sex club in the Meatpacking District that was in operation from 1976 to 1985. But across the Atlantic, France’s first “hard” gay BDSM sex club was also called Mineshaft, and it has remained a sacred space for BDSM and fetish sex in Marseille since its opening in 1967. In this pair of short experimental documentaries, director Lazare Lazarus and friends excavate the archive left by the Mineshaft’s founder Jean-Pierre Fouque. Chapter 1 tells the story of the squatters who took over Fouque’s apartment after his death in 2022 and discovered his archive, while illuminating aspects of the club owner’s life – his lovers, political views, activism, and more. Chapter 2, co-directed with Lupa Charon Gateff, is more of a found-footage experimental porno mixtape, using the Mineshaft’s archive of hardcore gay porn and BDSM videotapes to take us into the dungeons of Europe, both real and imagined. These two shorts will be followed by Emre Busse’s operatic fisting musical FISTULE, which invites the audience into a realm where an anal fissure serves as a dramatic springboard to expose the absurdity of societal norms with a mix of tragedy, camp, and sexuality. If you’re a fan of the films of Liz Purchell (ASK ANY BUDDY), Ryan A. White (RAW! UNCUT! VIDEO!), and Yann Gonzalez (KNIFE + HEART), or if you enjoyed our DEVIANT DOCUMENTARIES program last year, you’ll find much to enjoy in this month’s program. Program Lineup: Lazare Lazarus LES FANTÔMES DU HARD, CHAPTER 1 2023, 35 min, DCP. In French with English subtitles. Lazare Lazarus & Lupa Charon Gateff LES FANTÔMES DU HARD, CHAPTER 2 2024, 24 min, DCP. In French with English subtitles. Emre Busse FISTULE 2026, 17 min, DCP

Pheromone Party NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nowhere bar NYC

KnottyNY: The Gay Rope Thing

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Gear up for Knotty NY, first Tuesday and third Saturday each month! Leather, rubber, neoprene, sports kit and all other fetish wear encouraged. Come with questions and ideas for our 'catch up' social or revisit the basics with Knotty 101. Sign up at KnottyNY.com

Yes Sir! | A Mens BDSM Impact Play Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to Yes Sir! A Men's Only BDSM Impact Play Party Yes Sir! is a men-only BDSM impact party built for men who want a dark, erotic space for impact, tension, and kinky exploration. Impact play is the theme of the night, with room for other BDSM play as it unfolds. Expect a room where flogging, spanking, paddles, canes, whips, rough body play, sensual impact, heavier impact, bondage, restraint, and CBT can all have a place. Sex is not the focus of the party, but may happen within scenes. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, aftercare, and connecting outside of active play. What to Expect 8 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play. 9 PM | Rules + Room Opening Once the room opens, men are free to negotiate, play, and move through the space at their own pace. 1 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • Ambient lighting and expressive house music that drive the energy • Furniture designed for real use, not just atmosphere (Benches, suspension points, spanking benches, massage tables, wall space, kneeling benches, stocks, and more) • A dark, erotic environment where impact, tension, and desire build side by side • Space for scenes to unfold with intensity, creativity, and control What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, lube etc A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Dress Code Dress for the energy of the party. Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome. Nudity is allowed throughout the space. If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately. Meet Your Facilitators Yes Sir! is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care support a wide range of impact and BDSM exploration. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $30 Members, $40 General Admission, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2) 🎟 Reserve Your Space Today, Click Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend YES SIR!. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [<a href="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://kinkcollective.net/membership-1&sa=D&source=calendar&us

Urban Bear: Bears night out

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC Business Meeting

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC meetings are where our club brothers and current pledges discuss club business and organize upcoming events. Our meetings are open to the public, and they occur the third Sunday each month at The LGBT Center in Chelsea. We encourage those interested in Excelsior MC to attend our meetings and share their perspective and interests with the brothers. To RSVP or to find more information, go to our website. Check with the concierge at The LGBT Center to find our meeting room each month.

Official BLUF NYC Monthly Social @ Eagle NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join your host Michael Jeavons (Mr Eagle NYC 2020/2021) #1320 and the men of BLUF NYC for our monthly social as we overtake the Eagle NYC!!! Show-up and Show-out for a kink, cigar and leather-filled evening with some of the hottest men in the Tri-State area. While BLUF leather is suggested for the social it is never required and everyone is always welcome!! We look forward to seeing you! No cover

Cigar Social NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join your hosts Shane & Brent, every Sunday (weather permitting) for an evening of ‘gars, men and leather! Find us on the roof deck. Just look for the smokey haze! www.cigarsocialnyc.com The event is BYOB. The venue provides glasses and ice.

Clandestine Circuit: Vampires

Hosted by Clandestine Circuit

Rope At RockBar

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

STI Testing at the Weds Bear Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join our Telegram channel (https://t.me/sexpartiesnyc) to be notified of STI testing dates or cancellations (rare) in a text. Arrive as early as possible to avoid wait times. -- We offer free and confidential HIV and other STI testing through Mount Sinai's Sexual Liberation Project every Wednesday from 6-9pm at our 37th St location. Sign up for the mailing list above to get dates in our weekly email. Mount Sinai does testing on site with on-the-spot results for HIV, syphilis and Hepatitis C (takes 20 minutes) and they call or email results for chlamydia and gonorrhea several days later. Testing is a resource for all men regardless of whether they pay to enter the party. The tester takes guys on a first-come, first-served basis, so arrive early to avoid wait times. Because each time slot is 20 minutes, a maximum of nine guys can be seen per party. If the party ends before 9pm, which happens sometimes, the tester will stop taking appointments early, so don't be late!

CUIR @ ANIMAL

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join with Google Meet: https://meet.google.com/qwi-abpr-xeh Learn more about Meet at: https://support.google.com/a/users/answer/9282720

Fursday

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Pheromone Party NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nowhere bar NYC

THE LITTLEZ PARTY

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join with Google Meet: https://meet.google.com/kaj-epms-wmg Or dial: (US) +1 727-325-2334 PIN: 411362141# More phone numbers: https://tel.meet/kaj-epms-wmg?pin=9675429636688&hs=7 Learn more about Meet at: https://support.google.com/a/users/answer/9282720

Cigar Social NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join your host, Brent, every 2nd and 4th Friday of the month for an evening of ‘gars, men and leather! The event is BYOB. The venue provides glasses and ice. www.cigarsocialnyc.com

City of Gods Festival

Hosted by Glamcocks

PERV! Kink Party for Weirdos

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

𝗣𝗘𝗥𝗩 💦 a kink party for weirdos hosted by Peter Cage @cloughagunga Pup Roger @pup_roger Friday, Feb 28, 10pm Rockbar @rockbarnyc Last Friday every month! $10 cover Clothes check available Plastic wrap bondage demos Wedgies P*ss boy Questionable choices Dress: slut gear demented drag leather rubber pup hood chastity cage panties diaper cum-soaked jock fur suit your roommate’s dirty socks cuck chair clown nose saran wrap wet toilet paper

Good Boy

Hosted by Sammy Klein

STING NYC | A M/M Spanking Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to STING NYC! A Spanking Party for Men STING NYC is a relaxed, men-only spanking party built for men who want space to give, receive, trade, watch, learn, and explore spanking in all its forms. Whether you are brand new or deeply experienced, STING NYC offers a playful, open environment where men can connect through impact, discipline, technique, erotic tension, and shared desire. From the sharp snap of a belt to the satisfying smack of a hand, this is a room for men who know that a good spanking can be playful, connective, intense, and deeply satisfying. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, aftercare, and connection outside of active play. What to Expect 1 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 1:45–2 PM | Arrival + Connection Meet others, go over the house rules, and set the tone before play begins. 2 PM | Play Room Opens For negotiated spanking, impact, watching, learning, connection, and exploration at your own pace. 6 PM | Party Ends The Vibe • A men-only space centered around spanking and impact • A relaxed, social, and erotic afternoon atmosphere • 12+ spanking stations and an open layout • Stations including a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking bench, kneeling benches, massage tables, and room for creative positioning • A separate social area for aftercare, downtime, snacks, and conversation What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator This event is led by Dan, a long-standing member of the spanking community and a trusted facilitator within The Kink Collective. Dan brings his passion for spanking and his easygoing style to create a space that feels safe, playful, and welcoming to all men in attendance. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend STING NYC. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

Queer Rope Social Brooklyn

Hosted by Coil & Cord

Info & Tickets: https://www.simpletix.com/e/queer-rope-social-brooklyn-tickets-260587?utm_source=nyckinklink Join with Google Meet: https://meet.google.com/cse-teud-jfx Or dial: (US) +1 262-563-8008 PIN: 435716371# More phone numbers: https://tel.meet/cse-teud-jfx?pin=8024426138760&hs=7 Learn more about Meet at: https://support.google.com/a/users/answer/9282720

Urban Bear: Bears night out

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Unspeakable Joy

Hosted by Unspeakable Joy

NYC's House Classics Party with music+visuals featuring James Anthony, queen Vivacious, hosts Apollo CircuitDad, Deandre Elijah Macho, door Barbra Love

Feedback

Hosted by Feedback

Jace M - The Eagle

Hosted by The Eagle NYC

Excelsior MC Business Meeting

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC meetings are where our club brothers and current pledges discuss club business and organize upcoming events. Our meetings are open to the public, and they occur the third Sunday each month at The LGBT Center in Chelsea. We encourage those interested in Excelsior MC to attend our meetings and share their perspective and interests with the brothers. To RSVP or to find more information, go to our website. Check with the concierge at The LGBT Center to find our meeting room each month.

Cigar Social NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join your hosts Shane & Brent, every Sunday (weather permitting) for an evening of ‘gars, men and leather! Find us on the roof deck. Just look for the smokey haze! www.cigarsocialnyc.com The event is BYOB. The venue provides glasses and ice.

