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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

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Class / Workshop18+✦ Beginner-friendly💻 Online

ONLINE: Kink, Trauma Play, and Healing: A Research-Informed Deep Dive

Hosted by Wicked Grounds

Sat, Oct 31, 202611:00 AM – 1:00 PM💻 Online

This class brings together community insight and current research tidbits to offer a clearer picture of the patterns, mechanics, and meanings people often find in trauma play. --- If you have engaged in trauma play in kink, this class gives you a straightforward way to understand what was happening. Many kink practitioners who work with traumatic experiences through kink recognize the territory but often lack the language to describe it. Some leave a scene feeling steadier, while others feel more shaken, largely because no one ever taught them how to name the processes they just went through. People have been working through difficult emotions in kink for a long time, and research is only now beginning to catch up. This class brings together community insight and current research tidbits to offer a clearer picture of the patterns, mechanics, and meanings people often find in trauma play. Without idealizing or pathologizing the practice, it provides a space to look closely at something many people know intimately and want to finally understand. Join us for a kinky deep-dive, with plenty of time for questions and chit-chat! PRESENTER: Aidan Sunassee (he/him) is a certified sexologist, educator, researcher, and active member of the kink community. His facilitation style is trauma-aware, grounded in inclusive practices, and informed by both personal experience and academic research. He is dedicated to bridging the gap between academic knowledge and lived experience, creating spaces where community voices are centered, respected, and empowered. Aidan is affiliated with the APA Division 44 Taskforce on Kink and BDSM, serves on the board and research team of TASHRA, and teaches with the Center for Positive Sexuality. His independent research explores how pleasure and power exchange intersect with healing in kink spaces and dynamics. Beyond his research, he has developed and led community education programs on kink, consent, trauma awareness, and ethical non-monogamy. At the core of his approach is a belief that academic knowledge and lived truth must meet and challenge each other. TICKETING: $30 suggested. We offer several price points, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/8aab075396 Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month's discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds! If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the "Volunteer List" to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis. ACCESS: This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will be recorded and is available for later viewing within seven days of the class. Zoom now provides closed captioning which will be available for this event.

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The Market on the Strip: Eagle Edition

Hosted by The Dallas Eagle

Sat, Oct 31, 20261:00 PM – 6:00 PM🇺🇸 The Dallas Eagle, Dallas, TX

The Market on the Strip is a neighborhood market in the Oak Lawn LGBTQ area dedicated to giving small businesses a chance to thrive, and they're bringing it on the road to the Dallas Eagle! Enjoy a wonderful selection of curated art and merch for sale from community members, along with drink and food specials. 🧢 Check out our Leather Shop! ⭐ No cover. Free parking. Uber and Lyft ride shares always encouraged. 🚗 #dallaseagle #marketonthestrip #buylocal UID: dle.261031.37c5

