Welcome to STING NYC!

A Spanking Party for Men

STING NYC is a relaxed, men-only spanking party built for men who want space to give, receive, trade, watch, learn, and explore spanking in all its forms.

Whether you are brand new or deeply experienced, STING NYC offers a playful, open environment where men can connect through impact, discipline, technique, erotic tension, and shared desire.

From the sharp snap of a belt to the satisfying smack of a hand, this is a room for men who know that a good spanking can be playful, connective, intense, and deeply satisfying. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, aftercare, and connection outside of active play.

What to Expect

1 PM | Doors Open

• Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room.

1:45–2 PM | Arrival + Connection

• Meet others, go over the house rules, and set the tone before play begins.

2 PM | Play Room Opens

• For negotiated spanking, impact, watching, learning, connection, and exploration at your own

pace.

6 PM | Party Ends

The Vibe

• A men-only space centered around spanking and impact

• A relaxed, social, and erotic afternoon atmosphere

• 12+ spanking stations and an open layout

• Stations including a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking bench, kneeling benches, massage tables, and room for creative positioning

• A separate social area for aftercare, downtime, snacks, and conversation

What to Bring

• Implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use.
• A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table
• Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs.

Meet Your Faciliatator

This event is led by Dan, a long-standing member of the spanking community and a trusted facilitator within

The Kink Collective.

Dan brings his passion for spanking and his easygoing style to create a space that feels safe, playful, and welcoming to all men in attendance.

Location + Entry

Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem

Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035

Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above.

• Push the door hard to enter.

Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total.

Tickets

$20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets)

🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here

Interested in becoming a member?

You do not need to be a member to attend STING NYC.

Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]