KrINKles - Call The Babysitter | Movie and Cuddle Social

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to Call The Babysitter! A light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering... Call the Babysitter is a light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering for those who want a cozy space to relax, connect, and explore. This is a room where diapers, comfort, playful energy, and community come together in a welcoming environment built on kindness, consent, and care. Whether you arrive to cuddle, socialize, watch a movie, enjoy the comfort of sporting "little gear", or share playful connection with others, this is a space designed to help people settle in, feel at ease, and enjoy themselves at their own pace. What to Expect 7 PM | Doors Open The room opens organically. People often start socializing and connecting soon after arrival. 7:45 PM Brief Opening + Rules Check-In Once the room has settled, we pause briefly to go over intentions and house rules. 8 PM Movies Begin Cuddle, socialize, enjoy little gear, and connect in a soft, relaxing environment. 12 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • A cozy, diaper-centered atmosphere for community, comfort, and light exploration • Space to relax, socialize, cuddle, and connect • A changing table set up for diaper wearers What to Bring Diapers, pillow, change of clothes and any comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Facilitator This container is guided by Dan, a seasoned member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, welcoming spaces for erotic and playful exploration. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection while helping people feel comfortable and free to explore at their own pace. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Intstructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) ⬇️ 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend Call the Babysitter Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

Mystery Circus

Hosted by William Riera

Primal

Hosted by The Eagle NYC

One night. Two DJs. One primal rhythm.

Rope At RockBar

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

T4T Rope Night

Hosted by Coil & Cord

Info & Tickets: https://www.simpletix.com/e/t4t-rope-night-tickets-260589 Join with Google Meet: https://meet.google.com/gok-czts-szh Or dial: (US) +1 402-307-1442 PIN: 402322457# More phone numbers: https://tel.meet/gok-czts-szh?pin=9281274040633&hs=7 Learn more about Meet at: https://support.google.com/a/users/answer/9282720

Fursday

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Pheromone Party NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nowhere bar NYC

Tell No One

Hosted by Jake Resnicow Events

Halloween event with 9 immersive rooms, 3 levels, and 2 stages

MEAT: Halloween Edition

Hosted by Jake Resnicow Events

Urban Bear: Bears night out

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Alegria Halloween

Hosted by Ric Sena Presents

Horse Meat Disco Halloween

Hosted by Josh Woods Productions

Viva Afterhours: Halloween

Hosted by Ric Sena Presents

Excelsior MC Business Meeting

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC meetings are where our club brothers and current pledges discuss club business and organize upcoming events. Our meetings are open to the public, and they occur the third Sunday each month at The LGBT Center in Chelsea. We encourage those interested in Excelsior MC to attend our meetings and share their perspective and interests with the brothers. To RSVP or to find more information, go to our website. Check with the concierge at The LGBT Center to find our meeting room each month.

Rope At RockBar

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

KnottyNY: The Gay Rope Thing

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Gear up for Knotty NY, first Tuesday and third Saturday each month! Leather, rubber, neoprene, sports kit and all other fetish wear encouraged. Come with questions and ideas for our 'catch up' social or revisit the basics with Knotty 101. Sign up at KnottyNY.com

STI Testing at the Weds Bear Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join our Telegram channel (https://t.me/sexpartiesnyc) to be notified of STI testing dates or cancellations (rare) in a text. Arrive as early as possible to avoid wait times. -- We offer free and confidential HIV and other STI testing through Mount Sinai's Sexual Liberation Project every Wednesday from 6-9pm at our 37th St location. Sign up for the mailing list above to get dates in our weekly email. Mount Sinai does testing on site with on-the-spot results for HIV, syphilis and Hepatitis C (takes 20 minutes) and they call or email results for chlamydia and gonorrhea several days later. Testing is a resource for all men regardless of whether they pay to enter the party. The tester takes guys on a first-come, first-served basis, so arrive early to avoid wait times. Because each time slot is 20 minutes, a maximum of nine guys can be seen per party. If the party ends before 9pm, which happens sometimes, the tester will stop taking appointments early, so don't be late!

Fursday

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Pheromone Party NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nowhere bar NYC

Jockstrap Happy Hour by Q Darkqwolf

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

NEW TIME -- DOOR FROM 7-930p! $10 donation at the door plus 100% of the proceeds raised goes right into the pockets of community LGBTQ nonprofit orgs. #TakeItOffGiveItBack#ShowUsYourSupport

BOUND NYC: A Rope Bondage Party for Queer Men

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to Bound NYC... A rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just a practice space. BOUND NYC is a rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just practice space. This is a room where bondage through rope is at the center, full scenes are encouraged, and play can extend into impact, sensation, bondage, and other forms of consensual exploration. Whether you come with a partner or attend solo, BOUND offers a warm, social, erotic, and play-minded environment for men who want to tie, connect, negotiate, and engage. This is not a class-based event. Light peer guidance and basic instruction may happen naturallyin the room, but the focus is on self-led play and scenes. Pick-up play is welcome, with attendees expected to negotiate for themselves. The Kink Collective’s MITPISA negotiation forms will be available to support clearer pre-scene communication and pickup play negotiation. What to Expect 7:00 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, connect, warm-up... Tie casually, if you'd like. 8:00 PM | Rules & Consent Agreements We gather briefly to review the rules, agreements and flow of the night. 8:15 PM | Rope and Scenes Open Once the room opens, attendees are free to tie, negotiate, play, and explore at their own pace. The Vibe • A warm, social, rope-forward atmosphere • Energetic beats and lighting set to support the room • Space for floor rope, with mats available • 2 suspension points and 1 suspension rig • Furnished with a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, tieable benches, and floor beds What to Bring Rope & Safety shears, implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No drugs. Meet Your Faciliatators BOUND is held by The Kink Collective facilitators and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care come first, and where exploration is supported rather than pushed. Location and Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $30 Member’s Ticket | $40 Solo Ticket | $60 Partner's (2 Tickets) 🎟 Get Your Advance Tickets, Here. OR pay at the door via Cash, Venmo, PayPal, Zelle, or CashApp Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend BOUND. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets, access to additional discounted in-person events, and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

Excelsior MC Bar Night

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Come join the brothers of Excelsior MC for our monthly bar night! For anyone interested in the Leather community or meeting the brothers and current pledges, our bar nights are a casual social environment for discussion, sharing of ideas, and brotherhood. Our bar nights rotate to a different gay bar New York City each month to increase the visibility of Excelsior MC and the Leather Community at large. We look forward to seeing you there! https://linktr.ee/excelsiormc Leather/Gear is encouraged but not required. Come as you are!

Excelsior MC Bar Night

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Come join the brothers of Excelsior MC for our monthly bar night! For anyone interested in the Leather community or meeting the brothers and current pledges, our bar nights are a casual social environment for discussion, sharing of ideas, and brotherhood. Our bar nights rotate to a different gay bar New York City each month to increase the visibility of Excelsior MC and the Leather Community at large. We look forward to seeing you there! https://linktr.ee/excelsiormc Leather/Gear is encouraged but not required. Come as you are!

Urban Bear: Bears night out

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Eagle NYC Club Night

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Leather/Fetish Clubs of the world...this is your night!!! Join host Michael Jeavons, Mr Eagle NYC 2020/2021 and Eagle NYC for one very special night each month dedicated to the many local, regional, national and worldwide leather/fetish clubs who serve and enrich the Community. Gear-up, come out, help us make a scene and join in the mayhem! ** Club Members (past/present) wearing their Colors will receive waived admission fee.

Excelsior MC Business Meeting

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC meetings are where our club brothers and current pledges discuss club business and organize upcoming events. Our meetings are open to the public, and they occur the third Sunday each month at The LGBT Center in Chelsea. We encourage those interested in Excelsior MC to attend our meetings and share their perspective and interests with the brothers. To RSVP or to find more information, go to our website. Check with the concierge at The LGBT Center to find our meeting room each month.

Into? Hosted by Cadet Kelley and Champ Phoenix

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to 'INTO?' a monthly Gear Social, queer cruising and viewing party.  'INTO?' aims to acknowledge and re-examine bar code nights and BLUF on social, economic and ethnographic levels.   For many, wearing "full cow" proper leathers are impossibility (...saving $200?month for a pair of pants or paying a cell-phone bill...) = and spending thousands of dollars on leather can be extremely alienating.   This disparity gap also creates echo-chambers of wealth and privilege.  How can our beautiful patchwork quilt of communities be accurately represented if they can't afford to get in the door?   IG:  CadetKelley IG:  ChampLeatherPup

Rope At RockBar

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

LOCKED: Chastity Social

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join host Peter Cage for a gathering of locked guys, keyholders, and anyone into chastity. You do not need to have experience or to be locked up to attend! All are welcome. Rockbar, 7pm Second Tuesday every month No cover Clothes check available Cage check for a free shot!!! ***Monthly from 7pm to 11:30pm on the second Tuesday (Eastern Time - New York)

Fursday

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Pheromone Party NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nowhere bar NYC

Cigar Social NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join your host, Brent, every 2nd and 4th Friday of the month for an evening of ‘gars, men and leather! The event is BYOB. The venue provides glasses and ice. Www.cigarsocialnyc.com

KrINKles - Nappy Nibbles Social | An Free Indoor Picnic for ABDLs, Diaper Wearers, and Littles.

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to Nappy Nibbles! A free, cozy indoor picnic for ABDL's, Diaper Wearers, and Littles Nappy Nibbles is a soft, relaxed, low-pressure ABDL social created for diaper wearers, littles and those who want a cozy space to simply be. This is an indoor picnic-style gathering where comfort, community, and playful connection come first. Whether you want to cuddle up, chat, color, snack, relax, or just spend time around people who get it, Nappy Nibbles offers a warm and easygoing space to settle in without pressure or performance. What to Expect 4:30 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 4:30 PM–7:30 PM | Indoor Picnic Social Relax, cuddle, color, chat, snack, and enjoy a soft, low-pressure ABDL space at your own pace. 7:30 PM | Social Ends But the fun doesnt have to! Stay for our ABDL BDSM party, Diaper Debauchery. Starting at 8PM. 🎟️ Click Here, to Reserve Your Ticket. The Vibe • Cozy indoor picnic atmosphere • Space for cuddling, chatting, coloring, and quiet play • Low-pressure socializing and gentle connection • Couches, pillows, and mattresses for lounging • Soft lighting and a soft, easygoing feel What to Bring BYO food, drinks, snacks, games, comfort items, etc. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator Nappy Nibbles is guided by Dan, a long-time member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, grounded, and judgment-free spaces for men’s erotic and intimate play. Dan brings: warmth gentleness emotional presence excellent consent practice clarity around boundaries and a calm, steady leadership style His facilitation helps everyone feel seen, supported, and able to explore in their own time and way. Location & Entry Instructions Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets This event is free! | Donations welcome. Will You Stay for the Play Party? 🎉 After Nappy Nibbles, we flow into Diaper Debauchery, our ABDL BDSM play party starting at 8 PM. Come for the cozy social — stay for the deeper exploration if it feels right. 🎟️ Reserve Your Entrance to Diaper Debauchery, Click Here. Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to at

ONYX Bar Night

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Calendar of Events:  https://forbiddentickets.com/events/onyxnyne ONYX is an organization that supports ethnic and racial diversity in the gay leather community. For over twenty-four years, the organization has worked to empower gay and queer men of color and our allies to find support, education and growth in a safe and sane manner. We provide education about our community, safety and history to empower men of color in our community (and the larger community) to integrate these practices into their lives without shame or judgement. Additionally, we also raise funds to support charitable organizations that focus on LGBTQIA+ people of color, HIV, and youth organizations.