Social18+✦ Beginner-friendly

Fetish Social Limburg

Hosted by Fetish Social Limburg

Sat, Oct 31, 20261:30 PM – 6:30 PM🇳🇱 Café Rosé, Maastricht

FETISH SOCIAL LIMBURG - MAASTRICHT, THE NETHERLANDS 🇳🇱 MAASTRICHT, ARE YOU READY? 🖤 On Saturday, October 31st, 2026, it’s time for the very first edition of Fetish Social Limburg! Whether you’re into leather, rubber, sportswear, work wear, sneakers, suit & tie, pup, tactical gear or something completely different... you’re welcome to join us! ABOUT THE SOCIAL Fetish Social Limburg brings people with different fetishes and interests together. It’s an afternoon to meet new people, catch up with familiar faces, make new connections and simply enjoy being part of the community. This is a social gathering, not a play party. There is no sex, play or nudity. It’s all about meeting each other in a relaxed and friendly atmosphere. You’re welcome to come in gear, but you don’t have to. Whether you already feel completely at home in the fetish scene or you’re taking your first steps into the community, you’re welcome to join the social. WHO IS IT FOR? 🏳️‍🌈 Fetish Social Limburg brings together men from the gay, bi and queer fetish community, whatever fetish or gear you’re into. Age: 18+ DATE, TIME & LOCATION 📅 Saturday, October 31st, 2026 ⌚ 13:30 – 18:30 📍 Café Rosé Bogaardenstraat 43 6211 SN Maastricht The Netherlands GETTING THERE Café Rosé is centrally located in Maastricht, close to the Markt and Vrijthof. The venue is easily accessible by public transport, with several paid parking facilities nearby. Maastricht is located close to both the Belgian and German borders, making Fetish Social Limburg easy to reach from the Netherlands as well as the surrounding cross-border region. GOOD TO KNOW 🎟 Free entry — no registration required. Drinks are at your own expense. 👕 A changing area is available, so you can change into your gear at the venue. 🍹 You’ll receive 50% off your first drink. 🎃 As our first edition takes place on Halloween, Café Rosé will be dressed for the occasion. FETISH SOCIAL LIMBURG Fetish Social Limburg is about bringing different parts of the fetish community together. Leather, rubber, pup, sportswear, sneakers, work wear, tactical gear, suit & tie and many other fetishes and styles all have a place within our social. Different gear, different interests, one social. WILL YOU BE JOINING US? 🌐 fetishsociallimburg.nl (soon) 📸 Instagram: @fetishsocial.limburg

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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SHOCK Therapy

Hosted by The Dallas Eagle

Oct 31–Nov 1, 20268:00 PM – 2:00 AM🇺🇸 The Dallas Eagle, Dallas, TX

Plug in and lose yourself at SHOCK Therapy with DJ Dan Slater, our new monthly Saturday night dance floor takeover. Expect high-voltage beats, heavy bodies, and the kind of late-night attraction you can only find at the Dallas Eagle 😈🦅 World famous DJ Dan Slater brings his signature sound and popular event to Dallas, don't miss this HUGE new event 🤩 🦅 Leather, gear, underwear, and jocks recommended, but not required. Grab a locker for $5. Legal clothing coverage required at all times. 🚗 Free parking! Uber and Lyft ride shares always recommended. #dallaseagle #danslater #shocktherapy UID: dle.261031.0245

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SHOCK Therapy with DJ Dan Slater

Hosted by The Dallas Eagle

Oct 31–Nov 1, 20269:00 PM – 2:00 AM🇺🇸 The Dallas Eagle, Dallas, TX

Plug in and lose yourself at SHOCK Therapy with DJ Dan Slater, our new monthly Saturday night dance floor takeover. Expect high-voltage beats, heavy bodies, and the kind of late-night attraction you can only find at the Dallas Eagle 😈🦅 World famous DJ Dan Slater brings his signature sound and popular event to Dallas, don't miss this HUGE new event 🤩 🦅 Leather, gear, underwear, and jocks recommended, but not required. Grab a locker for $5. Legal clothing coverage required at all times. 🚗 Free parking! Uber and Lyft ride shares always recommended. 🎶 DJ Dan Slater spins from 10pm-2am #dallaseagle #danslater #shocktherapy UID: dle.261031.0245

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

Social21+

Brut: Halloween 2026

Hosted by Brut

Sat, Oct 31, 20269:00 PM – 3:00 AM🇺🇸 619 Howard St - 60202 Chicago, Chicago, IL🔖 1 saved

We promised to explore every corner of Chicago and bring a fresh, new, different experience to our events, and we found a massive 1100 capacity and the most absolutely insane, lesbian-owned space, perfect to close the year in town with the biggest Halloween event in Chicago. You can now lock in your Early Bird price before the tickets go live.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

Party21+

Megawoof

Hosted by Megawoof America

Sat, Oct 31, 20269:00 PM – 2:00 AM🇺🇸 Dust Las Vegas, Las Vegas, NV

MEGAWOOF AMERICA - LAS VEGAS - HALLOWEEN LAS VEGAS — GET READY FOR A MEGAWOOF HALLOWEEN! On Saturday, October 31st, MEGAWOOF AMERICA takes over DUST Las Vegas for a very special Halloween edition. Expect a night packed with bears, cubs, daddies, costumes, dancing and that unmistakable MEGAWOOF energy. THE SOUNDS OF: GLOVIBES DJ SHIFTA COVER BOY: BEARYCENT — making his Las Vegas debut! Come dressed to impress, unleash your wild side and prepare to WOOF. DANCE. PLAY. REPEAT. Saturday, October 31st DUST Las Vegas 855 E. Twain Ave., Suite 114 Las Vegas, NV 89169 Supporting Bears Las Vegas Presented with MISTR Tickets available now—scan the QR code on the flyer.

