💻 Online kink, BDSM & leather events

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Class / Workshop21+✦ Beginner-friendly💻 Online

ONLINE: Hoe With Purpose: Erotic Strategy for the Emotionally Unavailable & Sensually Aware

Hosted by Wicked Grounds

Tue, Sep 1, 20266:00 PM – 8:00 PM💻 Online

This class is for aromantic folks, casual players, and intentional pleasure-seekers who want a system for their erotic life, not just vibes. --- You're not chaotic. You just don't want what everyone assumes you want and nobody's teaching you how to build the erotic life you're actually after. The entire world is set up to push you toward romance: the apps, the communities, the conversations, the expectations. If you're aromantic, done with situationships, or just clear that you want pleasure without the relationship, there's almost no framework built for you. So you improvise. And improvising leads to drama, confusion, and connections that cost more than they were worth. This class is for aromantic folks, casual players, and intentional pleasure-seekers who want a system for their erotic life, not just vibes. IN THIS CLASS YOU WILL: • Name and understand amatonormativity; the cultural pressure to make romance the goal, and why opting out is a design choice, not a flaw • Learn how to reframe casual sex as ethical and strategic, not careless • Use the Return on Intimacy framework to decide where your erotic energy is actually worth spending • Build and audit a rotation that stays clean of entanglement and drama • Practice scripts for navigating casual kink conversations with clarity and confidence • Get tools for handling ghosting, rejection, and NRE without losing your footing An intentional erotic life is possible. This class shows you how to build one. PRESENTER: Sarai311 (any/all) is a BIPOC kink educator, poet, and event organizer with a decade of experience across classroom and community learning spaces. She brings eight years of formal teaching and three years of active kink engagement into her work, blending curriculum design, emotionally grounded facilitation, and embodied pedagogy. A doctoral candidate, her research on identity development and culturally relevant pedagogy directly informs her kink education practice. Within the kink community, she has served as a Dungeon Monitor, demo bottom, and board member for Whippersnappers TNG, and is the founder and lead organizer of BIPOC at Frolicon. She presents across the Southeast at events including Frolicon, Southeast Leatherfest, and Dark Odyssey, and has been published thrice in Black Leather in Color Magazine. Sarai311 is also the author of 'What We Could Never Be' and 'Unholy Attachments', and is known for creating spaces where kink, identity, and intentional self-exploration can safely coexist. TICKETING: $20 - $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/36b8033347 We offer a sliding scale, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. So - that's it! Choose the level you can comfortably afford. Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month's discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds! If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the "Volunteer List" to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis. ACCESS: This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will be recorded and provided to attendees for viewing up to one week after the class date. Zoom now provides closed captioning, which will be available for this event.

Class / Workshop21+💻 Online

Pentacles of Power: A Six-Week Sex Magick Intensive for Kinky People

Hosted by Wicked Grounds

Sep 8–Oct 13, 2026💻 Online

Practical sex magick for solo and partnered practitioners --- This six-week virtual course launching in September 2026 will include self-directed work and collaborative live sessions via Zoom. Over the course of six weeks you will learn by doing: Working with the energetic body Sigil magick Raising energy with sex and S/m The basics of pentacle magick Miriam Green's twinned pentacles of power exchange and more We will have weekly meetings -- generally on Tuesday evenings -- and homework throughout the workshop. All weekly meetings will be recorded for those who cannot attend live. Expect a total of three hours coursework per week, plus daily practice in sitting meditation and journaling. Go deeply into creating your own magickal frameworks I have been teaching magick since 2004 and teaching BDSM since 2014. The work we'll engage in together goes well beyond what I can teach in a typical 90-minute intro class. We'll work with the tools and techniques I use most often, including personal D/s pentacles I developed in 2006 and have never taught to students outside of this workshop. Our six-week course will go live September 8 - October 13, 2026, and will include pre-recorded video lessons, written lessons, and six live sessions of about 93 minutes each (pre-recorded if you cannot attend live). Who is Miriam BatAsherah Green? Miriam BatAsherah Green is a full-time BDSM educator and coach who has been teaching magick since 2004 and kink since 2014. Miriam is an initiated witch in the Reclaiming tradition and a proud member of Ordo Templi Orientis. Miriam's kabbalah and tarot classes have long demystified occult practice, and they look forward to bringing this approach to practical sex magick.