Urban Bear: Bears night out

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC Business Meeting

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC meetings are where our club brothers and current pledges discuss club business and organize upcoming events. Our meetings are open to the public, and they occur the third Sunday each month at The LGBT Center in Chelsea. We encourage those interested in Excelsior MC to attend our meetings and share their perspective and interests with the brothers. To RSVP or to find more information, go to our website. Check with the concierge at The LGBT Center to find our meeting room each month.

Official BLUF NYC Monthly Social @ Eagle NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join your host Michael Jeavons (Mr Eagle NYC 2020/2021) #1320 and the men of BLUF NYC for our monthly social as we overtake the Eagle NYC!!! Show-up and Show-out for a kink, cigar and leather-filled evening with some of the hottest men in the Tri-State area. While BLUF leather is suggested for the social it is never required and everyone is always welcome!! We look forward to seeing you! No cover

Rope At RockBar

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

STI Testing at the Weds Bear Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join our Telegram channel (https://t.me/sexpartiesnyc) to be notified of STI testing dates or cancellations (rare) in a text. Arrive as early as possible to avoid wait times. -- We offer free and confidential HIV and other STI testing through Mount Sinai's Sexual Liberation Project every Wednesday from 6-9pm at our 37th St location. Sign up for the mailing list above to get dates in our weekly email. Mount Sinai does testing on site with on-the-spot results for HIV, syphilis and Hepatitis C (takes 20 minutes) and they call or email results for chlamydia and gonorrhea several days later. Testing is a resource for all men regardless of whether they pay to enter the party. The tester takes guys on a first-come, first-served basis, so arrive early to avoid wait times. Because each time slot is 20 minutes, a maximum of nine guys can be seen per party. If the party ends before 9pm, which happens sometimes, the tester will stop taking appointments early, so don't be late!

CUIR @ ANIMAL

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join with Google Meet: https://meet.google.com/epk-gmkm-sko Learn more about Meet at: https://support.google.com/a/users/answer/9282720

Fursday

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

PLAGUE MASS - a new opera

Hosted by PLAGUE MASS

PLAGUE MASS a new opera Tickets: https://www.tickettailor.com/events/countercodex/2097426 July 26th, 1985: Hollywood heartthrob and closeted gay man, ROCK HUDSON, sends a shockwave through American culture by announcing his diagnosis with Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome. From AIDS activists fighting for their lives, to movie stars in Hollywood, and politicians at the highest levels of government, there’s a marked change in how the disease is perceived. For some, there is a glimmer of hope for the first time that a cure can be found. Later, with ROCK on his deathbed, the spirit of KEITH HARING casts a spell to convene ELIZABETH TAYLOR, MATHILDE KRIM, and RONALD REAGAN so they can perform a ritual to help ROCK find peace. Created by six composers and five librettists, PLAGUE MASS explores what connects us in a time of crisis across divisions of power, class, and sexual identity. PERFORMANCES November 19, 2026 | 8:00 p.m. November 21, 2026 | 3:00 p.m. November 21, 2026 | 8:00 p.m. SPEYER HALL | UNIVERSITY SETTLEMENT | LOWER EAST SIDE FEATURING JORDAN RUTTER-COVATTO as KEITH HARING DAVEED BUZAGLO as ROCK HUDSON MELAINA MILLS as ELIZABETH TAYLOR DANIELLE BUONAIUTO as MATHILDE KRIM DANIEL KLEIN as RONALD REAGAN with music by JORDAN RUTTER-COVATTO, JASMINE GALANTE, SARAH GENEVIEVE BURGHART RICE, JOSEPH N. RUBINSTEIN, LUCAS TAHIRUZZAMAN SYED, and DEREK WEAGLE lyrics by CLARE BIERMAN, JOHNNY LLOYD, CHIARA M. N., HEATHER O'DONOVAN, and FRED SAUTER book by JORDAN RUTTER-COVATTO directed by SAM HELFRICH “Then they cried to the LORD in their trouble and He delivered them from their distress. He sent out His word and healed them; He rescued them from the grave.” Psalm 107: 20-2 SUPPORT THIS PROJECT AT COUNTERCODEX.COM/SUPPORT

Pheromone Party NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nowhere bar NYC

KnottyNY: The Gay Rope Thing

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Gear up for Knotty NY, first Tuesday and third Saturday each month! Leather, rubber, neoprene, sports kit and all other fetish wear encouraged. Come with questions and ideas for our 'catch up' social or revisit the basics with Knotty 101. Sign up at KnottyNY.com

PLAGUE MASS - a new opera

Hosted by PLAGUE MASS

PLAGUE MASS a new opera Tickets: https://www.tickettailor.com/events/countercodex/2097426 July 26th, 1985: Hollywood heartthrob and closeted gay man, ROCK HUDSON, sends a shockwave through American culture by announcing his diagnosis with Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome. From AIDS activists fighting for their lives, to movie stars in Hollywood, and politicians at the highest levels of government, there’s a marked change in how the disease is perceived. For some, there is a glimmer of hope for the first time that a cure can be found. Later, with ROCK on his deathbed, the spirit of KEITH HARING casts a spell to convene ELIZABETH TAYLOR, MATHILDE KRIM, and RONALD REAGAN so they can perform a ritual to help ROCK find peace. Created by six composers and five librettists, PLAGUE MASS explores what connects us in a time of crisis across divisions of power, class, and sexual identity. PERFORMANCES November 19, 2026 | 8:00 p.m. November 21, 2026 | 3:00 p.m. November 21, 2026 | 8:00 p.m. SPEYER HALL | UNIVERSITY SETTLEMENT | LOWER EAST SIDE FEATURING JORDAN RUTTER-COVATTO as KEITH HARING DAVEED BUZAGLO as ROCK HUDSON MELAINA MILLS as ELIZABETH TAYLOR DANIELLE BUONAIUTO as MATHILDE KRIM DANIEL KLEIN as RONALD REAGAN with music by JORDAN RUTTER-COVATTO, JASMINE GALANTE, SARAH GENEVIEVE BURGHART RICE, JOSEPH N. RUBINSTEIN, LUCAS TAHIRUZZAMAN SYED, and DEREK WEAGLE lyrics by CLARE BIERMAN, JOHNNY LLOYD, CHIARA M. N., HEATHER O'DONOVAN, and FRED SAUTER book by JORDAN RUTTER-COVATTO directed by SAM HELFRICH “Then they cried to the LORD in their trouble and He delivered them from their distress. He sent out His word and healed them; He rescued them from the grave.” Psalm 107: 20-2 SUPPORT THIS PROJECT AT COUNTERCODEX.COM/SUPPORT

Yes Sir! | A Mens BDSM Impact Play Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to Yes Sir! A Men's Only BDSM Impact Play Party Yes Sir! is a men-only BDSM impact party built for men who want a dark, erotic space for impact, tension, and kinky exploration. Impact play is the theme of the night, with room for other BDSM play as it unfolds. Expect a room where flogging, spanking, paddles, canes, whips, rough body play, sensual impact, heavier impact, bondage, restraint, and CBT can all have a place. Sex is not the focus of the party, but may happen within scenes. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, aftercare, and connecting outside of active play. What to Expect 8 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play. 9 PM | Rules + Room Opening Once the room opens, men are free to negotiate, play, and move through the space at their own pace. 1 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • Ambient lighting and expressive house music that drive the energy • Furniture designed for real use, not just atmosphere (Benches, suspension points, spanking benches, massage tables, wall space, kneeling benches, stocks, and more) • A dark, erotic environment where impact, tension, and desire build side by side • Space for scenes to unfold with intensity, creativity, and control What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, lube etc A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Dress Code Dress for the energy of the party. Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome. Nudity is allowed throughout the space. If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately. Meet Your Facilitators Yes Sir! is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care support a wide range of impact and BDSM exploration. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $30 Members, $40 General Admission, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2) 🎟 Reserve Your Space Today, Click Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend YES SIR!. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [<a href="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://kinkcollective.net/membership-1&sa=D&source=calendar&us

PLAGUE MASS - a new opera

Hosted by PLAGUE MASS

PLAGUE MASS a new opera Tickets: https://www.tickettailor.com/events/countercodex/2097426 July 26th, 1985: Hollywood heartthrob and closeted gay man, ROCK HUDSON, sends a shockwave through American culture by announcing his diagnosis with Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome. From AIDS activists fighting for their lives, to movie stars in Hollywood, and politicians at the highest levels of government, there’s a marked change in how the disease is perceived. For some, there is a glimmer of hope for the first time that a cure can be found. Later, with ROCK on his deathbed, the spirit of KEITH HARING casts a spell to convene ELIZABETH TAYLOR, MATHILDE KRIM, and RONALD REAGAN so they can perform a ritual to help ROCK find peace. Created by six composers and five librettists, PLAGUE MASS explores what connects us in a time of crisis across divisions of power, class, and sexual identity. PERFORMANCES November 19, 2026 | 8:00 p.m. November 21, 2026 | 3:00 p.m. November 21, 2026 | 8:00 p.m. SPEYER HALL | UNIVERSITY SETTLEMENT | LOWER EAST SIDE FEATURING JORDAN RUTTER-COVATTO as KEITH HARING DAVEED BUZAGLO as ROCK HUDSON MELAINA MILLS as ELIZABETH TAYLOR DANIELLE BUONAIUTO as MATHILDE KRIM DANIEL KLEIN as RONALD REAGAN with music by JORDAN RUTTER-COVATTO, JASMINE GALANTE, SARAH GENEVIEVE BURGHART RICE, JOSEPH N. RUBINSTEIN, LUCAS TAHIRUZZAMAN SYED, and DEREK WEAGLE lyrics by CLARE BIERMAN, JOHNNY LLOYD, CHIARA M. N., HEATHER O'DONOVAN, and FRED SAUTER book by JORDAN RUTTER-COVATTO directed by SAM HELFRICH “Then they cried to the LORD in their trouble and He delivered them from their distress. He sent out His word and healed them; He rescued them from the grave.” Psalm 107: 20-2 SUPPORT THIS PROJECT AT COUNTERCODEX.COM/SUPPORT

Urban Bear: Bears night out

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC Business Meeting

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC meetings are where our club brothers and current pledges discuss club business and organize upcoming events. Our meetings are open to the public, and they occur the third Sunday each month at The LGBT Center in Chelsea. We encourage those interested in Excelsior MC to attend our meetings and share their perspective and interests with the brothers. To RSVP or to find more information, go to our website. Check with the concierge at The LGBT Center to find our meeting room each month.

