Effective kink negotiation isn't always intuitive, especially when you're just starting out. But it can be learned, and we're going to do just that.
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Ever felt that pre-scene flutter of nerves when it comes to expressing your boundaries or deepest desires? You're not alone. But being honest about your desires and voicing them out loud is critical for safe, hot scenes -- and it's what experienced players will expect from you.

Effective kink negotiation isn't always intuitive, especially when you're just starting out. But it can be learned, and we're going to do just that.

This Kink 101 session is designed to transform hesitant conversations into confident, connection-building dialogues. You'll walk away with practical tools to ask for exactly what you want, making your play hotter, safer, and incredibly fun.

We'll explore:

Negotiation styles for your own style and voice
Mastering pre-play agreements that set the stage for thrilling scenes
How to negotiate without breaking the mood
Nailing communication during and after the scene
How to adapt scene negotiations within existing BDSM relationships

This workshop welcomes all genders, orientations, and dynamic styles.

Drawing on the psychology of peak experiences, we’ll learn how to collaborate as partners, using negotiation not as a chore, but as a powerful act of co-creation. Whether you're curious about kink, a relative newcomer, or a seasoned kinkster looking to sharpen your communication, you'll walk away with new perspectives and skills.

Get ready to navigate your desires with a newfound swagger and make every negotiation count!

PRESENTER:

Miriam Green (they/them) has been active in the public kink scene for over twenty years and an instructor for more than twelve, focusing on communication skills, impact play, and advanced kink techniques. As the owner of kink education company Wicked Grounds, Mir collaborates with dozens of other educators to offer a wide range of classes for kinksters at every stage of their BDSM journey.

Over the past dozen years, Mir has taught several hundred BDSM classes through Wicked Grounds, Society of Janus, Foundations, Arizona Power Exchange, Dark Odyssey, Boundless Events, and other respected kink organizations and conferences. They particularly enjoy leading intensives, helping students deepen their kink skills over a day, weekend, or multiple weeks online. You can also book personal consulting and coaching sessions with Mir at WickedGroundsAnnex.Teachable.com.

TICKETING:

The regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay. We offer a sliding scale, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford.

https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/ff1232430f

Please note: This class is available for free to Wicked Grounds Patreon members who are subscribed at the VIP level ($30/month or higher). If you are a current Patreon member at that level, please reach out to Events@WickedGrounds.com to be put on the guest list. You may select one Kink 101 class per month for this benefit. Want to join? Go to Patreon.com/WickedGrounds to sign up!

If cost is a barrier at any point on the sliding scale, please use the Volunteer List at the bottom of the listing to request a scholarship seat.

ACCESS:

Attend online anywhere via Zoom! To participate, you will need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class. This class will be recorded and is available for later viewing. Zoom now provides closed captioning which will be available for this event.

This class will be recorded and provided to ticketed attendees the day after the class and will be available to watch for seven days after it is emailed.