Yes Sir! | A Mens BDSM Impact Play Party
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Welcome to Yes Sir!
A Men's Only BDSM Impact Play Party
Yes Sir! is a men-only BDSM impact party built for men who want a dark, erotic space for impact, tension, and kinky exploration. Impact play is the theme of the night, with room for other BDSM play as it unfolds.
Expect a room where flogging, spanking, paddles, canes, whips, rough body play, sensual impact, heavier impact, bondage, restraint, and CBT can all have a place. Sex is not the focus of the party, but may happen within scenes.
There is a separate social lounge area for talking, aftercare, and connecting outside of active play.
What to Expect
8 PM | Doors Open
- Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play.
9 PM | Rules + Room Opening
- Once the room opens, men are free to negotiate, play, and move through the space at their own
pace.
1 AM | Party Ends
The Vibe
• Ambient lighting and expressive house music that drive the energy
• Furniture designed for real use, not just atmosphere (Benches, suspension points,
spanking benches, massage tables, wall space, kneeling benches, stocks, and more)
• A dark, erotic environment where impact, tension, and desire build side by side
• Space for scenes to unfold with intensity, creativity, and control
What to Bring
- Implements, toys, gear, lube etc
- A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table
- Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs.
Dress Code
Dress for the energy of the party.
Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome. Nudity is allowed throughout the space. If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately.
Meet Your Facilitators
Yes Sir! is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care support a wide range of impact and BDSM exploration.
Location + Entry
Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem
Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035
Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above.
- Push the door hard to enter.
Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total.
Tickets 🎟️
$30 Members, $40 General Admission, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2)
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You do not need to be a member to attend YES SIR!. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [ This listing was imported from a public calendar. If you're the organizer, claim it to edit the details, add tickets, and manage RSVPs.Is this your event?
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