KrINKles - Call The Babysitter | Movie and Cuddle Social

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to Call The Babysitter! A light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering... Call the Babysitter is a light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering for those who want a cozy space to relax, connect, and explore. This is a room where diapers, comfort, playful energy, and community come together in a welcoming environment built on kindness, consent, and care. Whether you arrive to cuddle, socialize, watch a movie, enjoy the comfort of sporting "little gear", or share playful connection with others, this is a space designed to help people settle in, feel at ease, and enjoy themselves at their own pace. What to Expect 7 PM | Doors Open The room opens organically. People often start socializing and connecting soon after arrival. 7:45 PM Brief Opening + Rules Check-In Once the room has settled, we pause briefly to go over intentions and house rules. 8 PM Movies Begin Cuddle, socialize, enjoy little gear, and connect in a soft, relaxing environment. 12 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • A cozy, diaper-centered atmosphere for community, comfort, and light exploration • Space to relax, socialize, cuddle, and connect • A changing table set up for diaper wearers What to Bring Diapers, pillow, change of clothes and any comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Facilitator This container is guided by Dan, a seasoned member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, welcoming spaces for erotic and playful exploration. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection while helping people feel comfortable and free to explore at their own pace. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Intstructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) ⬇️ 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend Call the Babysitter Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

Rope At RockBar

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

T4T Rope Night?

Hosted by Coil & Cord

Info & Tickets: https://www.simpletix.com/e/t4t-rope-night-tickets-260589 Join with Google Meet: https://meet.google.com/woz-ifun-vgp Or dial: (US) +1 219-213-6154 PIN: 217241709# More phone numbers: https://tel.meet/woz-ifun-vgp?pin=6533840079193&hs=7 Learn more about Meet at: https://support.google.com/a/users/answer/9282720

Fursday

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Pheromone Party NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nowhere bar NYC

Cigar Social NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join your host, Brent, every 2nd and 4th Friday of the month for an evening of ‘gars, men and leather! The event is BYOB. The venue provides glasses and ice. www.cigarsocialnyc.com

PERV! Kink Party for Weirdos

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

𝗣𝗘𝗥𝗩 💦 a kink party for weirdos hosted by Peter Cage @cloughagunga Pup Roger @pup_roger Friday, Feb 28, 10pm Rockbar @rockbarnyc Last Friday every month! $10 cover Clothes check available Plastic wrap bondage demos Wedgies P*ss boy Questionable choices Dress: slut gear demented drag leather rubber pup hood chastity cage panties diaper cum-soaked jock fur suit your roommate’s dirty socks cuck chair clown nose saran wrap wet toilet paper

STING NYC | A M/M Spanking Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to STING NYC! A Spanking Party for Men STING NYC is a relaxed, men-only spanking party built for men who want space to give, receive, trade, watch, learn, and explore spanking in all its forms. Whether you are brand new or deeply experienced, STING NYC offers a playful, open environment where men can connect through impact, discipline, technique, erotic tension, and shared desire. From the sharp snap of a belt to the satisfying smack of a hand, this is a room for men who know that a good spanking can be playful, connective, intense, and deeply satisfying. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, aftercare, and connection outside of active play. What to Expect 1 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 1:45–2 PM | Arrival + Connection Meet others, go over the house rules, and set the tone before play begins. 2 PM | Play Room Opens For negotiated spanking, impact, watching, learning, connection, and exploration at your own pace. 6 PM | Party Ends The Vibe • A men-only space centered around spanking and impact • A relaxed, social, and erotic afternoon atmosphere • 12+ spanking stations and an open layout • Stations including a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking bench, kneeling benches, massage tables, and room for creative positioning • A separate social area for aftercare, downtime, snacks, and conversation What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator This event is led by Dan, a long-standing member of the spanking community and a trusted facilitator within The Kink Collective. Dan brings his passion for spanking and his easygoing style to create a space that feels safe, playful, and welcoming to all men in attendance. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend STING NYC. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

Urban Bear: Bears night out

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC Business Meeting

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC meetings are where our club brothers and current pledges discuss club business and organize upcoming events. Our meetings are open to the public, and they occur the third Sunday each month at The LGBT Center in Chelsea. We encourage those interested in Excelsior MC to attend our meetings and share their perspective and interests with the brothers. To RSVP or to find more information, go to our website. Check with the concierge at The LGBT Center to find our meeting room each month.

Rope At RockBar

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

DIAPER HAPPY HOUR presented by NYC ABDL

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Event Deets: 📅 Date: Tuesday, September 5th ⏰ Time: 7:00 PM - 10:00 PM (or whenever the party winds down) 📍 Location: Rockbar, 185 Christopher Street 💰 Suggested Donation: $5.00 (because good times are priceless!) Why You Absolutely Need to Be There: - 💃 Our fantastic bar staff will be serving up fun and drinks all night. Be sure to tip them like the superheroes they are! - 🤩 Drama? Not here, buddy! Our space is a drama-free zone. It's all about good vibes, epic conversations, and maybe even making lifelong friends. - 📸 Capture memories, but hey, ask before you snap! We're all about respecting each other's privacy. - 🧥 Coat check? Nah, you're in charge of your gear, but we trust you to keep it fabulous. - 🤗 Hugs and cuddles (fully clothed, of course) are on the menu – spread the love! - 🍑 Changing station's the only spot for nudies – let's keep the rest of the party PG, folks! - 💩 Keep those messy diapers at home – we're all about a clean and cozy vibe. - 🚫 Tantrum? No way, Jose! Bullying? Absolutely not! Let's keep things as light as a diaper breeze. **Sponsored By:** 🌟 AB Universe 🌈 Lil Comfort 🚼 Tykables 🐻 Onesies Downunder The Grand Finale: Get ready to win some epic raffle prizes – because who doesn't love surprises that make you grin like a toddler in a candy store? So grab your calendars, set a reminder, and get ready to make a splash (hopefully not too literal) at Diaper Happy Hour! This isn't just an event – it's a chance to celebrate your unique interests in an open, warm, and friendly space. Remember, the power of the diaper compels you – and by "power," we mean the power of connection, acceptance, and having a blast! IG: nycabdl

KnottyNY: The Gay Rope Thing

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Gear up for Knotty NY, first Tuesday and third Saturday each month! Leather, rubber, neoprene, sports kit and all other fetish wear encouraged. Come with questions and ideas for our 'catch up' social or revisit the basics with Knotty 101. Sign up at KnottyNY.com

STI Testing at the Weds Bear Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join our Telegram channel (https://t.me/sexpartiesnyc) to be notified of STI testing dates or cancellations (rare) in a text. Arrive as early as possible to avoid wait times. -- We offer free and confidential HIV and other STI testing through Mount Sinai's Sexual Liberation Project every Wednesday from 6-9pm at our 37th St location. Sign up for the mailing list above to get dates in our weekly email. Mount Sinai does testing on site with on-the-spot results for HIV, syphilis and Hepatitis C (takes 20 minutes) and they call or email results for chlamydia and gonorrhea several days later. Testing is a resource for all men regardless of whether they pay to enter the party. The tester takes guys on a first-come, first-served basis, so arrive early to avoid wait times. Because each time slot is 20 minutes, a maximum of nine guys can be seen per party. If the party ends before 9pm, which happens sometimes, the tester will stop taking appointments early, so don't be late!

Fursday

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Pheromone Party NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nowhere bar NYC

Jockstrap Happy Hour by Q Darkqwolf

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

NEW TIME -- DOOR FROM 7-930p! $10 donation at the door plus 100% of the proceeds raised goes right into the pockets of community LGBTQ nonprofit orgs. #TakeItOffGiveItBack#ShowUsYourSupport

BOUND NYC: A Rope Bondage Party for Queer Men

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to Bound NYC... A rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just a practice space. BOUND NYC is a rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just practice space. This is a room where bondage through rope is at the center, full scenes are encouraged, and play can extend into impact, sensation, bondage, and other forms of consensual exploration. Whether you come with a partner or attend solo, BOUND offers a warm, social, erotic, and play-minded environment for men who want to tie, connect, negotiate, and engage. This is not a class-based event. Light peer guidance and basic instruction may happen naturallyin the room, but the focus is on self-led play and scenes. Pick-up play is welcome, with attendees expected to negotiate for themselves. The Kink Collective’s MITPISA negotiation forms will be available to support clearer pre-scene communication and pickup play negotiation. What to Expect 7:00 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, connect, warm-up... Tie casually, if you'd like. 8:00 PM | Rules & Consent Agreements We gather briefly to review the rules, agreements and flow of the night. 8:15 PM | Rope and Scenes Open Once the room opens, attendees are free to tie, negotiate, play, and explore at their own pace. The Vibe • A warm, social, rope-forward atmosphere • Energetic beats and lighting set to support the room • Space for floor rope, with mats available • 2 suspension points and 1 suspension rig • Furnished with a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, tieable benches, and floor beds What to Bring Rope & Safety shears, implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No drugs. Meet Your Faciliatators BOUND is held by The Kink Collective facilitators and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care come first, and where exploration is supported rather than pushed. Location and Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $30 Member’s Ticket | $40 Solo Ticket | $60 Partner's (2 Tickets) 🎟 Get Your Advance Tickets, Here. OR pay at the door via Cash, Venmo, PayPal, Zelle, or CashApp Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend BOUND. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets, access to additional discounted in-person events, and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

Excelsior MC’s Trim-A-Tree Celebration

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

TRIM-A-TREE 2026 A Holiday Celebration of Leather, Laughter & Giving Back Celebrate and honor the leather clubs and communities from across the region as we come together for our annual Trim-a-Tree fundraising event! This year marks another milestone of holiday cheer, brotherhood, and community spirit—so come ready to jingle your bells and spread some festive mischief! https://linktr.ee/excelsiormc Details of the evening to be announced.