Class / Workshop21+💻 Online

ONLINE: Blood, Sweat, & Fears: The Art and Thrill of Blood Play

Hosted by Wicked Grounds

Tue, Sep 8, 20266:00 PM – 8:00 PM💻 Online

For those who crave the sting, the drip, and the rush— this is for you. --- Enter into the visceral and intoxicating world of Blood Play, where sensation and surrender meet danger and transcendence. From the sharp kiss of spiked implements to the intimate precision of cutting and cupping, we’ll explore how pain, pleasure, and power bleed together. For those who crave the sting, the drip, and the rush— this is for you. Learn safety essentials, techniques, and the dark delicious creativity of drawing blood with intention. Whether you're a seasoned player or a curious explorer, come ready to revel in the exquisite agony of broken flesh. Each drop of blood is a story, a sacrifice, a thrill. This isn’t just play—it’s art, ritual, and raw intensity. There will be an explicit live demo not for the faint of heart Open to all genders, sexualities, and experience levels. Come and play! PRESENTER: Jamie Joy (they/them) is a queer trans Jewish certified sex educator and hungry slut for freaky fantasies. Their life and work is committed to spreading joy, consent, and pleasure through community orgynizing. They have been educating on a wide range of topics related to sex and sexuality for the past 10+ years with experience in K-12 schools, health clinics, college campuses, adult sex shops, national conferences, BDSM dungeons, non-profits, community organizations, and more. Jamie Joy loves to stay up late, throw an unforgettable party, and teach people about the wonders of fisting and fire play. They are always excited to connect and collaborate - find them on Instagram @thebadjewboy or their website www.jamiejoy.com TICKETING: https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/8368ce590a $30 suggested. We offer multiple price points, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $20. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month's discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds! If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the "Volunteer List" to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis. ACCESS: This will be a live, recorded online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will be recorded and distributed to those who registered. Zoom now provides closed captioning, which will be available for this event.

Class / Workshop21+✦ Beginner-friendly💻 Online

ONLINE: So Fresh & So Clean: Bootblacking & Leather Care 101

Hosted by Wicked Grounds

Fri, Oct 9, 20266:00 PM – 8:00 PM💻 Online

Buff up your leather care knowledge & make your skills shine! --- Who doesn't love the look of a well-polished boot that catches the light and catches your eye? Leather pieces have the ability to outlast many of their original owners... with care. In this class, we'll teach you the basics of making your leathers look nice and last, as well as cleaning and caring for your leathers. Bootblacking can be a service to the community or dynamic, a form of worship, an art form, a practice of technique, a side hustle, a spiritual practice, or all of the above! Learn how to easily clean and care for your favorite boots, whip, or vest! We'll also show you how to discern between oil tan and polished leather and how to treat them appropriately. After the class portion, there will be a brief workshop where you will work on your leather with guidance from the instructor. It is BYOL (Bring Your Own Leather). Synthetic leathers are welcome! PRESENTER: Lady V (she/her) is a spiritually & socioculturally driven sex-positive educator, community organizer, Bootblack & Professional Dominatrix. She formerly served as a resident bootblack for the Portland Eagle, as well as 50 Shades of STFU & Jiffy Kink play parties. Lady V has also Bootblacked at various conferences, flea markets, cigar parties, & play parties across the US. Lady V became a believer in leather the first time she saw The Arnold’s ass in leather pants watching Terminator 2. Since then she has become an enthusiastic leather fetishist & has touched enough leather to make a dairy farmer blush. Lady V, who is also a hucow, is quite literally "leather". Lady V has taught for conferences & sex positive venues across the US. She serves as an Advocacy Board Member for Sex Positive World & proudly helps facilitate their education as the Remote Education Coordinator. Lady V has also served the community by facilitating public health events. She is an out, proud, & fierce-as-fire transwoman with a passion for empowering others. While hailing from Detroit, Michigan, she has settled in Salem, Oregon, where she lives with her Mistress in a 24/7 TPE dynamic. She serves as the majordomo for her leather family, the Atomic Army. TICKETING: https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/08f65ec883 We offer multiple price points, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. $30 is the suggested ticketing price. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month's discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds! If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the "Volunteer List" to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis. ACCESS: This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will be recorded and is available for later viewing. Zoom now provides closed captioning which will be available for this event.

