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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

Social21+

BOUND NYC: A Rope Bondage Party for Queer Men

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nov 6–7, 20267:00 PM – 1:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Bound NYC... A rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just a practice space. BOUND NYC is a rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just practice space. This is a room where bondage through rope is at the center, full scenes are encouraged, and play can extend into impact, sensation, bondage, and other forms of consensual exploration. Whether you come with a partner or attend solo, BOUND offers a warm, social, erotic, and play-minded environment for men who want to tie, connect, negotiate, and engage. This is not a class-based event. Light peer guidance and basic instruction may happen naturallyin the room, but the focus is on self-led play and scenes. Pick-up play is welcome, with attendees expected to negotiate for themselves. The Kink Collective’s MITPISA negotiation forms will be available to support clearer pre-scene communication and pickup play negotiation. What to Expect 7:00 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, connect, warm-up... Tie casually, if you'd like. 8:00 PM | Rules & Consent Agreements We gather briefly to review the rules, agreements and flow of the night. 8:15 PM | Rope and Scenes Open Once the room opens, attendees are free to tie, negotiate, play, and explore at their own pace. The Vibe • A warm, social, rope-forward atmosphere • Energetic beats and lighting set to support the room • Space for floor rope, with mats available • 2 suspension points and 1 suspension rig • Furnished with a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, tieable benches, and floor beds What to Bring Rope & Safety shears, implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No drugs. Meet Your Faciliatators BOUND is held by The Kink Collective facilitators and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care come first, and where exploration is supported rather than pushed. Location and Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $30 Member’s Ticket | $40 Solo Ticket | $60 Partner's (2 Tickets) 🎟 Get Your Advance Tickets, Here. OR pay at the door via Cash, Venmo, PayPal, Zelle, or CashApp Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend BOUND. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets, access to additional discounted in-person events, and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

Party21+

Desert Heat Palm Springs Pride

Hosted by GPS

Nov 6–8, 2026🇺🇸 Hotel Zoso, Palm Springs, CA

DESERT HEAT - Palm Springs Pride Weekend - BIGGER and BETTER than EVER! Paul Nicholls & Justin David present The Biggest Parties of Palm Springs Pride! #feeltheheat 3 Days - 5 Events - 14 All Star DJs - ZOSO Host Hotel in the Heart of Palm Springs! 1) FRIDAY NIGHT: TUFF makes it's Desert Heat debut with their biggest Palm Springs Production yet at the ZOSO Hotel until 4am featuring music by T'DON & KARSTEN SOLLORS + the TUFF Dancers. 2) SATURDAY DAY: SUMMERTRAMP POOL PARTY! 3) SATURDAY NIGHT: The GPS: Gay Pride Saturday Main Event! The Biggest Gay Party in the USA returns to Palm Springs in the heart of it all at HOTEL ZOSO Palm Springs until 4am with more production than ever, and a musical feast from DJs JUNYO, BEN BAKSON and EDUARDO OMG! * SATURDAY AFTERHOURS (not included in any passes get your tickets at ReloadEntertainmentInc.com): RELOAD returns for it's 12th annual Pride afterhours at COPA with ALEXANDER RENDO 4) SUNDAY DAY: Pool Party to be Announced! 5) SUNDAY NIGHT: SUPER SUNSET TEA Closing Party! Finish the Weekend right at Palm Springs' Biggest Closing Party until 4am now BIGGER than ever at the ZOSO Ballroom! We are combining the legendary DJ Duo THUNDERPUSS with the one and only Missionary of Happiness ANNE LOUISE! This will be a night for the books! Upgrade to mistr VIP and get Express VIP Admission, a VIP area with complimentary snacks at all evening events, exclusive Access to the VIP LOFT with it's own Bars, Restrooms, Chill Zone with AC + VIP Hosts and Amenities at the pool parties + surprises & gifts! Make your Weekend Extra Hot with VIP Tables & Cabanas! Reserve conveniently online before they sell out! Please note tickets are separate.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