Manhole in Park Slope, Brooklyn (sign up at manholenyc.com for address)

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

A fisting party for experienced players and novices alike. Sign up at manholenyc.com for more info.

Urban Bear: Bears night out

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Eagle NYC Club Night

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Leather/Fetish Clubs of the world...this is your night!!! Join host Michael Jeavons, Mr Eagle NYC 2020/2021 and Eagle NYC for one very special night each month dedicated to the many local, regional, national and worldwide leather/fetish clubs who serve and enrich the Community. Gear-up, come out, help us make a scene and join in the mayhem! ** Club Members (past/present) wearing their Colors will receive waived admission fee.

Excelsior MC Business Meeting

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC meetings are where our club brothers and current pledges discuss club business and organize upcoming events. Our meetings are open to the public, and they occur the third Sunday each month at The LGBT Center in Chelsea. We encourage those interested in Excelsior MC to attend our meetings and share their perspective and interests with the brothers. To RSVP or to find more information, go to our website. Check with the concierge at The LGBT Center to find our meeting room each month.

Rope At RockBar

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

LOCKED: Chastity Social

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join host Peter Cage for a gathering of locked guys, keyholders, and anyone into chastity. You do not need to have experience or to be locked up to attend! All are welcome. Rockbar, 7pm Second Tuesday every month No cover Clothes check available Cage check for a free shot!!! ***Monthly from 7pm to 11:30pm on the second Tuesday (Eastern Time - New York)

Fursday

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Pheromone Party NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nowhere bar NYC

Surrender: Wrestling and Electro (Blacklight Party + Electro Wrestling Workshop)

Hosted by theDommeKat

NYC's kinkiest queer wrestling party is back in neon with BLACKLIGHT WRESTLING. Grapple, watch, cuddle, explore -- whatever you came for, come as you are — leave sweaty, smiling and maybe just a little shocked and surprised! bit.ly/SurrenderElectroNYC Friday, Dec. 11, 2026 6:00–11:30 p.m. 📍 NYC near Union Square (address sent with registration) ⚠️ Accessibility note: 3rd floor walk-up What to Expect 💥 Open Mat Wrestling Pins, pro-style, grappling, submission, BJJ, rope wrestling, tickle fights, fantasy — you call it. Newbies and wrestling-curious folks are very welcome. A wrestling partner is not guaranteed, but the mats have a way of bringing people together. Show up curious and see what happens. 🛡️ Consent & Safety Referees on the mats. LED-armband consent monitors easy to spot if you need support. Color wristbands so everyone knows who's open to play and who prefers not to be approached. Photos and video only in the designated corner — the rest of the space is phone-free. We practice **RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)** — please check in with yourself before you dive in. Wrestling carries real physical risk, so participate at your own pace and within your own risk profile. 🛍️ More to Love Vendors, snacks, a cuddle-friendly 420 smoke lounge and plenty of good humans to meet. 🎟️ Tickets Prices increase as tiers sell out — early is cheaper. - Workshop + Party tickets are the standard ticket and include both. - Workshop-only and party-only tickets also available. - Door tickets: $80 (register online for the address and full info) - All online sales close Sept. 25 at midnight. - No refunds.* No discounts at the door. - Pay-What-You-Can tickets are available for SWs and queer/transgender people of color or financial hardship. Email theDommeKat@gmail.com for the code. (Limited availability — donations unlock more.) - Can't swing the cost? Email theDommeKat@gmail.com about volunteer opportunities — community references preferred. Volunteer position is not guaranteed.

Cigar Social NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join your host, Brent, every 2nd and 4th Friday of the month for an evening of ‘gars, men and leather! The event is BYOB. The venue provides glasses and ice. Www.cigarsocialnyc.com

KrINKles - Nappy Nibbles Social | An Free Indoor Picnic for ABDLs, Diaper Wearers, and Littles.

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to Nappy Nibbles! A free, cozy indoor picnic for ABDL's, Diaper Wearers, and Littles Nappy Nibbles is a soft, relaxed, low-pressure ABDL social created for diaper wearers, littles and those who want a cozy space to simply be. This is an indoor picnic-style gathering where comfort, community, and playful connection come first. Whether you want to cuddle up, chat, color, snack, relax, or just spend time around people who get it, Nappy Nibbles offers a warm and easygoing space to settle in without pressure or performance. What to Expect 4:30 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 4:30 PM–7:30 PM | Indoor Picnic Social Relax, cuddle, color, chat, snack, and enjoy a soft, low-pressure ABDL space at your own pace. 7:30 PM | Social Ends But the fun doesnt have to! Stay for our ABDL BDSM party, Diaper Debauchery. Starting at 8PM. 🎟️ Click Here, to Reserve Your Ticket. The Vibe • Cozy indoor picnic atmosphere • Space for cuddling, chatting, coloring, and quiet play • Low-pressure socializing and gentle connection • Couches, pillows, and mattresses for lounging • Soft lighting and a soft, easygoing feel What to Bring BYO food, drinks, snacks, games, comfort items, etc. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator Nappy Nibbles is guided by Dan, a long-time member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, grounded, and judgment-free spaces for men’s erotic and intimate play. Dan brings: warmth gentleness emotional presence excellent consent practice clarity around boundaries and a calm, steady leadership style His facilitation helps everyone feel seen, supported, and able to explore in their own time and way. Location & Entry Instructions Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets This event is free! | Donations welcome. Will You Stay for the Play Party? 🎉 After Nappy Nibbles, we flow into Diaper Debauchery, our ABDL BDSM play party starting at 8 PM. Come for the cozy social — stay for the deeper exploration if it feels right. 🎟️ Reserve Your Entrance to Diaper Debauchery, Click Here. Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to at

ONYX Bar Night

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Calendar of Events:  https://forbiddentickets.com/events/onyxnyne ONYX is an organization that supports ethnic and racial diversity in the gay leather community. For over twenty-four years, the organization has worked to empower gay and queer men of color and our allies to find support, education and growth in a safe and sane manner. We provide education about our community, safety and history to empower men of color in our community (and the larger community) to integrate these practices into their lives without shame or judgement. Additionally, we also raise funds to support charitable organizations that focus on LGBTQIA+ people of color, HIV, and youth organizations.

KrINKles - Diaper Debauchery | A diapers and kink play party for diapered expression, connection, and play.

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to Diaper Debauchery... This is a party where you can show up exactly as you are—diapered, kinky, and free. About This Event Diaper Debauchery is a kinky queer diaper community night where you can show up exactly as you are — diapered, curious, kinky, and playful. Hosted as part of The Sanctuary Sessions, this is a queer-friendly space where ABDL and kink can coexist without judgment. It is a place for diapered expression, kinky exploration, and real community, with consent at the center of it all. The night may include diaper play, impact, bondage, group play, insertables, voyeurism, cuddling, and aftercare. Some nights are more social, some more playful, and some more erotic, but the purpose stays the same: to give people space to express their kinks with their diapers in a room built on openness, respect, and freedom. While this is not a sex party, consensual erotic play may naturally unfold. Nothing is assumed, no one is owed access, and watching does not equal participation. What to expect  8:00 PM | Doors Open The room begins organically. People often start socializing, exploring, and connecting soon after arrival. 9:00PM Brief check in & Rules Once the room has settled, we pause briefly to go over house rules. Then the party continues naturally and the rest of the night is open for connection, play, exploration, and expression at your own pace. 1AM Party Ends The Vibe  • Separate social, cuddle, and play areas • Soft lighting and immersive music to support the energy, mood, and pacing of the room. • Furnished stations for impact, restraint, and intimate exploration (St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, sex bench, and more) What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. Diapers, outfits, buzzes, and more A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No drugs. Your Facilitator 🤸🏼‍♂️ This container is guided by Dan, a seasoned member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, welcoming spaces for queer erotic play. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection while making room for a wide range of expression. Location + Entry The Sanctuary of East Harlem 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $20 Member's Ticket | $30 Solo | $50 Couples For Advanced tickets, Click HERE. Tickets at the door (cash, Venmo, Cashapp, Zelle and PayPal) Diaper Debauchery is one of the only parties where ABDL and kink coexist freely. Come curious, come playful, come as you are. Leave connected. Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend Diaper Debauchery. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

Urban Bear: Bears night out

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC Business Meeting

Hosted by Excelsior MC

Excelsior MC meetings are where our club brothers and current pledges discuss club business and organize upcoming events. Our meetings are open to the public, and they occur the third Sunday each month at The LGBT Center in Chelsea. We encourage those interested in Excelsior MC to attend our meetings and share their perspective and interests with the brothers. To RSVP or to find more information, go to our website. Check with the concierge at The LGBT Center to find our meeting room each month.