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TRANSFERNO: THE HUNGER

Hosted by Transferno

Oct 31–Nov 1, 20269:00 PM – 3:00 AM🇺🇸 Pickles Playground, New York, NY

DJ RAW ED returns! $35 Cash (includes beverages, clothes check, towel, admission) Location: 210 5th Ave, Park Slope, Brooklyn Advance tickets ONLY, no cash entry at the door Ticket link goes live on Tuesday, October 13th at 12pm TICKET PRESALE LINK: https://forbiddentickets.com/events/kris-grey/f7c215fca1 Who needs thirst traps when you’ve got the HUNGER? This Halloween, TRANSFERNO invites you to give in to your cravings. Descend beneath the city, out of the light and into a den of creatures who only come alive after dark. Vampires, demons, leather daddies, lost boys, hungry holes and things without names—we gather all. DJ RAW ED will be feeding the dance floor until the small hours, while we celebrate Halloween the way nature intended: slutty, spooky, and altogether kooky. Come gorgeous. Come monstrous. Come with THE HUNGER. And remember: this one is PRESALE ONLY. Attendance is capped, there will be NO tickets at the door and NO cash admission. When the crypt is full, it’s full. Ticket link goes live on Tuesday, October 13th at 12pm noon! Once pre-sale is sold out, there will automatically be a waitlist sign-up. And remember - October 31st is Gaylight Savings Time night - so you get an extra hour of play! The night is young and so are you… for now. (but seriously, no blood play please) Hosted by Santos, Kris, and Oak! $35 Presale Only NEW SUBSTACK Link https://substack.com/@transfernoparty

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

Party21+

The Boulet Brothers' Los Angeles Halloween Ball

Hosted by Hump Events

Oct 31–Nov 1, 202610:00 PM – 3:00 AM🇺🇸 The Globe Theater, Los Angeles, CA

Something wicked this way comes! This Halloween, The Boulet Brothers take over all three floors of downtown Los Angeles’ historic Globe Theatre, transforming the grand theater into a haunted palace of sin, spectacle and debauchery. Multiple dancefloors, monstrous stage performances and the wicked depths of our Basement of Sin await. For one night, the entire theater belongs to the monsters. Come dressed to kill. POPPY (Headlining DJ Set) MAIN FLOOR: • DJ Mateo Segade • Host party HUMP and their army of go-go monsters. HALLOWEEN STAGE SPECTACULAR: • The Queens of Darkness The Boulet Brothers • Rasputin’s Marionettes (human-sized puppet spectacle) • House of Ninja (Halloween Vogue Spectacular) • Jake Dupree (Halloween burlesque revue) COSTUME CONTEST — $1,000 CASH GRAND PRIZE Bring your most monstrous look and compete for the crown. VICE (Basement of Sin): • Headlining DJ: FLABBERGAST • Featuring Nite Crème and DJ Naté VICE hosts, dancers & ghouls: Aestheadache · Aiana Shaw · Ally Star · Andy Mansur · Becky · Cole Whiteman · Cielo · DVVSK · Izzy · Julvira · Kalista Stage · Kolby Keene · Prince Marell · Michael · Miles Powers Saturday, October 31, 2026 10:00 PM–3:00 AM The Globe Theatre • 740 S Broadway, Los Angeles, CA 90014 Ages 21+ only. VIP tickets include “no line waiting” entry and VIP mezzanine/private bar access. Reserved tables and booths: Every table or booth package includes VIP admission for the stated number of guests and the reserved seating. No separate event admission tickets are required. Ticket prices include booking fees. Tables for 2 or 4: no beverage minimum. Drinks are optional and purchased directly from The Globe at the VIP bar. These tables do not include dedicated table service. Booths for 8, 10 or 12: a separate $638.75 beverage minimum per booth is required. This is $500 in beverages, plus $48.75 tax and $90 gratuity (18%), payable directly to The Globe at the event in addition to the ticket price. The minimum applies per booth regardless of how many guests attend. The Globe handles beverage service and collects all drink payments directly. Beverage purchases above the minimum are charged separately by The Globe. ALL SALES ARE FINAL. Tickets are non-refundable and non-exchangeable, including for changes in personal circumstances, inability to attend, illness, travel issues, weather, or changes to the advertised lineup, performers, schedule, attractions, or programming. Artists, performers, schedules, and event details are subject to change without refund. Refunds will only be issued where required by applicable law. By completing your purchase, you acknowledge and agree to this refund policy.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