Class / Workshop18+

SF: Welcome to the SF Bay Area Scene

Hosted by Wicked Grounds

Sat, Nov 7, 202612:00 PM – 2:00 PM🇺🇸 Trellis, San Francisco, CA

This Kink 101 class gives you the basics on the San Francisco BDSM scene. It's perfect whether you're new to kink, new to the public scene, want to learn more about local BDSM play and education! --- New to the local public scene? This Kink 101 class gives you the basics on the San Francisco BDSM scene, and is perfect whether you're new to kink, new to the public scene, or want to learn more about local BDSM play and education. Join us for this quick orientation to the local kink scene. This session is perfect for folks who are making their first brave steps into the San Francisco kink scene. This class is also a perfect intro to etiquette and protocols if you're planning to get involved with local play parties and organizations. PRESENTER: Miriam Green has been in the public kink scene for 20 years in the Austin, Houston, and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community, BDSM negotiations, and dating while kinky. They are also the owner of Wicked Grounds. You may also book personal consulting and coaching sessions with them at https://WickedGroundsAnnex.Teachable.com TICKETING: Tickets: $20 - $50 in advance, or $30 - $60 at the door. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/4117aa2673 The regular ticket is $30 in advance or $40 at the door. This is what most people should pay. We offer multiple price points to lessen cost as a barrier to attendance. ACCESS: In SF, this class will be held at Trellis. Please note that doors will close quickly so we recommend arriving 15 minutes before the class start time for check in. Doors will be closed and locked at 12:15. We cannot guarantee entry after this time. Please do not attend in person if you have any respiratory symptoms whatsoever. Anyone displaying signs of respiratory symptoms may be asked to leave, regardless of vaccination status.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

Class / Workshop18+✦ Beginner-friendly💻 Online

ONLINE: Hypnokink 101

Hosted by Wicked Grounds

Sat, Nov 7, 20262:00 PM – 4:00 PM💻 Online

Get to know the kink that is limited only by your imagination, hypnosis! --- Requiring no physical interaction or any equipment aside from your very own mind, hypnokink is highly accessible, tailored especially to your desires, and can be done solo or partnered. Hypnosis can be entirely non-sexual and Safe For Work, while also resulting in euphoric levels of pleasure. If this tantalizes you, allow me to introduce you to the beauty that is hypnokink! In this class, we’ll discuss basic hypnosis practices and how they can benefit you, while exploring specifics about how we can interact with hypnokink from any position or role without compromising boundaries or comfort levels. The class is open to all, so if you or a loved one is curious about hypnosis or just want to explore something new, please come join us! PRESENTER: Faun (he/him) is a smut writer and kink educator from the Pacific Northwest. Despite knowing he was firmly on the ace spectrum in his teenage years, he always felt that something was missing. One day, he stumbled upon a website chock full of hypnokinky stories, and the rest is history. Now, he hopes to help others find their own niche in the kink community by sharing what he’s learned through study and experience. You can find him on AO3 and tumblr as spiraledfaun, and on Fet as deerfaun. TICKETING: $20 - $40 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/4d9ced174a We offer a sliding scale, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. So - that's it! Choose the level you can comfortably afford. Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month's discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds! If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the "Volunteer List" to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis. ACCESS: This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will be recorded and provided to attendees for viewing up to one week after the class date. Zoom now provides closed captioning, which will be available for this event.

Class / Workshop18+

SF: Electro Play from the Bottom

Hosted by Wicked Grounds

Sat, Nov 7, 20263:00 PM – 5:00 PM🇺🇸 Trellis, San Francisco, CA · Rambling Rose conference room

"Electro Play from the Bottom" is an exploration of the wide variety of sensations and pain that can be inflicted using electricity. The instructor, pangressive (he/they), will be bottoming, assisted by demo top Addy (she/her). pangressive will explain the similarities and differences of a wide range of electro toys, and will describe what they feel like. He will endure a violet wand, zappers, cattle prod, flyswatter, shock collars (not applied to the neck), a TENS unit, and a hand-crank magneto generator box that he built himself out of a WWII field telephone. If he's still verbal after all that torture, he will share some data and home science investigations on the effect of electric current on human body resistance and the changes in pain perception that correlate with changes in body resistance. PRESENTER: pangressive (he/they), a bottom-leaning switch, is the host of Current Events, the Bay Area's electro munch. They are also the host of BABKA (Bay Area Bi/Pan Kinky Alliance) and co-host of P6 (Partially Prenegotiated Pansexual Prison Play Party), a private group that produces group CNC/free use scenes. pangressive has been in the kink scene since 2001, when he walked into Seattle's storied former dungeon club The Wet Spot and said he wanted to get beaten up. They have played in the Seattle, Boston/New England, and Bay Area scenes, with some experience in the D.C. scene as well. His scene experience includes both pansexual and gay male spaces. pangressive enjoys tight bondage of all kinds, impact, clips and clamps, hot wax, and occasional sexual content in scenes in addition to electro. They are excited to present an intro to electro play from the bottom's perspective, assisted by well-respected kinkster and experienced presenter Addy (she/her) as demo top. TICKETING: Tickets: $20 - $50 in advance, or $30 - $60 at the door. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/ea01218044 The regular ticket is $30 in advance or $40 at the door. This is what most people should pay. We offer multiple price points, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance. If cost is a barrier at any point on the sliding scale, please use the Volunteer List at the bottom of the listing to request a scholarship seat. ACCESS: In SF, this event will be held at Trellis (Rambling Rose conference room). Please note that doors will close quickly so we recommend arriving 15 minutes before the event starts for check-in. Please do not attend in person if you have any respiratory symptoms whatsoever. Anyone displaying signs of respiratory symptoms may be asked to leave, regardless of vaccination status.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