Into? Hosted by Cadet Kelley and Champ Phoenix

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to 'INTO?' a monthly Gear Social, queer cruising and viewing party.  'INTO?' aims to acknowledge and re-examine bar code nights and BLUF on social, economic and ethnographic levels.   For many, wearing "full cow" proper leathers are impossibility (...saving $200?month for a pair of pants or paying a cell-phone bill...) = and spending thousands of dollars on leather can be extremely alienating.   This disparity gap also creates echo-chambers of wealth and privilege.  How can our beautiful patchwork quilt of communities be accurately represented if they can't afford to get in the door?   IG:  CadetKelley IG:  ChampLeatherPup

Corrossion NYC | A Men's Only BDSM & Sex Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to Corrosion NYC! A Men's Only BDSM Sex Party CORROSION NYC is a men-only BDSM and sex party built for men who want space for real play, real connection, and real sexual freedom. Some come for BDSM, some come for sex, and some come for both. The room is designed to let all of that happen naturally, with consent, respect, and clear boundaries at the center. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, and connecting outside of active play. Socializing happens there. BDSM and sexual activity happen in the designated play areas. This is not a social with furniture in the background. The play spaces are meant to be used. Expect a setup designed for both BDSM and sex, with floor beds, benches, a sling, suspension points, spanking benches, a St. Andrew’s Cross, and more. What to Expect 7 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play. 8 PM | Open BDSM + Sex Party Negotiate, play, hook up, connect, and move between social and active spaces at your own pace. 12 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • Soft lighting and immersive music to support the energy, mood, and pacing of the room. • Furnished stations for impact, restraint, and intimate exploration (St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, sex bench, and more) • A dark, masculine, sexually charged environment What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, lube etc A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. CORROSION Dress Code Dress for the energy of the party. Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome. Nudity is allowed throughout the space. If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately. Meet Your Facilitators CORROSION is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink. In this room, that means connection before climax, with consent, respect, and clear boundaries leading the way. Event Details Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $30 Members, $40 Solo, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2) 🎟 Reserve Your Ticket Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend CORROSION. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

Rope At RockBar

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

STI Testing at the Weds Bear Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join our Telegram channel (https://t.me/sexpartiesnyc) to be notified of STI testing dates or cancellations (rare) in a text. Arrive as early as possible to avoid wait times. -- We offer free and confidential HIV and other STI testing through Mount Sinai's Sexual Liberation Project every Wednesday from 6-9pm at our 37th St location. Sign up for the mailing list above to get dates in our weekly email. Mount Sinai does testing on site with on-the-spot results for HIV, syphilis and Hepatitis C (takes 20 minutes) and they call or email results for chlamydia and gonorrhea several days later. Testing is a resource for all men regardless of whether they pay to enter the party. The tester takes guys on a first-come, first-served basis, so arrive early to avoid wait times. Because each time slot is 20 minutes, a maximum of nine guys can be seen per party. If the party ends before 9pm, which happens sometimes, the tester will stop taking appointments early, so don't be late!

CUIR @ ANIMAL

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join with Google Meet: https://meet.google.com/giu-xwib-wfh Learn more about Meet at: https://support.google.com/a/users/answer/9282720

Fursday

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Pheromone Party NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nowhere bar NYC

KnottyNY: The Gay Rope Thing

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Gear up for Knotty NY, first Tuesday and third Saturday each month! Leather, rubber, neoprene, sports kit and all other fetish wear encouraged. Come with questions and ideas for our 'catch up' social or revisit the basics with Knotty 101. Sign up at KnottyNY.com

Yes Sir! | A Mens BDSM Impact Play Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to Yes Sir! A Men's Only BDSM Impact Play Party Yes Sir! is a men-only BDSM impact party built for men who want a dark, erotic space for impact, tension, and kinky exploration. Impact play is the theme of the night, with room for other BDSM play as it unfolds. Expect a room where flogging, spanking, paddles, canes, whips, rough body play, sensual impact, heavier impact, bondage, restraint, and CBT can all have a place. Sex is not the focus of the party, but may happen within scenes. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, aftercare, and connecting outside of active play. What to Expect 8 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play. 9 PM | Rules + Room Opening Once the room opens, men are free to negotiate, play, and move through the space at their own pace. 1 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • Ambient lighting and expressive house music that drive the energy • Furniture designed for real use, not just atmosphere (Benches, suspension points, spanking benches, massage tables, wall space, kneeling benches, stocks, and more) • A dark, erotic environment where impact, tension, and desire build side by side • Space for scenes to unfold with intensity, creativity, and control What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, lube etc A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Dress Code Dress for the energy of the party. Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome. Nudity is allowed throughout the space. If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately. Meet Your Facilitators Yes Sir! is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care support a wide range of impact and BDSM exploration. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $30 Members, $40 General Admission, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2) 🎟 Reserve Your Space Today, Click Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend YES SIR!. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [<a href="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://kinkcollective.net/membership-1&sa=D&source=calendar&us

Urban Bear: Bears night out

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Manhole in Park Slope, Brooklyn (sign up at manholenyc.com for address)

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Manhole is a fisting party for experienced players and novices alike. Sign up at manholenyc.com for more info.

Excelsior MC Business Meeting

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC meetings are where our club brothers and current pledges discuss club business and organize upcoming events. Our meetings are open to the public, and they occur the third Sunday each month at The LGBT Center in Chelsea. We encourage those interested in Excelsior MC to attend our meetings and share their perspective and interests with the brothers. To RSVP or to find more information, go to our website. Check with the concierge at The LGBT Center to find our meeting room each month.

Official BLUF NYC Monthly Social @ Eagle NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join your host Michael Jeavons (Mr Eagle NYC 2020/2021) #1320 and the men of BLUF NYC for our monthly social as we overtake the Eagle NYC!!! Show-up and Show-out for a kink, cigar and leather-filled evening with some of the hottest men in the Tri-State area. While BLUF leather is suggested for the social it is never required and everyone is always welcome!! We look forward to seeing you! No cover

Rope At RockBar

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Fursday

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Pheromone Party NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nowhere bar NYC

THE LITTLEZ PARTY

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join with Google Meet: https://meet.google.com/kaj-epms-wmg Or dial: (US) +1 727-325-2334 PIN: 411362141# More phone numbers: https://tel.meet/kaj-epms-wmg?pin=9675429636688&hs=7 Learn more about Meet at: https://support.google.com/a/users/answer/9282720

Cigar Social NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join your host, Brent, every 2nd and 4th Friday of the month for an evening of ‘gars, men and leather! The event is BYOB. The venue provides glasses and ice. www.cigarsocialnyc.com

PERV! Kink Party for Weirdos

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

𝗣𝗘𝗥𝗩 💦 a kink party for weirdos hosted by Peter Cage @cloughagunga Pup Roger @pup_roger Friday, Feb 28, 10pm Rockbar @rockbarnyc Last Friday every month! $10 cover Clothes check available Plastic wrap bondage demos Wedgies P*ss boy Questionable choices Dress: slut gear demented drag leather rubber pup hood chastity cage panties diaper cum-soaked jock fur suit your roommate’s dirty socks cuck chair clown nose saran wrap wet toilet paper

STING NYC | A M/M Spanking Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to STING NYC! A Spanking Party for Men STING NYC is a relaxed, men-only spanking party built for men who want space to give, receive, trade, watch, learn, and explore spanking in all its forms. Whether you are brand new or deeply experienced, STING NYC offers a playful, open environment where men can connect through impact, discipline, technique, erotic tension, and shared desire. From the sharp snap of a belt to the satisfying smack of a hand, this is a room for men who know that a good spanking can be playful, connective, intense, and deeply satisfying. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, aftercare, and connection outside of active play. What to Expect 1 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 1:45–2 PM | Arrival + Connection Meet others, go over the house rules, and set the tone before play begins. 2 PM | Play Room Opens For negotiated spanking, impact, watching, learning, connection, and exploration at your own pace. 6 PM | Party Ends The Vibe • A men-only space centered around spanking and impact • A relaxed, social, and erotic afternoon atmosphere • 12+ spanking stations and an open layout • Stations including a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking bench, kneeling benches, massage tables, and room for creative positioning • A separate social area for aftercare, downtime, snacks, and conversation What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator This event is led by Dan, a long-standing member of the spanking community and a trusted facilitator within The Kink Collective. Dan brings his passion for spanking and his easygoing style to create a space that feels safe, playful, and welcoming to all men in attendance. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend STING NYC. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

Urban Bear: Bears night out

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC Business Meeting

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC meetings are where our club brothers and current pledges discuss club business and organize upcoming events. Our meetings are open to the public, and they occur the third Sunday each month at The LGBT Center in Chelsea. We encourage those interested in Excelsior MC to attend our meetings and share their perspective and interests with the brothers. To RSVP or to find more information, go to our website. Check with the concierge at The LGBT Center to find our meeting room each month.

KrINKles - Call The Babysitter | Movie and Cuddle Social

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to Call The Babysitter! A light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering... Call the Babysitter is a light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering for those who want a cozy space to relax, connect, and explore. This is a room where diapers, comfort, playful energy, and community come together in a welcoming environment built on kindness, consent, and care. Whether you arrive to cuddle, socialize, watch a movie, enjoy the comfort of sporting "little gear", or share playful connection with others, this is a space designed to help people settle in, feel at ease, and enjoy themselves at their own pace. What to Expect 7 PM | Doors Open The room opens organically. People often start socializing and connecting soon after arrival. 7:45 PM Brief Opening + Rules Check-In Once the room has settled, we pause briefly to go over intentions and house rules. 8 PM Movies Begin Cuddle, socialize, enjoy little gear, and connect in a soft, relaxing environment. 12 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • A cozy, diaper-centered atmosphere for community, comfort, and light exploration • Space to relax, socialize, cuddle, and connect • A changing table set up for diaper wearers What to Bring Diapers, pillow, change of clothes and any comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Facilitator This container is guided by Dan, a seasoned member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, welcoming spaces for erotic and playful exploration. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection while helping people feel comfortable and free to explore at their own pace. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Intstructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) ⬇️ 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend Call the Babysitter Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

Rope At RockBar

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Fursday

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Pheromone Party NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nowhere bar NYC

BOUND NYC: A Rope Bondage Party for Queer Men

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to Bound NYC... A rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just a practice space. BOUND NYC is a rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just practice space. This is a room where bondage through rope is at the center, full scenes are encouraged, and play can extend into impact, sensation, bondage, and other forms of consensual exploration. Whether you come with a partner or attend solo, BOUND offers a warm, social, erotic, and play-minded environment for men who want to tie, connect, negotiate, and engage. This is not a class-based event. Light peer guidance and basic instruction may happen naturallyin the room, but the focus is on self-led play and scenes. Pick-up play is welcome, with attendees expected to negotiate for themselves. The Kink Collective’s MITPISA negotiation forms will be available to support clearer pre-scene communication and pickup play negotiation. What to Expect 7:00 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, connect, warm-up... Tie casually, if you'd like. 8:00 PM | Rules & Consent Agreements We gather briefly to review the rules, agreements and flow of the night. 8:15 PM | Rope and Scenes Open Once the room opens, attendees are free to tie, negotiate, play, and explore at their own pace. The Vibe • A warm, social, rope-forward atmosphere • Energetic beats and lighting set to support the room • Space for floor rope, with mats available • 2 suspension points and 1 suspension rig • Furnished with a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, tieable benches, and floor beds What to Bring Rope & Safety shears, implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No drugs. Meet Your Faciliatators BOUND is held by The Kink Collective facilitators and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care come first, and where exploration is supported rather than pushed. Location and Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $30 Member’s Ticket | $40 Solo Ticket | $60 Partner's (2 Tickets) 🎟 Get Your Advance Tickets, Here. OR pay at the door via Cash, Venmo, PayPal, Zelle, or CashApp Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend BOUND. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets, access to additional discounted in-person events, and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

Jockstrap Happy Hour by Q Darkqwolf

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

NEW TIME -- DOOR FROM 7-930p! $10 donation at the door plus 100% of the proceeds raised goes right into the pockets of community LGBTQ nonprofit orgs. #TakeItOffGiveItBack#ShowUsYourSupport

Excelsior MC Bar Night

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Come join the brothers of Excelsior MC for our monthly bar night! For anyone interested in the Leather community or meeting the brothers and current pledges, our bar nights are a casual social environment for discussion, sharing of ideas, and brotherhood. Our bar nights rotate to a different gay bar New York City each month to increase the visibility of Excelsior MC and the Leather Community at large. We look forward to seeing you there! https://linktr.ee/excelsiormc Leather/Gear is encouraged but not required. Come as you are!

