Welcome to Diaper Debauchery...

This is a party where you can show up exactly as you are—diapered, kinky, and free.

About This Event

Diaper Debauchery is a kinky queer diaper community night where you can show up exactly as you are — diapered, curious, kinky, and playful.

Hosted as part of The Sanctuary Sessions, this is a queer-friendly space where ABDL and kink can coexist without judgment. It is a place for diapered expression, kinky exploration, and real community, with consent at the center of it all.

The night may include diaper play, impact, bondage, group play, insertables, voyeurism, cuddling, and aftercare. Some nights are more social, some more playful, and some more erotic, but the purpose stays the same: to give people space to express their kinks with their diapers in a room built on openness, respect, and freedom.

While this is not a sex party, consensual erotic play may naturally unfold. Nothing is assumed, no one is owed access, and watching does not equal participation.

What to expect 

8:00 PM | Doors Open

The room begins organically. People often start socializing, exploring, and connecting soon after

arrival.

9:00PM Brief check in & Rules

Once the room has settled, we pause briefly to go over house rules.

Then the party continues naturally and the rest of the night is open for connection, play, exploration, and expression at your own pace.

1AM Party Ends

The Vibe 

• Separate social, cuddle, and play areas

• Soft lighting and immersive music to support the energy, mood, and pacing of the room.

• Furnished stations for impact, restraint, and intimate exploration (St. Andrew’s Cross,

spanking benches, sex bench, and more)

What to Bring

• Implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use.
• Diapers, outfits, buzzes, and more
• A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table
• Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No drugs.

Your Facilitator 🤸🏼‍♂️

This container is guided by Dan, a seasoned member of The Kink Collective known for creating

relaxed, welcoming spaces for queer erotic play. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection

while making room for a wide range of expression.

Location + Entry

The Sanctuary of East Harlem

113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035

Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above.

Push the door hard to enter.

Accessibility

No elevator. 20 steps total.

Tickets 🎟️

$20 Member's Ticket | $30 Solo | $50 Couples

For Advanced tickets, Click HERE.

Tickets at the door (cash, Venmo, Cashapp, Zelle and PayPal)

Diaper Debauchery is one of the only parties where ABDL and kink coexist freely. Come curious, come playful, come as you are. Leave connected.

Interested in becoming a member?

You do not need to be a member to attend Diaper Debauchery. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]