SponsorPaid placement
Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

SponsorPaid placement
Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

SponsorPaid placement
Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

SponsorPaid placement
Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

Social21+

FAUCET: A Party for Piss Pigs

Hosted by NYC Inferno

Sun, Nov 8, 20264:00 PM – 9:00 PM🇺🇸 Pickles Playground, New York, NY

FREE PISS PLAY 101 CLASS from 2:30 - 3:30PM taught by Adam $35 Cash (includes beverages, clothes check, towel, shower access) Location (for both party and class) 210 5th Ave, Park Slope, Brooklyn (Private Address) Bring ID. RSVP (not required) : partiful.com/e/ih87qdx5QakWZWf2OKqZ No Dress Code: Wear as little or as much as you want. Please DON’T wear cologne, fragrances or deodorant. Wear shoes or footwear you don’t mind getting soaked in piss. Reduced List Available, email nycinferno@gmail.com Each month, the world’s sexiest piss pigs regularly travel to Brooklyn from places as far away as London, Phoenix, Seattle, Berlin or the Bronx. Why? Because they know FAUCET is the wettest, wildest, friendliest and piggiest piss party on the East Coast. Over 100 thirsty players show up at Pickles' Playground on the first Sunday of the month. They come from all levels of experience, but they usually leave very happy, telling us that they've never been to a party like it, that they did something they've always wanted to try but were afraid to, like getting drenched in a piss pool, drinking from the tap, or getting pissed on in a sling! They always say they'll be back, and return they always do! So what's keeping you from joining us at one of FAUCET's upcoming Fall Piss Parties on Sundays November 8th, December 6th, or January 3? New to piss play or piss parties? Join our FREE-PRE-PEE-PARTY Piss Play 101 class! Show up at 2:30 PM to learn the ins, outs, tops and bottoms of golden showers, and meet other newcomers and prospective guests, in a friendly, laid-back, no-pressure environment. Seriously, this is a great party for first-timers and the curious voyeur who loves to watch piss videos at home... but really wants to see it in person... Once the party starts at 4 PM, we’ll be offering free beverages (or BYOB—no glass bottles, please!) and snacks… plus any liquid refreshment your fellow guests might have on tap! REDUCED $25 admission for Queer, Trans, POC folks or others in need of reduced admission. Email nycinferno@gmail.com to get on the list. You don’t need to explain why you need it, just email so we get a sense of how many people need reduced. Guests with motion disabilities: please note that the party space is sadly not accessible. Flyer by Brian Raudenbush FAUCET PRACTICES CONSENT! Ask for consent before touching somebody, and if they say “no thanks” or don’t respond enthusiastically, move on. If someone you’re watching asks for privacy, respect that. If you aren’t finding what you are looking for, just be kind and keep mingling, and you’ll surely find someone else into your scene. Nudity does NOT equal consent, and consent can be withdrawn at any time. Please DON’T BUTT INTO other SCENES in PROGRESS. RESPECT! Party staff keeping an eye on the space will enforce a policy of zero tolerance for anyone who disrespects a guest for their race, gender, disability, size, age, appearance, gender, genitals, kinks, for using condoms, for not using condoms, for being thirsty, for being shy, for being naked, for wearing “too much,” for wearing the “wrong” thing, or for who they are in any other capacity. ACCOUNTABILITY! If you feel someone is violating your boundaries, being too aggressive, or threatening your safety in any way, please find Adam, Pickles, or one of our staff immediately, and we will remove them from the party. FINALLY: Thanks for reading this far. You’re so sexy! Have a great time. WHAT IS FAUCET? ANSWERS TO FAQS FAUCET is NYC INFERNO’s monthly piss play-centered party for folks of every level of experience. Faucet parties take place in the same space as NYC INFERNO, a basement sex club with a cruising maze, multiple rooms, public and semi-private spaces for play; a social area for drinks, conversation and connection; and three piss tubs for folks who like to get pissed on. You have the whole club to get wet in, no areas are restricted except clothes check and the bathroom/clean up area. There is a shower and we provide towels for you to use post-shower where you can clean up/rinse off. We also provide a fridge of free beer and a bar with non-alcoholic selections - soda, juice - and snacks. As with NYC INFERNO, FAUCET is as social as it is sexual. Folks usually enter the party, have something to drink, socialize in our main room, before venturing off into our front room or back room, or into the maze, to make connections. Queer and trans kinksters are welcome and have been coming to the party since the beginning, though the party usually attracts a majority cis-gay crowd. Most guests tend to arrive between 4 and 5:30PM, many tanked up and ready to piss. FAUCET is a kink-positive party: wear whatever makes you feel sexy: rubber, pup hoods, jockstraps, thongs, or go naked! Do you like to wear clothes and get pissed on in them? That’s fine too. Voyeurs are also welcome. If it turns you on to watch, please do so, at a respectful distance, and

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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