Manhole in Park Slope, Brooklyn (sign up at manholenyc.com for address)

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

A fisting party for experienced players and novices alike. Sign up at manholenyc.com for more info.

Urban Bear: Bears night out

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Eagle NYC Club Night

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Leather/Fetish Clubs of the world...this is your night!!! Join host Michael Jeavons, Mr Eagle NYC 2020/2021 and Eagle NYC for one very special night each month dedicated to the many local, regional, national and worldwide leather/fetish clubs who serve and enrich the Community. Gear-up, come out, help us make a scene and join in the mayhem! ** Club Members (past/present) wearing their Colors will receive waived admission fee.

Excelsior MC Business Meeting

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Excelsior MC meetings are where our club brothers and current pledges discuss club business and organize upcoming events. Our meetings are open to the public, and they occur the third Sunday each month at The LGBT Center in Chelsea. We encourage those interested in Excelsior MC to attend our meetings and share their perspective and interests with the brothers. To RSVP or to find more information, go to our website. Check with the concierge at The LGBT Center to find our meeting room each month.

Rope At RockBar

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

DIAPER HAPPY HOUR presented by NYC ABDL

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Event Deets: 📅 Date: Tuesday, September 5th ⏰ Time: 7:00 PM - 10:00 PM (or whenever the party winds down) 📍 Location: Rockbar, 185 Christopher Street 💰 Suggested Donation: $5.00 (because good times are priceless!) Why You Absolutely Need to Be There: - 💃 Our fantastic bar staff will be serving up fun and drinks all night. Be sure to tip them like the superheroes they are! - 🤩 Drama? Not here, buddy! Our space is a drama-free zone. It's all about good vibes, epic conversations, and maybe even making lifelong friends. - 📸 Capture memories, but hey, ask before you snap! We're all about respecting each other's privacy. - 🧥 Coat check? Nah, you're in charge of your gear, but we trust you to keep it fabulous. - 🤗 Hugs and cuddles (fully clothed, of course) are on the menu – spread the love! - 🍑 Changing station's the only spot for nudies – let's keep the rest of the party PG, folks! - 💩 Keep those messy diapers at home – we're all about a clean and cozy vibe. - 🚫 Tantrum? No way, Jose! Bullying? Absolutely not! Let's keep things as light as a diaper breeze. **Sponsored By:** 🌟 AB Universe 🌈 Lil Comfort 🚼 Tykables 🐻 Onesies Downunder The Grand Finale: Get ready to win some epic raffle prizes – because who doesn't love surprises that make you grin like a toddler in a candy store? So grab your calendars, set a reminder, and get ready to make a splash (hopefully not too literal) at Diaper Happy Hour! This isn't just an event – it's a chance to celebrate your unique interests in an open, warm, and friendly space. Remember, the power of the diaper compels you – and by "power," we mean the power of connection, acceptance, and having a blast! IG: nycabdl

KnottyNY: The Gay Rope Thing

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Gear up for Knotty NY, first Tuesday and third Saturday each month! Leather, rubber, neoprene, sports kit and all other fetish wear encouraged. Come with questions and ideas for our 'catch up' social or revisit the basics with Knotty 101. Sign up at KnottyNY.com

STI Testing at the Weds Bear Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join our Telegram channel (https://t.me/sexpartiesnyc) to be notified of STI testing dates or cancellations (rare) in a text. Arrive as early as possible to avoid wait times. -- We offer free and confidential HIV and other STI testing through Mount Sinai's Sexual Liberation Project every Wednesday from 6-9pm at our 37th St location. Sign up for the mailing list above to get dates in our weekly email. Mount Sinai does testing on site with on-the-spot results for HIV, syphilis and Hepatitis C (takes 20 minutes) and they call or email results for chlamydia and gonorrhea several days later. Testing is a resource for all men regardless of whether they pay to enter the party. The tester takes guys on a first-come, first-served basis, so arrive early to avoid wait times. Because each time slot is 20 minutes, a maximum of nine guys can be seen per party. If the party ends before 9pm, which happens sometimes, the tester will stop taking appointments early, so don't be late!

Fursday

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Pheromone Party NYC

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nowhere bar NYC

Cigar Social NYC

Hosted by Brent

Join your host, Brent, every 2nd and 4th Friday of the month for an evening of ‘gars, men and leather! The event is BYOB. The venue provides glasses and ice. Www.cigarsocialnyc.com

MAL: Mid-Atlantic Leather Weekend - Washington DC

Hosted by Centaurs

www.leatherweekend.com

NYC ABDL: UPTOWN MUNCH

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Join with Google Meet: https://meet.google.com/qnn-okgi-kwi Or dial: (US) +1 260-226-6232 PIN: 916830968# More phone numbers: https://tel.meet/qnn-okgi-kwi?pin=6611516862450&hs=7 Learn more about Meet at: https://support.google.com/a/users/answer/9282720

KrINKles - Nappy Nibbles Social | An Free Indoor Picnic for ABDLs, Diaper Wearers, and Littles.

Hosted by The Kink Collective

Welcome to Nappy Nibbles! A free, cozy indoor picnic for ABDL's, Diaper Wearers, and Littles Nappy Nibbles is a soft, relaxed, low-pressure ABDL social created for diaper wearers, littles and those who want a cozy space to simply be. This is an indoor picnic-style gathering where comfort, community, and playful connection come first. Whether you want to cuddle up, chat, color, snack, relax, or just spend time around people who get it, Nappy Nibbles offers a warm and easygoing space to settle in without pressure or performance. What to Expect 4:30 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 4:30 PM–7:30 PM | Indoor Picnic Social Relax, cuddle, color, chat, snack, and enjoy a soft, low-pressure ABDL space at your own pace. 7:30 PM | Social Ends But the fun doesnt have to! Stay for our ABDL BDSM party, Diaper Debauchery. Starting at 8PM. 🎟️ Click Here, to Reserve Your Ticket. The Vibe • Cozy indoor picnic atmosphere • Space for cuddling, chatting, coloring, and quiet play • Low-pressure socializing and gentle connection • Couches, pillows, and mattresses for lounging • Soft lighting and a soft, easygoing feel What to Bring BYO food, drinks, snacks, games, comfort items, etc. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator Nappy Nibbles is guided by Dan, a long-time member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, grounded, and judgment-free spaces for men’s erotic and intimate play. Dan brings: warmth gentleness emotional presence excellent consent practice clarity around boundaries and a calm, steady leadership style His facilitation helps everyone feel seen, supported, and able to explore in their own time and way. Location & Entry Instructions Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets This event is free! | Donations welcome. Will You Stay for the Play Party? 🎉 After Nappy Nibbles, we flow into Diaper Debauchery, our ABDL BDSM play party starting at 8 PM. Come for the cozy social — stay for the deeper exploration if it feels right. 🎟️ Reserve Your Entrance to Diaper Debauchery, Click Here. Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to at

KrINKles - Diaper Debauchery | A diapers and kink play party for diapered expression, connection, and play.

Hosted by The Kink Collective

Welcome to Diaper Debauchery... This is a party where you can show up exactly as you are—diapered, kinky, and free. About This Event Diaper Debauchery is a kinky queer diaper community night where you can show up exactly as you are — diapered, curious, kinky, and playful. Hosted as part of The Sanctuary Sessions, this is a queer-friendly space where ABDL and kink can coexist without judgment. It is a place for diapered expression, kinky exploration, and real community, with consent at the center of it all. The night may include diaper play, impact, bondage, group play, insertables, voyeurism, cuddling, and aftercare. Some nights are more social, some more playful, and some more erotic, but the purpose stays the same: to give people space to express their kinks with their diapers in a room built on openness, respect, and freedom. While this is not a sex party, consensual erotic play may naturally unfold. Nothing is assumed, no one is owed access, and watching does not equal participation. What to expect  8:00 PM | Doors Open The room begins organically. People often start socializing, exploring, and connecting soon after arrival. 9:00PM Brief check in & Rules Once the room has settled, we pause briefly to go over house rules. Then the party continues naturally and the rest of the night is open for connection, play, exploration, and expression at your own pace. 1AM Party Ends The Vibe  • Separate social, cuddle, and play areas • Soft lighting and immersive music to support the energy, mood, and pacing of the room. • Furnished stations for impact, restraint, and intimate exploration (St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, sex bench, and more) What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. Diapers, outfits, buzzes, and more A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No drugs. Your Facilitator 🤸🏼‍♂️ This container is guided by Dan, a seasoned member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, welcoming spaces for queer erotic play. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection while making room for a wide range of expression. Location + Entry The Sanctuary of East Harlem 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $20 Member's Ticket | $30 Solo | $50 Couples For Advanced tickets, Click HERE. Tickets at the door (cash, Venmo, Cashapp, Zelle and PayPal) Diaper Debauchery is one of the only parties where ABDL and kink coexist freely. Come curious, come playful, come as you are. Leave connected. Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend Diaper Debauchery. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

Urban Bear: Bears night out

Hosted by Rockbar NYC

Excelsior MC Business Meeting

Hosted by Excelsior MC

Excelsior MC meetings are where our club brothers and current pledges discuss club business and organize upcoming events. Our meetings are open to the public, and they occur the third Sunday each month at The LGBT Center in Chelsea. We encourage those interested in Excelsior MC to attend our meetings and share their perspective and interests with the brothers. To RSVP or to find more information, go to our website. Check with the concierge at The LGBT Center to find our meeting room each month.