SponsorPaid placement
Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

SponsorPaid placement
Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

SponsorPaid placement
Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

SponsorPaid placement
Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

SponsorPaid placement
Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

SponsorPaid placement
Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

Class / Workshop18+✦ Beginner-friendly💻 Online

ONLINE: Consent, Accountability, and Neurodivergence: A Two Part Series

Hosted by Wicked Grounds

Sun, Nov 1, 202611:00 AM – 1:00 PM💻 Online

How does Neurodivergence affect boundaries, grappling with hurt and harm (and discerning between the two), and accountability? In this participatory two part workshop, we will dive into these questions with case studies and real-life examples. --- How does neurodivergence affect consent – including mistakes, incidents, and violations? How does it affect boundaries, grappling with hurt and harm (and discerning between the two), and accountability at the personal, interpersonal, and community levels? In this participatory two part workshop, we will dive into these questions with case studies and real-life examples. We’ll look through a trauma- and disability justice-informed lens, and talk about common patterns, subjective interpretations, ascriptions, and communication-based on neurotypes, socialization, and lived experience. We will make space for embodied activities and create plenty of room for community members to share their experiences. PRESENTER: Adam is a community organizer, mediator, conflict transformation facilitator, kink and consent educator, and ongoing learner. Their passions lie at the intersections of disability justice, neurodivergence accessibility, trauma-informed care, consent, embodied somatics, harm reduction, and systems transformation. They desire to help people relate in safer, skillful ways that are trauma-, power-, and risk-informed. Adam has been an educator with several groups including The Consent Academy, advocating for consent from the individual level to the systemic. They do consent and accountability work in many contexts and community spaces, from organizing spaces to the sex+ world. Adam sees this work as intersectional, directly connected to the better, more liberatory world they want to live in. TICKETING: $60 suggested. We offer multiple price points, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/6e0ca347f8 If cost is a barrier at any point on the sliding scale, please use the Volunteer List at the bottom of the listing to request a scholarship seat. ACCESS: This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you will need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will be recorded for distribution and available 7 days after through Dropbox. However, we recommend attending live to get the most out of your experience. Zoom provides closed captioning which will be available for this event.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

Class / WorkshopVerified host21+

Philadelphia Leather Pride Night

Hosted by Leather Archives & Museum

Sun, Nov 1, 20263:00 PM – 9:00 PM🇺🇸 Congregation Rodeph Shalom, Philadelphia, PA

At its heart, Philadelphia Leather Pride Night is about something bigger than a great auction. It's about giving back to the community that gives so much to us. In 2025, PLPN raised more than $9,000 for its charity partners. This year, the goal is to raise even more. One hundred percent of PLPN's proceeds will benefit three organizations: Project HOME – Gloria Casarez Residence - Providing housing and supportive services while honoring the legacy of Gloria Casarez and her commitment to Philadelphia's LGBTQIA community. Human Rights Campaign - Working to advance LGBTQIA equality and protect the rights and dignity of LGBTQIA people. Leather Archives & Museum - Preserving and sharing the history, culture, and stories of leather, kink, fetish, and alternative sexuality communities. Every ticket. Every bid. Every winning paddle. Every donation. It all goes back to the community. JOIN US Whether you're a longtime Philadelphia leather family member, a titleholder, a kinkster, a history buff, a first-time visitor, or simply someone who believes in supporting community organizations, there's a place for you at PLPN. Sunday, November 1, 2026 Doors: 3:00 PM | Live Auction: 4:15 PM Congregation Rodeph Shalom | Center City Philadelphia Come for the auction. Stay for the community. Give because it matters. Learn more and get tickets at www.plpn.org