Class / Workshop21+💻 Online

ONLINE: Dating as Shadow Work: Turning Emotional Triggers into Pathways of Growth

Hosted by Wicked Grounds

Sat, Oct 10, 20266:00 PM – 8:00 PM💻 Online

Through guided reflection, dialogue, and practical tools, we’ll look at the emotions we most want to avoid — abandonment, disappointment, shame, embarrassment, insecurity, grandiosity — and learn how to work with them skillfully. --- Dating has a way of bringing uncomfortable feelings to the surface—fast. Few other arenas of life expose our tender spots like romance does. One moment, we are flying high and find ourselves pedestalizing hot strangers; the next, we’re swimming in insecurity, shame, devastation, or hopelessness. Our shadow self represents the parts of us that we hide from our own sight—patterns and traits we would prefer not to feel, identify with, or be viewed as by others. However, what we resist persists: when repressed, our shadow often controls our lives from the sidelines, keeping authentic love and connection at arm’s length. Integrating the shadow is about reclaiming disowned parts of ourselves in order to gain awareness, wholeness, and personal agency. In this class, we’ll explore dating as a spiritual and psychological practice—a living lab for shadow integration. Through guided reflection, dialogue, and practical tools, we’ll look at the emotions we most want to avoid: embarrassment, humiliation, abandonment, disappointment, shame, insecurity, grandiosity, and more. We will learn how to work with them skillfully. Rather than chasing validation or avoiding pain, we’ll reframe dating as a path of self-inquiry, expansion, and authenticity. With this framework, every experience, even “bad dates,” becomes material for growth, self-reclamation, and emotional liberation. By shifting from a win/lose mindset to one of curiosity and evolution, participants will learn how to date from a place of truth in relationships—not from the shadow’s behind-the-scenes manipulation. You’ll learn how to: Recognize and name shadow emotions and patterns that surface in your dating experiences Transform emotional triggers into insights for integration and healing Reclaim your psycho-emotional space from rejection loops and idealization Approach dating as a sacred practice of awareness, embodiment, and authenticity Date others from a place of wholeness and authenticity, paving the path to better relationships Format: Embodied meditation + interactive talk + guided reflection exercises + group dialogue Who it’s for: This class is for anyone who senses that dating can be more than just a search for “the one” and that it can be a profound mirror and teacher. It’s especially for: Intellectually and spiritually curious humans who love psychological depth and meaning-making Relationship geeks and emotional explorers who want to understand their own patterns more deeply Queer, non-monogamous, kinky, or otherwise non-traditional daters seeking a growth-oriented framework that honors their complexity Free spirits who want to love and connect authentically, without giving away their power Anyone tired of repetitive loops who’s ready to use dating as a site of awakening rather than reenactment No matter your gender, orientation, or relational style, this space invites honesty, courage, and curiosity about what dating stirs within you, and how every emotional trigger can become a doorway to greater freedom. PRESENTER: Marie Thouin, PhD is a Dating & Relationship Coach who supports and guides people of all backgrounds and relational orientations to create intentional and vibrant love lives. She is the author of "What is Compersion? Understanding Positive Empathy in Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships," the first-ever comprehensive scholarly book on compersion. She has been featured in several publications and podcasts, including ELLE, the Savage Lovecast, The Times of London, and HuffPost. Marie has also published seminal research studies, the first encyclopedia entry on compersion, and is the creator of www.WhatIsCompersion.com, a popular website that features her research, blogs, and resources on the topic of compersion. Find out more at MarieThouin.com or on Instagram at @drmariethouin. TICKETING: https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/47b645b29e $30 suggested. We offer multiple price points, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $20. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month's discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds! If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the "Volunteer List" to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis. ACCESS: This will be a live, recorded online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will be recorded and distributed to those who registered. Zoom now provides closed captioning, which will be available for this event.

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