Into? Hosted by Cadet Kelley and Champ Phoenix

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Welcome to 'INTO?' a monthly Gear Social, queer cruising and viewing party.  'INTO?' aims to acknowledge and re-examine bar code nights and BLUF on social, economic and ethnographic levels.   For many, wearing "full cow" proper leathers are impossibility (...saving $200?month for a pair of pants or paying a cell-phone bill...) = and spending thousands of dollars on leather can be extremely alienating.   This disparity gap also creates echo-chambers of wealth and privilege.  How can our beautiful patchwork quilt of communities be accurately represented if they can't afford to get in the door?   IG:  CadetKelley IG:  ChampLeatherPup

Corrossion NYC | A Men's Only BDSM & Sex Party

Hosted by The Kink Collective

Welcome to Corrosion NYC! A Men's Only BDSM Sex Party CORROSION NYC is a men-only BDSM and sex party built for men who want space for real play, real connection, and real sexual freedom. Some come for BDSM, some come for sex, and some come for both. The room is designed to let all of that happen naturally, with consent, respect, and clear boundaries at the center. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, and connecting outside of active play. Socializing happens there. BDSM and sexual activity happen in the designated play areas. This is not a social with furniture in the background. The play spaces are meant to be used. Expect a setup designed for both BDSM and sex, with floor beds, benches, a sling, suspension points, spanking benches, a St. Andrew’s Cross, and more. What to Expect 7 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play. 8 PM | Open BDSM + Sex Party Negotiate, play, hook up, connect, and move between social and active spaces at your own pace. 12 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • Soft lighting and immersive music to support the energy, mood, and pacing of the room. • Furnished stations for impact, restraint, and intimate exploration (St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, sex bench, and more) • A dark, masculine, sexually charged environment What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, lube etc A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. CORROSION Dress Code Dress for the energy of the party. Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome. Nudity is allowed throughout the space. If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately. Meet Your Facilitators CORROSION is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink. In this room, that means connection before climax, with consent, respect, and clear boundaries leading the way. Event Details Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $30 Members, $40 Solo, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2) 🎟 Reserve Your Ticket Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend CORROSION. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

Rope At RockBar

Hosted by Rockbar NYC

LOCKED: Chastity Social

Hosted by Rockbar NYC

Join host Peter Cage for a gathering of locked guys, keyholders, and anyone into chastity. You do not need to have experience or to be locked up to attend! All are welcome. Rockbar, 7pm Second Tuesday every month No cover Clothes check available Cage check for a free shot!!! ***Monthly from 7pm to 11:30pm on the second Tuesday (Eastern Time - New York)

Fursday

Hosted by Ty's Bar

Pheromone Party NYC

Hosted by Nowhere Bar

Nowhere bar NYC

KnottyNY: The Gay Rope Thing

Hosted by KnottyNY

Gear up for Knotty NY, first Tuesday and third Saturday each month! Leather, rubber, neoprene, sports kit and all other fetish wear encouraged. Come with questions and ideas for our 'catch up' social or revisit the basics with Knotty 101. Sign up at KnottyNY.com

Yes Sir! | A Mens BDSM Impact Play Party

Hosted by The Kink Collective

Welcome to Yes Sir! A Men's Only BDSM Impact Play Party Yes Sir! is a men-only BDSM impact party built for men who want a dark, erotic space for impact, tension, and kinky exploration. Impact play is the theme of the night, with room for other BDSM play as it unfolds. Expect a room where flogging, spanking, paddles, canes, whips, rough body play, sensual impact, heavier impact, bondage, restraint, and CBT can all have a place. Sex is not the focus of the party, but may happen within scenes. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, aftercare, and connecting outside of active play. What to Expect 8 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play. 9 PM | Rules + Room Opening Once the room opens, men are free to negotiate, play, and move through the space at their own pace. 1 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • Ambient lighting and expressive house music that drive the energy • Furniture designed for real use, not just atmosphere (Benches, suspension points, spanking benches, massage tables, wall space, kneeling benches, stocks, and more) • A dark, erotic environment where impact, tension, and desire build side by side • Space for scenes to unfold with intensity, creativity, and control What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, lube etc A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Dress Code Dress for the energy of the party. Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome. Nudity is allowed throughout the space. If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately. Meet Your Facilitators Yes Sir! is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care support a wide range of impact and BDSM exploration. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $30 Members, $40 General Admission, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2) 🎟 Reserve Your Space Today, Click Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend YES SIR!. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [<a href="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://kinkcollective.net/membership-1&sa=D&source=calendar&us

Urban Bear: Bears night out

Hosted by Rockbar NYC

Manhole in Park Slope, Brooklyn (sign up at manholenyc.com for address)

Hosted by ManholeNYC

Manhole is a fisting party for experienced players and novices alike. Sign up at manholenyc.com for more info.

Official BLUF NYC Monthly Social @ Eagle NYC

Hosted by BLUF NYC

Join your host Michael Jeavons (Mr Eagle NYC 2020/2021) #1320 and the men of BLUF NYC for our monthly social as we overtake the Eagle NYC!!! Show-up and Show-out for a kink, cigar and leather-filled evening with some of the hottest men in the Tri-State area. While BLUF leather is suggested for the social it is never required and everyone is always welcome!! We look forward to seeing you! No cover

Rope At RockBar

Hosted by Rockbar NYC

STI Testing at the Weds Bear Party

Hosted by Mount Sinai

Join our Telegram channel (https://t.me/sexpartiesnyc) to be notified of STI testing dates or cancellations (rare) in a text. Arrive as early as possible to avoid wait times. -- We offer free and confidential HIV and other STI testing through Mount Sinai's Sexual Liberation Project every Wednesday from 6-9pm at our 37th St location. Sign up for the mailing list above to get dates in our weekly email. Mount Sinai does testing on site with on-the-spot results for HIV, syphilis and Hepatitis C (takes 20 minutes) and they call or email results for chlamydia and gonorrhea several days later. Testing is a resource for all men regardless of whether they pay to enter the party. The tester takes guys on a first-come, first-served basis, so arrive early to avoid wait times. Because each time slot is 20 minutes, a maximum of nine guys can be seen per party. If the party ends before 9pm, which happens sometimes, the tester will stop taking appointments early, so don't be late!

Fursday

Hosted by Ty's Bar

Cigar Social NYC

Hosted by Cigar Social NYC

Join your host, Brent, every 2nd and 4th Friday of the month for an evening of ‘gars, men and leather! The event is BYOB. The venue provides glasses and ice. www.cigarsocialnyc.com

PERV! Kink Party for Weirdos

Hosted by Rockbar NYC

𝗣𝗘𝗥𝗩 💦 a kink party for weirdos hosted by Peter Cage @cloughagunga Pup Roger @pup_roger Friday, Feb 28, 10pm Rockbar @rockbarnyc Last Friday every month! $10 cover Clothes check available Plastic wrap bondage demos Wedgies P*ss boy Questionable choices Dress: slut gear demented drag leather rubber pup hood chastity cage panties diaper cum-soaked jock fur suit your roommate’s dirty socks cuck chair clown nose saran wrap wet toilet paper

STING NYC | A M/M Spanking Party

Hosted by The Kink Collective

Welcome to STING NYC! A Spanking Party for Men STING NYC is a relaxed, men-only spanking party built for men who want space to give, receive, trade, watch, learn, and explore spanking in all its forms. Whether you are brand new or deeply experienced, STING NYC offers a playful, open environment where men can connect through impact, discipline, technique, erotic tension, and shared desire. From the sharp snap of a belt to the satisfying smack of a hand, this is a room for men who know that a good spanking can be playful, connective, intense, and deeply satisfying. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, aftercare, and connection outside of active play. What to Expect 1 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 1:45–2 PM | Arrival + Connection Meet others, go over the house rules, and set the tone before play begins. 2 PM | Play Room Opens For negotiated spanking, impact, watching, learning, connection, and exploration at your own pace. 6 PM | Party Ends The Vibe • A men-only space centered around spanking and impact • A relaxed, social, and erotic afternoon atmosphere • 12+ spanking stations and an open layout • Stations including a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking bench, kneeling benches, massage tables, and room for creative positioning • A separate social area for aftercare, downtime, snacks, and conversation What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator This event is led by Dan, a long-standing member of the spanking community and a trusted facilitator within The Kink Collective. Dan brings his passion for spanking and his easygoing style to create a space that feels safe, playful, and welcoming to all men in attendance. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend STING NYC. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

Urban Bear: Bears night out

Hosted by Rockbar NYC

KrINKles - Call The Babysitter | Movie and Cuddle Social

Hosted by The Kink Collective

Welcome to Call The Babysitter! A light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering... Call the Babysitter is a light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering for those who want a cozy space to relax, connect, and explore. This is a room where diapers, comfort, playful energy, and community come together in a welcoming environment built on kindness, consent, and care. Whether you arrive to cuddle, socialize, watch a movie, enjoy the comfort of sporting "little gear", or share playful connection with others, this is a space designed to help people settle in, feel at ease, and enjoy themselves at their own pace. What to Expect 7 PM | Doors Open The room opens organically. People often start socializing and connecting soon after arrival. 7:45 PM Brief Opening + Rules Check-In Once the room has settled, we pause briefly to go over intentions and house rules. 8 PM Movies Begin Cuddle, socialize, enjoy little gear, and connect in a soft, relaxing environment. 12 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • A cozy, diaper-centered atmosphere for community, comfort, and light exploration • Space to relax, socialize, cuddle, and connect • A changing table set up for diaper wearers What to Bring Diapers, pillow, change of clothes and any comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Facilitator This container is guided by Dan, a seasoned member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, welcoming spaces for erotic and playful exploration. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection while helping people feel comfortable and free to explore at their own pace. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Intstructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) ⬇️ 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend Call the Babysitter Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

Rope At RockBar

Hosted by Rockbar NYC

Fursday

Hosted by Ty's Bar

Pheromone Party NYC

Hosted by Nowhere Bar

Nowhere bar NYC

Urban Bear: Bears night out

Hosted by Rockbar NYC