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

Social21+

Excelsior MC Business Meeting

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Sun, Nov 1, 20264:00 PM – 5:30 PM🇺🇸 Lesbian & Gay Community Services Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY

Excelsior MC meetings are where our club brothers and current pledges discuss club business and organize upcoming events. Our meetings are open to the public, and they occur the third Sunday each month at The LGBT Center in Chelsea. We encourage those interested in Excelsior MC to attend our meetings and share their perspective and interests with the brothers. To RSVP or to find more information, go to our website. Check with the concierge at The LGBT Center to find our meeting room each month.

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Trash Disco

Hosted by The Dallas Eagle

Sun, Nov 1, 20265:00 PM – 10:00 PM🇺🇸 The Dallas Eagle, Dallas, TX

We're celebrating the first Sunday of the month with TRASH DISCO featuring DJ Blaine!!! ✨ Join in on this fabulous Dallas tradition! Grab your gear and shake it on the dance floor! 🦅 🦅 Leather and gear always encouraged, but not required. Come as you want and dance! Lockers available for $5. 🍻 Come early for Happy Hour from 1-4pm, and enjoy food from our Grill until 9pm. 🧢 Check out our Leather Shop now! ⭐ No cover. Free parking. Uber and Lyft ride shares always encouraged. 🚗 #dallaseagle #dallas #trashdisco #djblaine UID: ev.26.a598

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Sunday Funday: Disco with DJ Dewight

Hosted by The Dallas Eagle

Nov 1–2, 20265:00 PM – 2:00 AM🇺🇸 The Dallas Eagle, Dallas

Get into the groove at Sunday Tea: Disco, our first Sunday celebration of timeless dance music and fresh chemistry. Let the music turn a casual Sunday outing into “just one more song!" Come shake your booty and get down with us! 🦅 No dress code, just take off your shirt and have fun. Lockers available for $5 🍻 Get here early for Happy Hour 🧢 Check out our hot selection of merch in our Leather Shop! ⭐ No cover! Free Parking. Uber and Lyft ride shares are recommended. 🚗 🎶 DJ Dewight spins from 5-9pm #dallaseagle #sundaytea UID: ev.26.a598

Class / Workshop18+✦ Beginner-friendly💻 Online

Diving Deep Discovering and Voicing Erotic Desires

Hosted by Wicked Grounds

Nov 1–Dec 14, 20266:00 PM – 9:00 PM💻 Online

The first step in negotiating is voicing what we want. But many of us run into challenges: What do I want? As I figure that out, how do I feel safe talking out loud about my desires? This six week course is designed to help kinksters and other erotic adventurers get un-stuck around our evolving desires and how to ask for them. This work is perfect for anyone launching a new phase in their erotic journeys (or feeling stuck in an old phase). About Miriam Green Miriam Green has been in the public kink scene for over twenty years in the Austin, Houston, and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community, BDSM negotiations, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds, San Francisco's leader in BDSM education and community building. How we'll engage The six week course will run live from November 1 - December 14, 2026. This class will include six total weeks of content and homework, three 90-minute live online group sessions on Monday evenings (all recorded for later participation if needed), and at least one half-hour individual consult with instructor Miriam Green. (Our class tiers include the option to add more consulting for your own journey.) Our three 90-minute live group sessions will be offered via Zoom on Monday, November 2; Monday, November 23; and Monday, December 7 - all at 6pm Pacific time. Sessions will be recorded for later viewing or for those who cannot attend the sessions live. Is this course for you? Do you get stuck when asked "what do you want in intimate relationships?" Are you uncomfortable telling partners about your desires and kinks? Have you been doing the same thing for a long time and want to find new routes to eroticism? Do you want a deep understanding of the physical and psychological responses you have to kink? Do you want to connect deeply with others? Then yes: this course is for you!

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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